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Joel, 31
United States, Wisconsin, Hayward

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About Me

I'm gonna get to the point here. I don't drink, I don't party, I don't do drugs of any kind, and I don't want to have sex before marriage anymore. You can move on if that is what you are looking for. For the few of you still interested and reading, hello. I am a 31 year old christian woman who has never been married and never really truly been close to getting married. I have 3 kids, who do not live with me full time. I am currently in the middle of a few major life changing processes . I have started working out as much as I can with a busted up knee. I am so close to being debt free that I can feel the weight off of my shoulders. I am in the middle of hunting for my next place to live. I recently lost my very best friend and the person that I lived for, my dad. I am so honest that it is almost a fault. I'm down to earth. I work a ton of hours and I am on call about half the month. I'm not perfect and my house is in organized casos right now. I am a bit clumsy, a bit random, and I am very unique. I am one of a kind. I'm not looking for a perfect man, god knows I am no where close to perfection. I do want a man who is honest with himself and the people in his life. I want a man who has his life together, knows what he wants and knows where he is going. A man that studies the bible and has a relationship with Christ. You don't have to go to church 2 days a week to have a relationship with Christ. Looking for a man who is willing and able to love open and honestly. Hang out, go to a club, just sit and talk. Maybe watch a movie or go for a walk. Whatever sounds like fun at the time. We can discuss this if it ever comes down to meeting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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