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Vashti, 34
United States, Wisconsin, Menasha

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About Me

I'm independent. I take care of myself. I don't want a "sugar-daddy" I want someone who can teach me things I've yet to learn but is also interested in me as a person. Someone who doesn't think material possessions are indicative of success. I'm more interested in those who are spiritually evolved or at least open to the concept. (Not referring to organized religion. I'm much too strong-headed to be told what to believe). I want a relationship that recognizes each other's growth independently as well as the potential as a whole. It takes me longer than most to fall in love, but it's worth the wait. I love to touch, please and spoil my partner. I'm caring and loyal and a friend for life. If you're uncomfortable with emotions, you're probably not for me. I thrive on intensity but also require a substantial amount of personal freedom. Some say I'm harsh but really I'm just honest. Misunderstandings, *** ambiguity irritate me, so I try to avoid them whenever possible. Truth, even harsh truth is where I exist comfortably. If you're easily offended then you should probably take some time to connect with yourself. Own your discomfort, whatever it may be. If you want me to respond, please be more creative than "Hi, how are you?" Once you get to know me, then you can ask. I really am a sweetheart...promise Something casual, not too intimate. No pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Indonesian Middle Eastern
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