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LouisOffline
Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I'm at a place in my life where I'm not really looking to date serious, but more so, see what is out there and make new friends. I am really busy, independent and focused on myself but I like to chat with new people and maybe in the future it can lead into something else. I am a single mom who works two jobs and I am very close to my son. He is my world. I do my best to balance my social life with my jobs and my son. He's active in sports in the summer so that really makes for a crazy schedule. I enjoy being busy and when I'm not, I like to go for walks if weather permits it, watch some Netflix or find out what my friends are doing and catch a bite to eat and some drinks.I just started going to church this year and if I'm going to date someone, I would like them to be open to attended church a couple times a month. I've always been in touch with my spiritual side and I feel church brings so much positive in your life. I go to a non-denominational church and it's super laid back. I do not center my entire life around it, but it is important to me. I feel like there is so much wrong with the world today and so many temptations and wrong paths to go down, that it keeps people focused on what is truly important and also gives you an awesome feeling.Also, if you are not a country fan I'm not sure we can get along. I hang out with a group of people I call my "country" friends and I enjoy going out to my country bars. I am a fan of all kinds of music, besides heavy rock/metal because some of it sounds so angry and demonic. Also, any rap that refers to women in a derogatory manner or swears every other line. There are exceptions. I do like some random songs that are a bit heavy and I do listen to rap. I just think some of the content and messages songs portray is very disturbing/disgusting.I'm a complete sucker for a nice smile and a man who can make me laugh. If you don't have any pictures up of you smiling, 9.9 times out of 10, I won't respond to you because I will just assume you never smile. I am a bit shy/reserved and it takes a little effort to get to know me. Most of the guys I've dated have been ones to show interest in me, and not be overbearing about it. I do not like to rush into things either. If I'm talking to you and you ask for my number, I'm going to say no, but I will add you on *** I go out with you twice and you ask me to be your girlfriend, I'm going to say no. I don't understand people who have known each other for 2 weeks or even a month and all of a sudden they are in what they call a "committed relationship" with someone they barely know.One last thing...I just got braces in April. Just don't want there to be any surprises if we meet. They probably make me look way younger, as if I needed any more help in that area.That's about all to give you a little bit of an understanding of me. If you want to know more and start a friendship, message me.This may come across as too extensive or picky, but I know what I want. I'm looking for a man that possesses most of these qualities. Goes to churchHas a good, steady jobFunnySmartNon-smokerWants to travelHas kids or doesn't mind a woman with kidsFunHelps me break out of my shellPatientNot selfishLikes to stay in shapeAttractiveLoyalIndependentIs the type of guy to plan a dateDoes the little thingsUnderstandingCaringCompassionateMakes me feel like no other girls can compareIs a GentlemenAmbitiousMakes effortDoes the courting when first starting to dateShows interestNice smileAppreciates the little thingsRespectfulMatureFamily orientedFriends are importantDoesn't go out partying with the boys all the timeInvites me to hang out with his family and friendsEnjoys going on datesHandyDrama freeThere are a few, but not many I'm willing to over look. I think most of these qualities are what makes a good man. Dinner and drinks to get to know each other.
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ShebahOffline
Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
Hi, I'm Krysten and I'm a caffeine-a-holic.I feel so much better now that this is out in the open.Apart from that, I'm complex, and also not at all complex. I very much love dogs and horses. Being an equestrian is a discipline that I practice every day, if not on horseback, then in the gym. It is the best therapy there ever could be. I'm a Sociologist/Anthropologist who practices cognitive psychology on the side and is in love with human/social services. Pop culture is kind of my "thing" as well, because of the importance on keeping up-to-date if ever needing to educate minors as it pertains to internet ethics. I likely have the dorkiest taste in music ever, and yellow makes me smile. I love to laugh, but let's please get something clear-....they are really not funny. They're obnoxious. Monty Python is funny. Monty Python is hilarious. I haven't done a stellar job of describing myself, have I? The truth is, I know who I am. I don't know who you are, so it is far less complicated for me to describe what I am looking for. Let's be clear about something straight away- I am in no hurry and will spend some time reading profiles and at least get a baseline idea of who you are before I decide to meet you. It is in my nature to see the best in people, and generally speaking, I like nearly everyone. Just because I like someone doesn't mean I will date them, and I am notorious for "friend-zoning" people who just aren't my type. I think that is the fair thing to do as opposed to wasting your time that you could be spending on somebody else. For us to date, these are some of the qualities I prefer:1) Please have a working knowledge of grammar/punctuation/diction. This may seem shallow, and I can overlook it if you're a good person, but man does it drive me batty.2) I'd be more partial to a man who has some sort of spiritual faith. It doesn't have to be parallel to mine. Just believe in something. 3) Be an intellectual and enjoy a mentally stimulating conversation, and even a good debate every once in a while. Prepare to be challenged by me, because I will challenge you. No, I will not degrade you in front of your friends or (gasp) your mother. 4) Be a happy medium between needy/clingy and completely aloof. Have a life of your own, but don't forget I exist. 5) Teach me something new. It exhilarates me.6) If you have had as many sexual partners as you have mitochondria, I'm really not interested. It may seem there's no way for me to determine this, but it's more obvious than you may think.7) There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. In my eyes, an ounce of pretention is worth a pound of manure.8) I honestly don't care where you sit on the political spectrum, but it's a hot-button issue these days for many. If you're an extremist on either side, just know that I am firmly placed in the center, and solid in my beliefs. 9) I'm not a gold digger, nor am I high maintenance. If you love money, power, and toys, just know those things will never love you back. That being said, please have a job. I'm not interested in how much money you make, but I'd sure be impressed if it was something you really enjoyed.***If you have a lot of baggage, a crazy ex, an intrusive baby mama, I am really not going to enjoy that. I just don't have the ambition to take on those issues. If you have kids- woohoo! I love kids!***As for dating, the truth is I really don't like it. It is stressful. I know who I am, and I like me. My friends like me, my family likes me, and I've got it pretty darn good. Introduce dating, and suddenly there's this new person- and they're judging you. I'd think we could all agree that kind of sucks.
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JinaOffline
Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
Ok I hate this part. I'll give ya a few things about myself, but I am more than just the few things I put on here to try to catch your attention. I am a nurse, work some crazy hours but always have wekends off. Enjoy traveling. I'll go to the U.P. I like shopping and watching sports. Going on walks with my dog. Love my family, my neice and nephew are my world. I believe men should always make the first move. I am pretty easy going. I am a Cancer, so it takes a little bit for me to come out of my shell. Something casual, doesn't take much to start a conversation.