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Renda, 28
United States, Wisconsin, Watertown

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About Me

I'm Bi, open to date dudes or chicks butno crazies!!!( im looking for a date, not a nut) I believe that gender should not put limitations on love. No one chooses who they fall in love with and no one should turn love down or push it away.I believe there is no relationship without trust and communication. If the trust is ever broken, the relationship must end, i don't give second chances.... Just be straight up with me and I will do the same. I'm a very optimistic, intelligent, fun, energetic, playful, youthful, outgoing woman. I think your only as old as you feel! I have a beautiful 9 year old son I have full custody of, he comes first. I pride myself on being a great mother. I am very liberal.I get stir crazy easily. I'm addicted to technology. I don't normally watch TV because i like to do something productive all the time (not to mention most everything is brain rotting garbage and scare tactics) but with the right company I looove to cuddle up, relax and enjoy each other. My number one goal in life is to be self-sufficient. I want to be a farmer when i grow up! I am not in any way, shape, or form, prejudice. People that are get on my nerves. In my spare time some things i like to do are: make jewelry, tie dye, hula hoop, read, fix computers, canoe, hike, camp, go to the park, play online, ect. I love to learn. I'm a "cheap ass". I love thrift stores and goodwill. I love to laugh- people should smile more! I guess my style would be "hippie" but i take baths regularly lol! I love festivals! I love all kids of music. i like a lot of techno & dubstep (bassnectar, prodigy, cookie monsta), some rap. Acoustic music is amazing. Acoustic guitars turn me on! I LOOVE incubus, i haven't heard a lot of indie but what i have, Ive loved! I just recently started listening to country, after living in SC for a year i have come to really like a lot of it! . I like some jazz and blues.. Folk/Bluegrass & jam bands (GRATEFUL DEAD) are some of my favs too. (crooked still is a new fav). "No Rain" by Blind Melon has to be my favorite song of all time. I like some harder stuff (Kittie, Otep [i saw them live!], system of a down). Finally, I'm just looking for new friends, casual dating and eventually someone to fall in love with that has the same love and APPRECIATION for me. Someone who enjoys children, someone who can reach me on an intellectual level, someone positive and spontaneous but still responsible and grown. I want a passionate lover, someone who isn't afraid to show affection, someone who knows how to make love. I need stability and assurance that i will never be betrayed, used, intentionally hurt or played. Just be REAL with me and i will do the same. Don't sugar coat anything just lay it all out on the table! I like blunt.One last thing, DON'T message me if:- you have a drug/alcohol PROBLEM (its one thing to have fun, its another to be dependent) NO PILL-BILLIES - you have a history of violence- you change your opinions/likes/personality/style to please others be creative!! On a first date i like to meet somewhere in public, usually close to home and nothing too hardcore. Dating can get expensive, i know! If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.? Bob Marley

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Shopping Boxing Snowboarding Soccer / Football
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