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Lilia, 54

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About Me

Kids are grown and the home has become really quiet. Morning newspaper reading is peaceful and I get the paper first.I've been divorced for a long time and everyone still talks to each other. Life is way too short for nonsense. Hence what I'm not looking for is nonsense. I work full time and take night classes to keep my resume impressive (laughing). Currently in full swing of downsizing to a cozy place of my own. My kids have for the most part moved out and started their own lives. I have a great relationship with them and enjoy their visits.No denying it that I'm a big woman - regardless of how you slice it - I'm big.I'm big at helping othersI'm big at cooking up a feastI'm big at pitching in where neededI'm sure you get the picture.I'm far from being a push over and that has nothing to do with baggage - more to do with life experiences. I'm interested in finding someone who will complement my life *** complicate it. I have no debt and I am very self-sufficient and am looking for someone who is the same. Knows who they are and has come to the realization that running the gamut can get boring and stale after awhile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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