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Thomas, 26
United States, Wisconsin, Sparta

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About Me

I am a woman who's on the road to a new life. I lived and I loved and I learned there, but it was time for me to leave. I finally have my life together again, so now I'm looking for someone to share that life with.I am sarcastic by nature, and not above making fun of myself (and others, but is there anyone who doesn't?) I come across as a very blunt person at times, and often don't think about what I've said until after I've said it... at which point I will promptly apologize for making such a rude remark, because I do *try* not to offend the people I care about too much. My clear honesty just gets hold of my mouth mouth before my filter kicks in!I am an intensely passionate and creative person. I started out majoring in music, and have since moved on to the movement arts (which you can get a glimpse of in my pictures.) I spend most of my spare time reading fantasy books, playing video games, making jewelry, learning more about hoop dance and firetwirling, and some of my spare time working on my music. While I never finished my degree, I still have a great passion for music composition!I have a moderately crazy lifestyle in my hoop and fire world, and my friends come as part of the package that is "me." I am sure of myself, confident in who I am and what I want in life. You'll have to be ready for change and ready to go at a moment's notice with me, because sometimes that's all the notice I have! It leads to amazing adventures sometimes, too.What I'm looking for is someone to spend my life with. I want to share my time and energy with someone who has some similar interests, but also someone who will challenge me to be a better version of myself every day. He must be dedicated and passionate, as well as willing to stick around. I won't even start something with someone who gives me the impression that he already has one foot out the door. For a first date, I think I would like to start the night with a Thai or Japanese place. It would then move somewhere that we could sit down and converse for a while... maybe after-dinner coffee, or a bar. The perfect date would end with a goodnight kiss.Realistically though, anything would be fun as long as there's good conversation involved.-key and there's usually not too big of a crowd.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Greek Thai Adult Drama Western American Football Volleyball
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