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Lilia, 54

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About Me

Kids are grown and the home has become really quiet. Morning newspaper reading is peaceful and I get the paper first.I've been divorced for a long time and everyone still talks to each other. Life is way too short for nonsense. Hence what I'm not looking for is nonsense. I work full time and take night classes to keep my resume impressive (laughing). Currently in full swing of downsizing to a cozy place of my own. My kids have for the most part moved out and started their own lives. I have a great relationship with them and enjoy their visits.No denying it that I'm a big woman - regardless of how you slice it - I'm big.I'm big at helping othersI'm big at cooking up a feastI'm big at pitching in where neededI'm sure you get the picture.I'm far from being a push over and that has nothing to do with baggage - more to do with life experiences. I'm interested in finding someone who will complement my life *** complicate it. I have no debt and I am very self-sufficient and am looking for someone who is the same. Knows who they are and has come to the realization that running the gamut can get boring and stale after awhile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Eleonor

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Me….I am the type who would set off on an adventure and let’s see where we end up. I’m the type who doesn’….that’s what showers are for. I’m the type who would think riding horseback to some secluded destination would be cool. I’m the type who will take a jet ski and chase that huge wake. I’m the type that likes to have a few drinks around a fire and get into deep discussions. I’m the type that would try ziplining (any takers on that?). For me life is an adventure and too short to go through it doing the same old all the time. There’s enough of the same old in all our lives…..work and other responsibilities take up most of our time. I personally like to do things that expand my thinking. I like challenges whether it's an activity or someone who is intelligent and clever enough to do just that. But I’m not all get up and go and looking for the next challenge. I enjoy movies quite a bit and sometimes long walks are the perfect way to end a day (especially on a beach….at night). I guess what I’m trying to say is for me living is pushing myself way outside of my comfort zone to do, think, and act in ways that are new to me and not worry about what is just acceptable or conforming. How else do we grow as individuals?What I’m looking for…..a guy who feels that life is too short not to live it. A guy who is active. A guy who is not afraid to go outside of his own comfort zone and challenges me to do the same. A guy who likes excitement and newness and isn’t afraid of the unknown adventure. A guy who sees life as an adventure and who matches my creativity in finding ways to challenge each other. And a guy who doesn't look at my age and click on because then you have sold me short. I look at least 10 years younger than my age and don't feel a day over 40. And distance really isn’t an issue for me as long as you're within a day's drive….The way I look at things is our perfect match just may not be in our backyard. So if you're willing to do some driving....so am I. I'm completely game to doing whatever it takes to make a long distance situation work. I have told my kids throughout the years to always stay open for possibilities….even when it seems like an impossible situation. I think that’s a good rule to follow. I don’t like to restrict myself in terms of possibilities. But then I’ve always been a bit of a risk taker. Besides….. Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, you're right. I prefer to think I can.

  • Shawanna

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    the world isn’t made of atoms, it’s made of stories.-muriel rukeyseri've been hanging around this place for a little while now, and i've heard quite a few stories. people are so unique...and so alike.i wanted to change my profile today because life being life, and me being human, things have changed. a thought occurred to me, and i decided to google what guys would like to read in an online profile. here's a list of things i found:* you want to know that i wear underthings that are sweet, and not my grannies.* you want to know that i don't nag because i don't sweat the small stuff.* you want to be proud to have me on your arm, in front of your friends.* you never want me to compete with you because you compete with each other, not with a woman that you're interested in.** you'd like to be respected. always.* you'd like to hear that i like what activities you like (bike riding, tennis, cars) but not necessarily participate in them.* you want to see me smile far more often than you see me frown. you don't really "get" negative feelings. it's drama to you.* you want to find yourself wanting my opinion and thoughts about the world.* you don't want to hear i want you to shop with me, and you don't want to hold my purse....ha! i thought that was pretty funny!* you want to hear that i will never, ever, ever say the dreaded "i'm not in the mood".funny, but i don't find any of that offensive or surprising. as a matter of fact, while i don't consider myself to be overly submissive or by any means a doormat, i think that compromise is essential in all of our relationships.i guess what i mean is, if i were willing to understand what someone wants and desires from a relationship, would that person be willing to do the same for me?it occurred to me to google what women like to see in a man's profile. i changed my mind. i know what i like. that's all that's important here.i do wonder if i will find it someday....

  • Katia

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I\'m very into health and physical fitness. Huge animal lover. I love to volunteer at a local animal shelter whenever I get the chance. I’m looking for serious people who take care of their health, love animals and are fond of sports.

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