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Kecia, 33

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About Me

About Me:I am a Christian and my faith has brought me thru so much in life. I'm pragmatic but spontaneous. Nurturing but competitive. Peaceful but energetic. I have traveled to Europe twice, and have a passport... ready to see more of the world as well.Time Saver:I do not date outside of my race. I value my time and yours, so please respect this. What I've Learned from Past Relationships:Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards. Loving someone is giving them the ability to destroy you and trusting them not to. A wise one once said: "Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else!!!!" We all need this! It is very important to find that equal yoke.You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there." -Bob Marley Anything that doesn't need the 'get out of jail free' card.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Winifred

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I've recently started changing my life. I moved to KC a little over a year ago to start a new career. I love my job and I'm glad I made the change. I really don't get out very much, but I do like to go out every once in awhile and have fun. Although, I do try to have fun in everything I do; whether out and about or at home. I used to be a pretty negative person but I woke up one morning and thought WHY. Its horrible to waist your life always being negative. Life's more fun when you are positive and open. I started losing weight about 6 months ago and I'm loving the results. I recently started working out and love how it makes me feel. If you are not a sports fan or know nothing about football or basketball, we will not get along. I love my sports and know a lot about them. I've been told my sports knowledge is a little intimidating, even to someone who has played sports their whole life. If you want to know anymore, just ask. My ideal first date would be having drinks and talking or go for a walk and get to know each other.

  • Tonette

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hello there. I am divorced, have two pretty awesome kids, and am an oncology nurse. I love what I do and I work hard. I am not looking for anyone to support me or my kids, we got this! I am looking for a genuine, down to earth, faithful, hilarious, goofy, teddy bear of a man to share good times with and see where it goes. I have had a very interesting life thus far and am made up of lots of different experiences. I love who I have become. I think I'm funny, smart, quirky, loving, caring, a little ornery but really soft-hearted, well rounded culturally, open minded, and try really hard to be non-judgemental. I can be a bit of a challenge to figure out and a little OCD. I think I have a lot to offer to a friend or significant other. I am not looking to get married again any time soon, but I would like to find that special person who just thinks I'm awesome and I think he's awesome and we can be awesome together. My philosophy on life is that there are no bad days, because if I wake up it's a fantastic day already, and I have no regrets! Anything I have ever done has helped make me who I am and I regret nothing nor will I regret anything that happens from here on out. If you think you can handle all this awesomeness, welcome! I'm a handful, but well worth the trouble ;) Update: I have big boobs, get over it! I don't need anybody making me feel not good enough. If I'm not good enough for you, then you certainly are not good enough for me. I am too old and wise to settle for anything less than amazing! How you look means very little to me provided there is chemistry and you can make me smile and laugh and feel good about myself. So bring on the tattoos, the beer guts, the bald heads, etc., as long as you have the personality to back that up. Thanks and good luck. surprise me!

  • Janay

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am a happy person. I believe in laughing so hard that it feels like a mini-vacation. I'm a glass is half full kind of girl. I always try to find a positive, even in bad situations. I'm a hard worker and love my job. I'm a nurse and wouldn't have any other career. My musical taste r mixed. Country, rock, pop.. a lil bit of everything. I am by far one of the least judgmental people you will ever meet. I love to talk. I love getting to know people. I have big goals in life. I want to go back to school. I consider myself a lifetime learner. I believe once you stop learning, changing and striving to make yourself better you might as well throw in the towel. I like to be spoiled but enjoy to spoil as well. I'm not looking for a one night hook- up. I like getting to know ppl. I'm choosy about who I let into my world so if your not willing to hang around long enough to get to know me then I'm not interested. I want to find that one man who loves being with me and whom I could think of nothing else I'd rather do than to make him happy. That man that takes my breath away. I want to be with a man that wants to be a team in life and the goal is to make each others wildest dreams come true. That being said... I'm a package deal. I have three young ladies to raise... they are part of my dream always! You must be self sufficient. A job and transportation are a must. You must be able to take care of me from time to time. All other times I'm able to take care of myself lol. ;0)And plz only positive ppl. I am tired of negative depressed ppl. Im sorry if your life sucks... go out and change it, you make it different!!! You have the power to do that just as much as I do :-DNOW... lets see who is still curious....time for my baggage.... here it goes! I state my status as seperated... that is true for the most part... I am still married.Divorce is in the works. I live in the same house as my husband, although seperate bedrooms. I do date. He knows it. We simply have a easier life if we parent our kids together right now. We don't hate eachother and neither of us have found anyone to give us reason to change the situation. I WOULD LOVE TO FIND THAT PERSON. I'm an honest woman and won't hide anything from anyone. I am tired of explaining this situation to everyone that I talk to so this fixes that. That being said... I am over the end of the relationship with my husband. Its been over 2years since things went bad. I have worked thru it and have healed. If you are very recently out of a relationship and things are still up on the air if its over don't come to me. I want someone that is truly able to take next steps in life.. not someone that Im really gonna like only to have them go back to someone else. Thx. I understand that I am an amazing, one of a kind woman. I have thoughts of my own, I am logical, I hold myself to the same standards as everyone else. I am willing to admit when I am wrong. I am a comforter. I love with every part of my being. Because of this I have had my heart broken a bit too much. I want that man that chooses me above everyone else and has a healthy fear of losing me. I refuse to settle for anything short of breathtaking because that is what I can be. Somewhere to talk and get to know one another. ;-) I love a great conversation. I love to have intellectual conversations as well as ones full of random nothingness. Good food, free refills and smiles r required. Lol.

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