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Gretchen, 55

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About Me

I am a very outgoing person with a tiny bit of shyness in me, if that makes sense to you. Lol. I love to laugh and want someone with a great sense of humor as well. I'm very easy to talk to and a non judgemental person. That's the Nurse in me! :-). I believe to have a good solid relationship you have to have trust, good communication, total honesty and passion. I have had this and it's awesome! I love anything to do with nature and outdoors. Spring is my favorite season because everything comes back to life. I enjoy going out to eat, comedy clubs, listening to music... Love the 70's artist mostly, but enjoy a lot of types of music. I like exploring new places Iv'e never been to just to see it! I like to be spontaneous and just jump in ghe car and go for the weekend. Holding hands while we walk.. Looking into someone's eyes is like looking into their soul.. So when I speak with a person I'm sure to be looking into their eyes. I am a hopeless romantic and enjoy making people smile. Well, If anything sounds interesting and you think we might hit it off.. Let me know.. Thanks for looking! It would have to be in public.. I'm up for anywhere you would want to meet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nettie

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    How about sharing some time together? If you care about the little things in life, we probably wouldn’t have much fun. Laughter, fun, adventure....lets go to Guam..I love Jazz,Opera,Sushi,white spot burger with triple OOO ,a fine meal with a nice glass of chilled white. I love to read...I paint, large, and messy, and sell some of my work, although I dont know why,and find it hard to part with it.My perfect day would start late, a few hours over brunch with friends, and a browse in a good bookstore, or afternoon at an auction. I would love to share my adventures with somebody. What is your perfect day?About you...If your profile pic is you holding up a fish, or you spend your spare time at the gym "working on your abs" we probably wouldn’t be a good match. However, if you are easy going, have a sense of humour and value honesty and integrity, I think we might have something in common. You are cheeky, and creative, but a little conservative. I am cheeky and creative, but a free spirit..I figure one of us should be little conservative ;)Having said that, I own my own business and have been fully employed for the same company for over 35years, so I m not "flaky artist " . I value old fashioned work ethics, and I am at the point in my life whereI would like to make work less of a priority, and fun, travel and relationship , more of a priority :)I am ready to make a change , sell the house and downsize :)Ready for part two :)I am looking for a man I can laugh with, feel utterly and completely safe with and most of all be my, "Sunday lay in bed when it rains, reading a great book with partner"I need someone who can seduce my mind, excite me physically, and who moves me emotionally by being open with me. I want passion, raw, and risk taking, and at the same time knowing we are safe with each other. I want to lie in your arms, listen to your soft breath in your chest and feel the safety of your arms. I want to slide out of bed, bring you breakfast before you wake...I miss those things...caring moments. I know this is getting a little wordy, is that a word? However, I notice most men have things like "must not smoke”, "must look good in a bikini”, "must be perfect in every way" ...I just got back from having sushi, I was alone reading a book. I noticed the couple next to me said nothing to each other the entire time they were there. So my "must" is..."must like me enough to speak to me during dinner" :) Even when we are 80. If you have read this far..now is the important part. While all the rest is easy to describe and know, I get a lot of comments " why are you still on here" I am looking for passion. I won't settle for a passionless, relationship. I want a make me crazy, pull my hair and make me scream for you, man..and that is just waitin for him to come home from work lol..I am not your average girl. It's ok. I am good on my own. I am patient, my man will come, when he does, he will be able to Handle me..until then..I am still lookin :) Life is short, lets have some fun, I dare you Walk, wine...hopefully together :)

  • Ami

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Clarifications: I am not sure if I am exactly thin. (weigh 127ish, depending on my potato chip consumption) The photos are recent and not altered in any way, so decide for yourself. Also, I am ***cm tall. One kid lives with me, the oldest visits.Usually, people assume I am in my 30s or 40s, attitude, energy, interests, etc. wise.I can be glamorous (or edgy) and I can be goofy. When it's a good tune, I dance all around the house. I am a rock star in my car. I really enjoy other people. I have lived urban, small city, rural. All are great. I am stable and dependable, yet spontaneous and able to take risks. I am passionate and enthusiastic about my work. Actually, that's true about all my interests! Really though, I do know how to relax too. (can't get enough of the beach)My perspective on things is often irreverent or unconventional, but never mean. I tell it the way I see it. I make a lot of people laugh but I am a terrible joke- I am looking for love and fun and companionship -- I am not looking to rescue you in any way; I am not looking for a provider or a protector or a toy boy. However, if you are the one for me, I will turn cartwheels for you! (former cheerleader, can you tell?)My kids ***and ***are my number one priority, without a doubt! They are amazing. Weird and wonderful. And so much fun. I am a lucky mom and I know it. This past weekend I watched my son be 'trainer' for a Major Atom AA hockey team.. Awwww. (jsyk, his tie was ugly-- but he was very handsome. and so serious. So proud I could pop!)My interests are learning and doing. Everything from fitness to psychology. Cultural events to creative arts. Reading to dining out. Marketing/business to home renos. The list goes on and on.... My goals in life are to learn a lot, do a lot, achieve a lot of my dreams, love a lot, laugh a lot....... :) I am sure we can find interests in common.I see an ongoing back and forth conversation bubbling over with energy, ideas, laughter and passion for life, often while doing things or going places! maybe hiking, going to an estate auction, painting a room, attending a concert or play, hanging out with family or friends, exploring a new location, etc. I am not willing to settle. I want a lot, but I have a lot to give! (apparently, my fave phrase today is 'a lot')And YOU? You're uniquely you! I look forward to learning about you, your ideas, interests, etc.Actually, we do need to share some of the same traits and attitudes toward life (this list is not in any order):ethical, reliable, responsible, thoughtful, trustworthy, affectionate, considerate, kindenthusiastic and energetichave got your life together, capable, financially stablenot one of those people whose lives are always full of drama physically fit, look good in your clothes.....mostly good-humoured, play well with others, friendly, prefer people to screensquite talkative, yet listen wellappreciate and respect different people, opinions and viewpoints prioritize your kids (it shows in your actions, not just your words)younger than your years and always will be able to be a team playersmart (always learning)agree that education isn't always found in schoolnot sarcastic or mean, you don't believe in revengecan laugh at yourselfable to accept (and give) love and support freely willing to let a relationship take its course (I am looking for love and like/friendship and chemistry all in one)know the value of simple things (and enjoy the finer things too)not totally obsessed by one aspect (sport, hobby, business, etc) of your life (unless it's your kids)you like hugging (like you like breathing)believe love is a joyful verb, as well as a wonderful experienceglad to be alive every daytry to see the bright side in experiences and learn from them (kinda hokey, but kinda important)It's not about public image or competitive achievement checklists.FYI, I don't like non-readers, facial hair (except eyebrows!), couch potatoes, motorcycles, homebodies, complainers, hunting, or fishing (unless we don't catch anything). Also, I don't believe the world is worse now than in the past.)bookstore (lots of ideas for conversation there, I would think)flea market?sports event?maybe we could arrange to observe each other (at a gym or somewhere) for a while to see if we like what we see?? (just thinking out loud here.... and 'observe' sounds less creepy than 'spying')what's your idea?

  • Shawanna

    Online

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    the world isn’t made of atoms, it’s made of stories.-muriel rukeyseri've been hanging around this place for a little while now, and i've heard quite a few stories. people are so unique...and so alike.i wanted to change my profile today because life being life, and me being human, things have changed. a thought occurred to me, and i decided to google what guys would like to read in an online profile. here's a list of things i found:* you want to know that i wear underthings that are sweet, and not my grannies.* you want to know that i don't nag because i don't sweat the small stuff.* you want to be proud to have me on your arm, in front of your friends.* you never want me to compete with you because you compete with each other, not with a woman that you're interested in.** you'd like to be respected. always.* you'd like to hear that i like what activities you like (bike riding, tennis, cars) but not necessarily participate in them.* you want to see me smile far more often than you see me frown. you don't really "get" negative feelings. it's drama to you.* you want to find yourself wanting my opinion and thoughts about the world.* you don't want to hear i want you to shop with me, and you don't want to hold my purse....ha! i thought that was pretty funny!* you want to hear that i will never, ever, ever say the dreaded "i'm not in the mood".funny, but i don't find any of that offensive or surprising. as a matter of fact, while i don't consider myself to be overly submissive or by any means a doormat, i think that compromise is essential in all of our relationships.i guess what i mean is, if i were willing to understand what someone wants and desires from a relationship, would that person be willing to do the same for me?it occurred to me to google what women like to see in a man's profile. i changed my mind. i know what i like. that's all that's important here.i do wonder if i will find it someday....

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