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Marilena, 55
United States, Wisconsin, Delavan

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I have been searching for a few years now to find someone for a longterm relationship. It is not easy to find someone in my age group who has a similar semi-retired lifestyle.ABOUT ME: Of course there is much more to know, (I have had a very adventurous life and the grass does not change colour under my feet, nor does the sand sink very much, lol.); but this below touches on some major basic points.I am 55, almost 56; I have 2 daughters, ages 31 and 34 and I have 4 lovely grandsons.I love children and people of all ages, but am not a huge socialite, prefering to spend more time at home or with one or two other couples (I don't like crowds or crowded places.)I left an 18-year relationship because he got old and grumpy and I knew there had to be more to life. I then had a 4-year relationship with a man from a different country and there were too many differences. I have now been basically on my own for over 3 years and really not liking living alone very much. I would love to have a man in my life, the one who will do me for the rest of my life hopefully.My two biggest prerequesites in men are a sense of humor, a loving and romantic man who likes attention and someone who can spend months somewhere south on a beach in the winter.-end of things, no fancy resorts, but a rented apartment for ***month. I currently own a van, but have owned an RV in the past. I have not attempted any single RV trips as of yet. I have a dream of having one of those old English double--storey motorhome (no basement needed, as the newer RVs have - got too much junk that you need a basement then get rid of the junk!) I am very honest and down to earth. I do not play games. I know what I want out of life. I generally do my part-time work on the computer (medical editing), around domestic chores, however, I do not really have a set schedule. I prefer to 'work around my life' *** 'living around my work'. I like my place, whether it be a house, trailer, apartment, bungalow, RV or wherever I am living, to have plants and flowers and nice color- I no longer own a house. I do not watch much television, but like sitting and crocheting while my partner watches TV (so the remote is all his), I like to go for walks, picnics, lunches at small quaint places. I am not a city woman, and not high maintenance. I like to spend time on my computer, I do enjoy the computer other than work, researching things, communicating with family and friends, etc. I am not addicted to any video games. My birthday is on Nov 29, ***and I am a sagittarius. I do not like stress of any kind, I do not like to be rushed. Also, I am not a health nut, but am encourageable.I do not cheat when I am in a relationship. I do not like one-night stands, or even two-month stands for that matter, but would like to find long term. I don't like good-byes.As for nasty habits, I am currently taking Champix, and have cut down to a few cigs a day, expecting to be totally quit next week, I do drink, but do not frequent lounges or bars. I am not into drugs of any kind. I have been gettting away from winters here quite regularly in the last bunch of years.I am not one to have dinner at 4 and bed at 10. I get up when I feel like it, take afternoon naps sometimes and go to bed when I am tired, whether it be early or late. I have been married twice (2 strikes I am still in the game), so will do my best not to strike out on the last marriage of my life.- lol. (not on the first date I guess).Realistically, a snack or lunch with a glass of spirits on an outdoor patio or beach.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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