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Bernice, 35

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About Me

Looking for a spark. I am at the point in my life where I am not willing to settle. I truly believe that love is out there and available to those who are willing to open themselves to it. I am independent and can take care of myself. I feel complete when taking care of those I love. My family is my world. I want to find that one that values the same things I do, who will challenge me when needed and is not afraid to put himself out there to see if I am the one. I love to cook, love to bake. I read quite a bit, mostly fiction. I do work a lot of hours. This can be a problem at times, but if I feel it is worth it, I will make the time. My friends and family will describe me as a funny,classy, down to earth girl with the mouth of a sailor. Please do not message me if you're interest is just sexual. Also, looking for more than "hi" in a message. If you cannot spell out words and choose to abbreviate the whole message, chances are that I will not respond. In the past I have done the 2 hour meet and greet...usually drinks. I think this is a good ice breaker. When we decide that we would actually like to go on a date together, it would depend on the season on what we should do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lovella

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Lets see. I have a 5 year old daughter who is the light of my life and she keeps me busy! I have her 50% of the time, so I do have every other weekend free and two nights during the week. I like to travel, but with a child I can't just pick up and go whenever. So when I vacation, I do it big. I love the Caribbean and have lots more to see yet! I eventually want to explore Europe someday too. I'm looking for someone to share life with. Deep relationships take committment, intimacy, and compromise and thats what I'm looking for! I want a relationship that is passionate, supportive, and fun, someone to have great conversations with and to travel with me to places I have yet to see. I work hard during the week, so I prefer more relaxing evenings and weekends. I don't really enjoy dancing or clubby types of places, but quieter bars or restaurants. I also love to stay in and watch a movie, a Tigers game, or just hang with friends, though dinner out is always fun. If we have a alot of the same interests thats cool, if not, I like a lot of ME time to do my own thing too! Its probably best if you're a Tigers fan though or we won't get along well :) I'm sure you can see by my profile that I'm divorced; please don't let that scare you off. It just means that I already know the type of commitment it takes to really be with someone. I got married way too young and I'm definitely not looking to rush into anything again. If you are interested or want to know more about me please don't be afraid to ***! :)

  • Melicent

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I'm a homebody who enjoys life's simple pleasures as well as the finer things. I am at times short tempered, but am quick to apologize and see the other side of things. I am very strong-willed; an admirable trait by my thinking, and slightly hard-headed(mixed feelings on that one). My dominant, strong personality might be a turn-off for the caveman type(that is to say the person who has the "caveman" mentality of women are second to men, and all those other antiquated ideas.), but that is his hang-up. I'm sure there are plenty of waify girls out there who would love to have them, and God bless them for it. I have no problem with a man of strong qualities, just so long as he treats me as his equal. My interests may not be those of the typical 30-something, but it doesn't bother me. Right now, I'm looking for a kind, happy, and fun-loving gentleman I'm compatible with to get to know in the hopes that it could grow into something more serious. A person I spend time with should be stable and have a positive outlook on life. I'm a big and beautiful woman. If that's not your cup of tea, then please move on. As hobbies go, I like writing in my journal, playing the occasional video game on my antique PS2, reading whatever strikes my fancy, and going out to dinner and a movie now and then. I also enjoy taking pictures, and plan on taking classes on professional photography very soon.-maker would suit me fine. I'm also a feminist; my ideas are my own and not subject to any pre-described notion as to what woman should be. I have no intention of having children of my own, but would welcome any children a potential partner might have. I know what I like and do my best to have it. I'm a small-town girl, so I am nosy by nature, and if you get to know me I will pepper you with questions about your life and then some. I possess many faults. Some I have been able to curb, and others I have learned to live with. You have to pick your battles, even if its with yourself. I know it sounds cliché, but I would want my ideal match to be my friend as well. If you have that first, all the rest usually falls into place...if its meant to be that is. "Things I like(in random order, and for random reasons)"-horror movies-the old TV show "Unsolved Mysteries"--books about sex and the way humans think(the more you know, the better you can be at anything)-tea(it makes me feel sophisticated for some reason, not to mention tastes better than coffee)--historical dramas(mainly for the costumes, but not limited to)-the color red(its an attention grabber, and I like attention)-watching men eat with their hands(its highly erotic; watch sometime and take notice)-doing arts and crafts with my 4 year old cousin(and being a good/bad influence on her as well)-pink roses(they say "hopeful lust" to me; I don't know why though)-Americanized sushi-the beach; even though I haven't been there in years(yes, shame on me.)-hanging out with my family Maybe I'm old-fashioned and boring, but I still like the whole dinner and a movie thing for a first date. The dinner allows for insightful conversation, and the movie; if things go well, allows for cuddling up in the dark. Now how could either be of those be dull? Of course I am open to other suggestions; I mean people do talk and sit close together in other venues.

  • Catina

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Hello, I'm a 31 year old mother of a beautiful five year old daughter who is my world, and keeps me living day to day, I'm a very down to earth person, I spend a lot of time with my family, I am currently going to college, my major in undetermined, I enjoy camping, bonfires, going to the movies, spending time at home, and doing fun things with my daughter, I tell it like it is and will not tolerate drama of any kind,I have a very short fuse for dumb people who ask stupid questions, my friends and I have a rule when we hang out, you get one stupid question a day, so don't waste it. Also, if your pants hang down below your butt cheeks, buy a belt, don't message me, nobody wants to see your underwear. Oh yeah, if your looking for casual sex, do not message me, there girls on the corner tryin to feed they babies, check them out, not me. Thank you and have a nice day.

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