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Elmer, 34

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About Me

I'm a very open minded, laid back, brutally honest type of girl. I currently with as a server at a local restaurant. I have 49 credits in Social Work and hope to obtain my masters someday. Unfortunately I haven't been able to go back to school. I do have four wonderful children. They are ***and 6. I have a very unique personality and anyone who meets me most likely won't forget me. I like spontaneity sometimes. I'm just looking for someone who is willing to accept who I am and wants to live life to the fullest. Not looking for a booty call. Ass is everywhere. I need someone who can intrigue me... Good luck boys..... Ok...since I've been browsing this site lately I have a few things to add. First of all the one thing everyone wants to know is "what are you looking for" does anyone honestly know the real answer to that? I always say ill knowWhen I find it. I know what I'm not looking for... Douche bags, stalkers serial killers, pedophiles, rapists...lol. I'm also not interested in your oral skills or performance abilities. That is not atractive .Maybe it is to someone who has issues getting laid but those pick up lines became old like umm..in my teens I'm a grown up now. I need a man who is secure with themselves and can handle the fact that I am a unique individual.noone truly understand the depths of things until their they are in it.That's understandable and its also where honesty, selflessness and sincerity comes in. Now that intentions are clear maybe I will be bothered less with bullshit.I have no specific motive for this site other than to be open minded to possibilities.People have too many expectations and wonder why they are continually disappointed. Its not likely that you slap a couple pictures on the internet with a profile and your prefect match of the universe will appear..be realistic.90 percent of people just want to find someone to ****.if that's you then just be up front about it. Don't waste my time or yours trying to run game. I will see right through your bullsh*tunless your really good, but if you ain't about sh*till more then likely know right away. Oh and I won't be afraid to tell you. I apologize for any incorrect punctuation or spelling.I'm using my smart phone and its not easy to fix things in a paragraph with a touch screen. One more thing. I prefer guys that have at least one child because I can't have anymore and don't want to have to worry about that being an issue later on down the road.however if you have a child with baby mama drama you should probably delete your account, handle that and then try to find someone new, because noone wants to or should have to deal with that shit. Just to see how many people actually read my about me and dont just judge me by my looks when messaging me put the word respect in your message. Trust me you will gain more of that from me as well by doing so. Ummm.... I'm not real picky.. I like second dates better though. They aren't as nerve racking, lol. I guess just a casual dinner with some wine and good conversation would be really nice. I like a man who can stimulate my mind as well as my body.......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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