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Lettice, 30
United States, Wisconsin, Sparta

Offline, last seen Wed, 29 Apr 2026 18:31:03

About Me

First of all, I'm not on here looking to get laid, so if that's your goal, please don't waste my time. I can do that just fine without the internet. I'm looking for someone who has time to spend with me, who makes me laugh, who will watch sports with me and talk sh*t during the whole game. Someone who likes kids, isn't a drama magnet, and who finds joy in the little things. I am a very affectionate person, so physical affection and cuddling are a must. I am ultimately looking for a long-term relationship, but I also am well aware that they take time. Thus, I am here looking to meet interesting people with whom I can develop a friendship, spend time with, and see how things go. Hopefully I will find someone with relationship potential. If not, friends are always good to have too! But I will NOT jump into bed with you. For that, I need a genuine emotional connection, and that takes time to develop. Now that that's out of the way...I am a single mom of three beautiful girls (yes, all by the same man...i was married for nearly 8 years) and a graduate student in clinical psychology, with a concentration in substance abuse treatment. I am currently on internship, which is the last step before graduating and becoming a therapist. I am very compassionate, affectionate, loving, and family-oriented. I absolutely LOVE to laugh, and have a talent for finding the humor in any situation. I am very passionate about my sports and during football season, I can guarantee my girls and I will be at BWW in our Patriots gear watching the game. March Madness is a holiday in my house, and I am a die-hard UConn fan but also like the Heels. I love cars and motorcycles. I was a daddy's girl growing up and am a bit of a tomboy as a result. But don't worry...I can still be VERY girly!I am a straightforward person who does NOT play games and who tells the truth all the time. Honesty and communication are very important to me, so what you see is what you get. I don't have the time or the patience for games, so I hope you don't either. :) I strongly believe that a relationship is ***, so you have to be willing to put in work, but I can guarantee that I will do my part. The best way to keep me around is to be HONEST and COMMUNICATE! I will always tell you how I feel and what I need, so please do the same for me!Most of my time is spent with my daughters, and my mom and sister who are also my best friends. I absolutely love the beach, pool, and anything outdoors and family or community oriented. I have a passion for history, and am also very interested in archaeology, religion, and a variety of other "academic" I am not religious, but am more spiritual when it comes to my faith.-hop and R&), and cuddling with my kids. Yes, I'm a cuddler ;)I am looking for someone interested in a possible long-term relationship, who likes children and dogs, and who is affectionate, honest, considerate, and a good communicator. I love a man who likes to laugh and talk shit, and who can take it as well as he can dish it out, because I'm a bit of a shit-talker myself. I also want someone with a lot of patience and self-confidence. I don't have a lot of spare time, and I need that to be OK. I don't want to be constantly questioned about where I am and who I'm with because I don't have time to see you every day. I can promise you the answers are either home or work, and with my kids.I am NOT looking to get laid (can't stress that enough), find a new daddy for my kids (they already have one, thanks), or someone to pay my bills (I'm good with where I'm at, and on the way to being even better situated). Unlike a lot of single moms out there, I got this. I am fine alone, and am going to school so I can provide for myself and my kids. I want someone to enjoy my time with, to share life experiences with. A man for ME, not for my kids or my pockets. I would love to be picked up and taken out. I've actually never had that before. Dinner downtown and a walk on the river would be absolutely perfect. I like to talk, and I love to get to know people, so I would prefer to be in an environment conducive to conversation. Watching sports would be awesome, as well. But be prepared, I can really get into a game.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Reggae Reading Walking German Japanese Vietnamese Action Adult Family & Kids
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