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I want to start off by saying I am on this site to try to meet a positive connection and a best friends. I have come to believe that any great relationship starts with a great friendship. I am not eagerly searching for someone as it will happen when it is meant to be! I realized it is best to just be up front on here, no hiding! I do smoke herb and cigarettes...cigarettes I am all ways trying to quit but I do indulge. I am a social drinker and I like to get out, be social, dance and check out bands and the excitement around town but in moderation. For the most part my time is dedicated to my kids, work, school and art but I do like to be actively social and to experience what I can when I can. Life is too short not to, live it up when at all possible! I want to explore more of what the Okanagan has to offer, hiking, beaches and camping. I would be so nice to meet some one cool to just chill at the beach with or to explore with. I find this site is hard in the way that It seems to be one extreme or another. There is the men that are in love after the first date and become attached right away, which is scary or men who just want to hook up or have no connection other than physical. I am looking for the in between. Something real..! I am a hopeless romantic and I do believe in love at first sight. I believe one should never settle, to follow your intuition and heart because they are all ways right. I believe when we meet our ever after if we are lucky enough to find them, that we will know with out a doubt that it is meant to be. That mutual love energy is the strongest bond there is and it would be wonderful to find that. We are all seeking that special some one, the problem is that people settle or commit there whole lives to living but do not really live or do not listen to their inner voice. Like those moments when you connect eyes with some random person.. feel something but do nothing about it. If we do not put our selves out there and listen to our intuition then we are not fulfilling our spirit or possibly missing out on an important message from the universe. To be blunt, I am attracted motivated, determined and spiritual people. who has drive, talent and follows there passions and dreams. I rarely watch tv other than the odd good movie.... so if that is how you spend most of your spare time we may not be compatible. If your world is wrapped up in material things, electronics and technology we would have very little in common. Material items do not appeal to me as much as a beautiful spirit, I find people hide behind there material items like a mask. I am more interested in what is in the inside and in ones mind! Physical characteristics do matter in the way that the attraction has to be there...that first impression. Everyone has in their mind of what a ideal partner would look like..that image of that dream somebody that stays with you your whole life. I believe there is a reason for that...being attracted to specific characteristics stem from more than just preference, it is soul searching. Kind intentions,Namaste This would vary depending on the person, weather, day........it is better to decide together I think! There are so many options for a first date:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Pru

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    A work in progress.....always striving towards new goals. I enjoy creating art, reading, music, and the outdoors. I'll get back to you on what makes me unique..... I enjoy all types/genres of music for the most part except maybe country. Depends on the time of day....

  • Domonique

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    OK, where to start? I am a woman that is happy, hard working, blunt, and very outgoing. I love being around people & LOVE every minute of life no matter how great or bad. I am good at reading people and don’t put up with bullcrap and drama in my life. I have tried my hardest to eliminate drama from my life and intend to keep it that way, so with that being said I understand that life happens and there are disagreements. I have a beautiful baby boy that is 2 and is my top priority. I am a full time a Photographic Technology student working towards my degree to be a professor & I have stage 4 breast cancer that I have been dealing with, so I have a lot on my plate. I am also not a tiny little chick or a super model, but I am comfortable with who I am. I am working on being healthier like everyone should. I do have a few tats & piercings. I like to throw that out there, so if your one of those guys that stereotypes girls then you can keep walking. So if you cannot look past somethings and get to know me for me, then I have no desire to talk to you :)For Fun: I like most water activities, fishing, playing pool, bowling, photography, and going to the movies, concerts, museums, and amusement parks.I would like to find a man that is honest, caring, trustworthy, has a sense of humor, mature but likes to have fun, affectionate, romantic, and drama free. I believe that you need to be friends in order to have a good relationship. I would like to find a companion. I am no one's booty call or one night stand. So, if that is what your looking for, keep walking. I want to find a guy that is completely honest and not just tell me something he things I want to hear to get me into bed. Finally, a man that can appreciate a caring woman.Some Dealbreakers: No drugs, liars, cheaters, got to have your own car & a job to pay your bills, and believe children are a blessing and should be treated as such :)I do not want to come across as too blunt, but I am tired of talking to men that just want you to send them naked pictures and not want to get to know you. I am have strong spiritual beliefs and attend church regularly, so if u have a problem with that then I am not the one for u. I am 31 yrs old. I have a great family and it is a very important thing to me. I enjoy going out and having fun. I am not a homebody. I like to be on the go all the time. I love most water activities, so the summer is great. I haven't gotten to be out much this summer because of chemotherapy treatments which has made my skin very sensitive to the sun; therefore, I have to limit being out in the heat.---SOMETIMES I may not be all that i want to be,..But I'm All That I'll Ever Need To Be---I have 5 Tattoos & I have 4 different kinds of Piercings.I'm a pretty well rounded and open minded individual.I'm the best me I can be, and it's taken a lot of trials to get to where i am today. To Each there own.. don't try and change me & i wont try and change you. Have Respect! I give everyone a chance.. In Order To Be Irreplaceable, 1 MUST Be Different!I'm Not the perfect girl, my hair doesn't always stay in place. I spill things a lot, i can be pretty clumsy..and sometimes!! I'll have a broken heart! My Friends & I Sometimes Fight. & there are days were EVERYTHING goes wrong. But when i look at it and take a step back, I REMEMBER that life is truly amazing & Sometimes i just like being IMPERFECT!!I've made mistakes in my life. I've let people take advantage of me and i've expected way less then what i deserve. But i've learned from my bad choices and even though there are some things i can never get back & people who will never be sorry... I'LL KNOW BETTER NEXT TIME! and i wont expect any less then what i deserve!! There comes a time in life where you have to let go of all the pointless drama & the people who create it & surround yourself with people who made you laugh so hard that you forget about the bad and focus solely on the good!---CAUSE LIFE IS TO SHORT!! TO BE ANYTHING BUT HAPPY!--I DON'T FORGIVE THOSE WHO HURT BECAUSE I'M WEAK! I forgive them because i'm STRONG enough to do so!I believe everything happens for a reason, people change so that you will learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they go right. You Believe lies so that your not disappointed when others lie to you & that way when you find the 1 who doesn't lie to you, THEN YOU KNOW their the one you can trust.. the only people who need you in there life? Are the ones who also need you in theirs. Good things fall apart so that things can fall back together!!I have NO regrets! I believe i am a mature person who can take things in stride, i'm so grateful for those who were in my past because i wouldn't have been able to get to today without them. : )Like any other person I can Be Selfish & Impatient.I can Get outta Control, & I can be hard to handle.I'm Outgoing, Fun & Very Curious.I LOVE TO SMILE!! : )I'm Crazy, Silly, Funny, Cute, Brave, Girly, Loud, Cheerful, Opinionated, Energetic, I'm Annoying, & Lots Of Fun.I'm Beautiful, not just on the outside. But On the inside!I have a pure heart. & a downright awesome personality!.I'm Sweet & Sassy With A lot of spunk. I have a pretty awesome sense of humor as well.. sometimes it runs do the dark side though.. so bewareI look for the best in everyone.. & i wear my heart on my sleeve.. it often brings me heartache. But it makes me stronger.! I'm often way to forgiving. I'm the type of girl who does her best to make someone else's day brighter, even if she cant make her own.--BUT IF YOU CANT ACCEPT THAT, Then You Cant Accept Me--I Love to read & write poetry, I sing, I laugh & sometimes get a little crazy! I have a passion for photography, music & of course. LOVE!.. that big L word that keeps eluding me!. I may have had broken relationshipsm But I believe someone will take notice.. and never let me go!I have belief, and i have faith. I'm optimistic. I don't judge. Everyone's innocent until proven guilty. By the court of Joy, I believe in being yourself.. and nobody else.I have the most OUTSTANDINGLY amazing friends in the world.. and for that. i'm by far.. the luckiest girl on the planet!.If after that you are still interested, message me and we can go from there :) I would like go out and get to know each other. I am kinda old fashion. I am not going to ask you out. If you are still interested after all that, then message me.

  • Mare

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Well I'm gonna try this again: Hi, I'm Carly! I'm a single mother to the most awesome little boy! I am currently a ushistory teacher. I love to travel. I love sports including football, basketball and baseball. I love to be out on the water and go camping but have not been able to nearly as much as possible. I believe in true love and will do anything for the man in my life. I listen to about anything as long as it has a good beat to it be it country rap rock or whatever. My friends and family mean the world to me and I will do and have done anything for them. I'm loyal to the end. I have never or will never cheat on any guy. I believe if it has come to the point that you don't want to be in the relationship....then end it, it's as simple as that. I can actually be shy until I get to the know the person better so please drop me a line if you like what you see. I'm not looking for a one night stand, I'm an adult and been there done that....wasn't fun. My first date can be anything from dinner and driving around just talking getting to know one another better to a picnic and a walk in the park or by the water. It really all depends when the date is and the guy. My perfect date would be for him to pick me up in the morning and we go to breakfast on the weekend, then go do something like rent a boat or go to the lakes, then have a picnic by the water and then maybe go see a concert or a movie...just make a whole day out of it.

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