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Thanh, 51
United States, South Dakota, Madison

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Time to change this profile. I tried "drinking, gamlbling, womanizer seeks kind and faithful companion", but surprisingly got no hits. Im a bit of a rogue professor, half stand-up, half academic. The students seem to enjoy it, and I certainly entertain myself. In my job I spend most of my day around twenty somethings, so not the ideal dating pool.. If you dont have a picture or you list your age as 30 or 40 something and your most recent picture has you in a prom dress, lets skip the introductions. I really don't want to be in a position to hurt anyone's feelings, so really, just recent photos please. I'm in pretty good shape, and prefer thin or athletic builds. Sorry if that sounds shallow but I dont want to waste anyones time here. For those of you looking for wealth and status, let me just say that i almost got into the kiwanas and I am a JC penny PREFERED card holder, which entitles me to an extra 5% discount on select sale days (not including already discounted items). Impressed yet? how come under body type you cant pick "awesome"? thats what I wanted to pick. I do have a more sincere and romantic side. here are a few of my favorite things1. melted cheese2. the smell of sawdust3. the first kiss4. finding the french fry in the bottom of the sack when you thought you had eaten the last one5. London6. Desert night skies7. falling asleep exhaustedI put dating nothing serious down because I want to take the time to get it right this time. If "the one" comes along I'm open to a serious committed relationship, but I really think its time in my life that I find THE one and not A one if that makes sense. I think when I look back on past relationships that I have a strong attraction to the quirky girls. So, if the term dork or dweeb has ever been hurled your direction, there maybe something there! I appreciate an abundance of personality. On a more serious note; the one quality that you must posses is kindness. I live my life by this motto "do all the good you can in all the places you can to all the people you can so long as you can." try it out, or this one "dont be yourself, be someone a little bit nicer".PS. So many women that Ive met on here seem so unhappy. Here is my recipe for the meaning of life, its helped me tremendously, maybe it will help you. Your personal goals, contributions to wealth or happiness make little difference if the world is not a better place for you being in it. We all have the capacity to make the world a better place. You may be smart, you may be funny, or you may be hard working, but the one thing we all have is a limitless supply of love. Give love unconditionally and with no consideration for reciprocity. When you love someone only because they love you, there is a zero sum gain of love in the world, the love you make is equal to the love you take. Give more than you take. If there is something that you love about someone, why not love them in the whole. Don't hold your love for one person as though you would run out if you gave too much away. you will find that when you begin loving you will be come addicted and find more reasons to love more people and when you fill the world with love you are making it a better place. You just might find that anger, resentment and bitterness are incompatible with unconditional love, and you just might find, as I have, that you are happy (at least one person has read this and thought I meant sleep with as many people as you can, so lets be clear I don't mean sex and love to mean the same thing) I prefer a dimly lit bar where we are both less likely to be immediately disapointed (thats a joke). I am very happy on a date just getting to know someone and having some fun, it really doesnt matter where or what we are doing. I do like to go out to bars, I have friends that I meet and love to meet new people, I am a perpetual chatter, can talk to anyone about anything. If you are uncomfortable in a pub we can hit a coffee house or diner, really doesnt matter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean English German Thai Drama History Thriller War Spirituality
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