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Carri, 32
United States, Wisconsin, Hudson

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About Me

In case there are the few serious people on here that actually read profiles, here is goes. Music is very important in my life. No I don't sing and I don't play anything. But there is something about the rhythm and lyrics to a great song that just moves you. Music is my way to calm down and just relax. Going to shows is one of my favorite activities. I hope to someday be able to move there or at least have a vacation place so I can go as often as I like. I'm a country girl at heart.I also believe in honesty. So if your looking for someone to sugar coat things and tell you what you want to hear, that's just not who I am. If your one of those guys that's so involved with their work that I'm going to be lucky to see you once a week, I respect that but please pass on messaging me. I'm looking for a relationship with someone that has time to spend with me. I know that seeing each other everyday is too much. Everyone needs their space and time wit friends. However, I am that person that believes that even if you don't see each other staying in contact is still important. Whether it be a text saying good morning or good night or just I'm thinking about you. Letting a person know that even when you aren't together you still are thinking about them is important. I do happen to be extremely opinionated. I've learned that having an opinion is healthy as long as you can back up your feelings for that decision. I do believe there are two sides to every situation you just have to make time to hear them. I'm a great friend. I know that sounds strange, but I think the key to being a good friend is just being there. Being available when they need someone to talk to, being a good listener, calling up and letting them know that your thinking about them or just want to spend some time together. Friends aren't there to keep you from being bored they are there to be appreciated and make you a better person. Your significant other should one day be your best friend. For the last 4 years I've done graphic design work for a local magazine "OUR TOWN" I've worked from home for almost 7 years now. It was nice in the beginning to be able to relax and not feel so rushed with everything. Working in your pj's was great too, however it's greatness slowly wears thin. It gets rather lonely. It's very hard to meet new for people and be able to make new friends.I'd like to add that if your the type of person that wants to spend your weekends bar hopping or at a club or going into the city, then you aren't really for me. I'm really not interested in doing those kind of things. I'm more interested in finding someone that would like to spend his weekends outside. Whether it be for taking a walk, fishing, relaxing out in the water, chilling on a boat or around a fire with some friends talking, going to a car show or a game or even a round of mini golf. Stuff like that. I'm looking for the down to earth guy not the pretty boy. Also, if your super close to his family and friends and have and are not willing to ever consider moving out of the area in the future then you aren't right for me, either. This area is not really somewhere I enjoy living and I would like to have an option to leave in the future. So just keep that in mind before you message me. Side note: Since people really are terrible at actually reading profiles. For the people that only skim I will make this as simple as possible:Message me if you: * Aren't that guy who feels the need to try to change a person into what you want them to be, but accept them as who they are* Are someone that can hold a conversation.* If you respect and take honesty seriously.* If you like going out & having a good time and still enjoy nights home.* If you can handle a girl who likes to sit around Sunday's to watch football & chill with the guys.* Understands that I will always enjoy hockey whether its a popular sport or not.* Loves animals (I have 2 dogs and 3 cats)* Isn't afraid to show people you actually care about me or be affectionate in public.Please DON'T message me if:* You start your message with Yo, Hey Sexy, Hey mama, Hey baby when you gonna let me take your sweet self out.... I can't stand when people talk to me like that. I think it's disrespectful and childish. * Don't have a car. I'm not a chauffeur and have not intentions of becoming one. * Don't "feel" like driving because your not in the mood or it's far or whatever excuse you come up with to make me have to come to you all the time. Not gonna happen.* You feel the need to always look like a hard ass. Not impressed. I find it annoying. * Are a suit and tie kinda guy. It's awesome that you have a good job but I'm to laid back for that lifestyle. * You feel it's my job to support you. If you aren't responsible for yourself don't expect someone else to be. * Aren't handy or can't stand getting your hands dirty.* Don't understand the value of money. (I referring to the jerk the feels the need to spend a stupid amount of money on a car or something to show social status or impress girls)* Like clubs and that thumping music that gives me a headache.* Smokes pot and cigarettes like they are going out of style. * All your profile pics are of you in front of a mirror, or you drunk or with a drink in your hand.* Drinks everyday of the week, and I don't just mean at the bar but at home too (dated enough alcoholics)AND MOST OF ALL* DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ALREADY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND. Guess it depends on the person. But some where we can talk would be good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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