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Ricarda, 31

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About Me

On each step of my journey, through each mistake and every success, I learn more about who I am and what I want. Now that I am 31, now that I have gotten to know and love myself, now that I am no longer afraid to be who I am despite what everyone thinks I should be, I am ready.I am a mother of 2. I work second shift in a call center. I write poetry, I read a lot of spiritual "self-help" I am fascinated by quantum physics, the law of attraction, aligning with the Tao, pursuing a peaceful path.-- I am studying the Tao, but incorporate beliefs and practices of Buddhism, Hinduism, and Paganism into the individual tapestry I have woven for myself. I love all kinds of music, anything that touches my soul.;I don't watch TV shows, but I do enjoy documentaries, indie films, horror movies (psychological thrillers, not gross gory zombie or chainsaw movies) and comedies. I am a Gemini and I definitely fit the profile. I am a vegetarian.I don't know what label to put on myself. I feel like whatever category I put myself in, someone is going to argue that I don't belong there. I considered myself bisexual forever and honestly even after I realized I was never going to "find the right man" who could make me feel like a woman could, I kept trying. I told myself I could marry my best friend and it would be "good enough" and I was wrong. Twice. I know I want to be with a woman. A SINGLE woman -- I don't want to be your good time on the side. I don't want to be a third to a married couple. Obviously the perfect first date will depend on the girl, our connection, and our mutual interests.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lucinda

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 32-42

    Well lets see : I've been in Martial Arts since I was 6 and a skater since I was 3 or 4. I'm on an inline skating team that I just joined this past summer,I can do many styles when it comes to skating which include tricks,racing,dancing and freestyle. Skating is my drug next to music and making music. I love long walks,Disc Golf,Soccer,Baseball,Softball,reading,movies,love movies, of course MUSIC and dancing!!! I'm a bit of a tech person and can basically fix just about anything I get my hands on even cars. I was raised different I guess than other people as I was taught that I could do anything as a child and I was seen as equal to anyone even though I'm female. Being female never set a limit for me so I never thought to limit myself in life and that I could do anything as I've always been curious about anything that I don't know or understand. I have too many goals so I'm doing one or two at a time daily at least and my over all goal is to just be the best me I can be. I love all kinds of music except rap and country.Also a lover of coffee and tea. Cuddling is nice,just sayin.. I tend to be very loyal,up front,honest. Hopeless romantic with no fear but detests any kind of drama. I'm half Romanian and half Swedish........ ;) My eyes are yellow. I have become a more so open person over the past 2 years.I've never tried drugs and never will just so you know. I'm looking for a woman that I can hangout with and see if anything is there as I'm looking for a relationship. Please only message me if you're serious about talking to me,must love yourself and actually looking for someone to be in your life. thanks..No males!!No couples!!No three ways!!No junkies!!No drunks!!No mental disorders!!No drama!! I'm up for whatever but I would say chat over coffee,tea or a drink and see what happens. I'm pretty old fashioned so if we click then I have to get to know you and if you're not interested in getting to know someone then move on to the next as you do..

  • Ryann

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 28-38

    Hello, I like to think that it is easy to meet people, but these days, who wants to meet someone at a bar....I would like to find someone I can get to know as friends first and possibly go from there. Why is the hardest section to fill out......I am single, no kids, never married, 2 dogs, and a little stubborn..lolI wear my heart on my sleeve. I am probably the nicest, sweetest, caring person you will ever meet. My friends say I have an old soul. And that I can always bring positive to any situtation and make them smile and laugh. I love everyone and sometimes get taken advantage of because of it.I will admit that I have had a tough life and been through more that someone my age should but it has molded me into the person I am today and I wouldn't change it for anything. I am looking to meet new people, friends mostly. Then maybe more. Right now I am focusing on the positive in life. Enjoying my job, working out, and the time spent with my family and friends. I know this is a pretty short description of myself but I could write a book. hahaSo if you are looking to meet a really great girl. I am a honest and loyal friend and/or girlfriend.I would like to expand my group of friends and maybe meet that perfect person i can spend the rest of my life with.I dont have a specific type but not really attracted to girls that look like guys. sorry This depends on the person but I will make the best out of anything :)

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 27-39

    I am looking for someone that i can be friends with and see where it takes us

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