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Verthandi, 29

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About Me

I am a very unique and ambitious person. There's so many things I love and enjoy doing that I sometimes don't know which to choose. I am currently pursuing my master's degree, I work at a university coordinating graduate and international admissions, but I am also an artist and interior decorator (if I had more time and resources to do so). I also spent over 20 years in dance (hip hop, ballet, jazz, etc) which I went to college for. I would like to do more with that either at the theater in town or on the campus I work at or attend more workshops and conventions. I love being outside, doing outdoor activities, and traveling and seeing new things. I do love hiking and camping and have done REAL camping, out in the middle of nowhere where the only "running water" was a spring coming down the mountain. I listen to all kinds of music from pop to hip hop to rock to country, but I prefer modern and alternative rock and I enjoy going to concerts. I also like to sing (playing piano and singing or karaoke) and don't mind sitting at home and relaxing. I would love to find someone who sees my worth and who will want to get married and have a family; someone who will actually treat me good and who can show compassion and love and accept me for who I am, is compatible with me, respectful, HONEST, and a gentleman. The last couple years have been rough on me through an emotionally abusive relationship and not so great experiences since so I've lost a little faith in men and honest relationships and need someone who can PROVE to me that I can love again. I don't believe in words, I need to be shown that you mean what you say. So I'm looking for a guy who can be patient, kind and understanding. My end goal is to find something serious and forever, but I need baby steps to get there, build trust and take the time necessary to build something solid. I'm okay with dating and getting to know people to find my forever. Someone I find also needs to accept my daughter as she is a BIG part of my life and she comes first.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    I do not respond to *** Have no picture.... Have your number in them right away, or asking for mine. ... State something rude about what I wrote in my description.... Ask questions, when the answer's in my description.What you say has a huge impact on my decision to respond.I am one of the most honest people you will ever meet. It's both a blessing and a curse. I'm willing to try just about everything once. ALMOST.I LOVE LOVE LOVE Camping and music festivals, especially bluegrass, reggae, & hippie types.I love doing hick things, tractor pulls, rodeos, snowmobiling, & all that. I love meeting new people. I have a great sense of humor and a goofy personality. I can be a smart ass, depending on my mood, so you have to be careful 'cause sometimes I bite (seriously). I have 23 piercings and 3 tattoos. I guess you could say my style is more hippie/punk-ish. I love all kinds of music, alternative, reggae, rock, punk, country, metal, bluegrass, etc.My biggest dream:Going to a place with a huge beach, staying in a bungalow, and where the water is so clear, you can see all the way through it. I also want to climb a coconut tree and pick a coconut. :)What I want in my "better half":I can't stand lying, deceiving, arrogant, close minded people who think they are better than everyone else. So, now that I got that out of the way...I want someone that can take control, especially when I can't make up my mind (someone who can make decisions). Someone outgoing, fun & happy. They can't be obsessive or "stalkative," OBVIOUSLY. I want someone who has a great sense of humor. Someone who can make me laugh, someone who treats me with respect and is 100% loyal. I HATE LIARS! Don't put yourself in situations you feel you're going to have to lie your way out of. If you lie to me once, it's almost impossible for me to forgive you. It doesn't really matter, just as long as we're connecting & having a good time.

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I love life...everything about it! I'm outgoing, confident, and witty. I'm full of sass and conversation, lots of laughter and some lame jokes :-) I believe life shouldn't be taken too seriously, but should be lived with intention. I'm very goal oriented and would love to find someone with a similar drive, but also the balance to enjoy the journey and the moments on the way to the goal. I love meeting new people. I'm a country girl from the other side of the nation, whose thirst for adventure has consistently moved me East. No complaints from me about the opportunity to explore a new place :-) Physically, people tend to notice my smile because I'm always wearing it and my confidence and ease in conversation and I consider both a huge compliment. I love being me. There is always room for improvement, but I am confident in who I am inside and out. Confidence is the most attractive quality a person can have and it's a quality that is very important. Be someone who believes you are valuable and have something significant to offer the world around you. Like who you are and others will like you too :)I'm doing my grad work this year and it's an amazing experience. Life has been my greatest teacher and the risks I have taken (and a few I haven't) have shaped me into who I am. Education is my field, my passion, my art. I'm among the luckiest people alive because I've spent the last 8 years in the presence of urban high school students who have changed my life...and hopefully I, theirs. While the work is significant and sentimental it is also hilarious, never boring, and at times reality tv worthy :)Love red dresses and high heels, yoga pants and flip flops, being outdoors, bootcamp workouts that leave me dripping with sweat and accomplishment, watching sports, cooking, sushi, exploring new areas, traveling and laughing. Honestly, I really do love life and experiencing it fully. There isn't much I won't try because I believe new experiences equate to fully living. Somewhere we can talk and laugh.

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I was a substitute teacher for various school districts; I am a personal care assistant to a 7th grader at the moment but I am hoping to secure a permanent position as an English or Social Studies teacher at the Middle School, Junior High, or High School level. I enjoy reading and listening to music whenever I have the time. I go to workout at the gym a few times a week. I enjoy traveling all over the U.S. and abroad. I prefer to listen to country, pop, and rock music. I generally speaking do not like rap music or alternative. I want to get a masters degree, but I am not sure in what just yet. I also want to settle down someday and have a family. A nice first date would be for the guy to pick me up from my home, for us to drive to a restaurant which is not overly expensive but has a nice atmosphere. After dinner, we go to see a movie. The movie genre can be action, sci-fi, adventure, etc; anything but horror.

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