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Janay, 32
United States, Wisconsin, Marshfield

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About Me

I am a happy person. I believe in laughing so hard that it feels like a mini-vacation. I'm a glass is half full kind of girl. I always try to find a positive, even in bad situations. I'm a hard worker and love my job. I'm a nurse and wouldn't have any other career. My musical taste r mixed. Country, rock, pop.. a lil bit of everything. I am by far one of the least judgmental people you will ever meet. I love to talk. I love getting to know people. I have big goals in life. I want to go back to school. I consider myself a lifetime learner. I believe once you stop learning, changing and striving to make yourself better you might as well throw in the towel. I like to be spoiled but enjoy to spoil as well. I'm not looking for a one night hook- up. I like getting to know ppl. I'm choosy about who I let into my world so if your not willing to hang around long enough to get to know me then I'm not interested. I want to find that one man who loves being with me and whom I could think of nothing else I'd rather do than to make him happy. That man that takes my breath away. I want to be with a man that wants to be a team in life and the goal is to make each others wildest dreams come true. That being said... I'm a package deal. I have three young ladies to raise... they are part of my dream always! You must be self sufficient. A job and transportation are a must. You must be able to take care of me from time to time. All other times I'm able to take care of myself lol. ;0)And plz only positive ppl. I am tired of negative depressed ppl. Im sorry if your life sucks... go out and change it, you make it different!!! You have the power to do that just as much as I do :-DNOW... lets see who is still curious....time for my baggage.... here it goes! I state my status as seperated... that is true for the most part... I am still married.Divorce is in the works. I live in the same house as my husband, although seperate bedrooms. I do date. He knows it. We simply have a easier life if we parent our kids together right now. We don't hate eachother and neither of us have found anyone to give us reason to change the situation. I WOULD LOVE TO FIND THAT PERSON. I'm an honest woman and won't hide anything from anyone. I am tired of explaining this situation to everyone that I talk to so this fixes that. That being said... I am over the end of the relationship with my husband. Its been over 2years since things went bad. I have worked thru it and have healed. If you are very recently out of a relationship and things are still up on the air if its over don't come to me. I want someone that is truly able to take next steps in life.. not someone that Im really gonna like only to have them go back to someone else. Thx. I understand that I am an amazing, one of a kind woman. I have thoughts of my own, I am logical, I hold myself to the same standards as everyone else. I am willing to admit when I am wrong. I am a comforter. I love with every part of my being. Because of this I have had my heart broken a bit too much. I want that man that chooses me above everyone else and has a healthy fear of losing me. I refuse to settle for anything short of breathtaking because that is what I can be. Somewhere to talk and get to know one another. ;-) I love a great conversation. I love to have intellectual conversations as well as ones full of random nothingness. Good food, free refills and smiles r required. Lol.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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