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Ashlie, 55
United States, Wisconsin, Delavan

Offline, last seen Fri, 24 Oct 2025 10:37:10

About Me

Not sure what I am really looking for anymore, but when I see I will know. Tired of meeting Men who tell me what I want to hear, make and break promises, and aren’t ready for something serious. Please……mean what you say and say what you mean!!! Anyone looking for a Gift????? or are you like the other guys on this site that are more interested in the wrapping paper??? Remember one thing, as you search for your 'one'....Over time the wrapping paper gets old and frail looking. But, if you're wise enough to take the gift inside....just imagine the happiness both of us could receive!I am looking for a casual relationship to start with, nothing too heavy. Needing to find my feet again out there in that big jungle. I want a man that truly wants the 'gift' inside as well as the wrapping paper. The relationship will be based on Honesty, wisdom, and laughter. Is all this too much to ask for?? A man that knows himself, has good values and a warm, passionate heart. A man who can be loyal to that special someone in his life!The basis for any good dating relationship is the bond you establish to create a good friendship. I think that it is very important to get to know someone and this takes time. Attraction is also important in the relationship, both physically and emotionally. Attraction not only comes from the outside but who the person is on the inside. In return you will get an Honest, caring, lovable person who has some much love to give that special person......you may ask yourself "is that person you"? Well if you feel it is and that you meet the criteria, then please drop me a line and we can go from there. You must have a picture to contact me...and please no time wasters.My Perception of an Ideal Relationship:Complete and utter comfort. I can be myself around you without feeling judged. You can sit in your room working while I read a book and I'm entirely content. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Down and dirty sex and warm and comforting cuddling are ever present. Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. After a 10-year relationship, I may be rusty about this dating stuff, but I'm not jaded by divorce. It's even clearer to me that there's not just one person out there. And even if you get lucky and meet a winner, there's a mountain of work ahead, no matter what. It's knowing that the work is worth it, What I've Learned from Past Relationships:Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards. It's better to understand than to be understood. Laughter can save a relationship; lack of laughter can kill itFirst DateFirst date….not sure!!! I am willing to entertain any reasonable offer. No Pressure! Let's just relax...become friends & get to know each other... and see what happensMy Idea of a Perfect First Date:It doesn't involve a chain restaurant, a roller coaster or a movie. It may involve eating, excitement or entertainment. It definitely involves me, you and a long, drawn-out moment where we don't want to say good night That all depends, it would have to be something that both of us would feel comfortable with. Lets both decide

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae French Korean Thai Turkish Martial Arts Music
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