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Fidelia, 31

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About Me

Hi there.I'm a sweet, smart, fun--and SANE--professional. :-D Single, never married, no kids, employed. Pretty drama- and baggage- Lots of laughs. No major expectations other than to have a nice time getting to know someone new, though my ultimate wish is to find *him.* :)Admittedly, I have weight to lose and am working on it, but I am very curvy and femininely-shaped. I know my "ultra-curviness" isn't everyone's cup o' tea, but I hope to be just the drink that someone's looking for. :-DWhile in my everyday professional life, I am considered competent, confident, and composed, beneath it all, I don't take myself super seriously. I love to have fun, be silly, and laugh. I have the maturity and social awareness to act like an adult for the most part, though. The whole grown-up-yet-still-lighthearted combo is appreciated in guys as well!Specifically:* I'm educated and articulate and definitely like guys who can articulately and grammatically express themselves, both in speech and writing.* I am very warm and like giving and receiving affection in its many forms--compliments, touching, romance, random acts of kindness, etc. :)* While I never initially meet anyone expecting or assuming that we'll end up in a relationship (the whole no major expectations thing I mentioned initially), I ultimately want to get married and have a family. HOWEVER, I am not so desperate for a ring and a baby that I'll try to force or jump into just anything. Ha ha. My point is that I'm at least open to more developing if the chemistry and connection are there and would like him to have a similar view. For those guys who need me to be very clear: I am not on here looking for a friend with benefits or random one-nighters. There are plenty of other sites out there for that sort of thing, and they require fewer words. :)* I'm not a flake. I'm even-keeled, dependable, reliable, do what I say I'm going to do, and try very hard not to waste anyone else's time. Flakiness is one of my biggest pet peeves. I'm looking for someone similarly grounded and down-to-earth.* Manners are important. I don't think people should leave behind their trash in public places for others to clean up--like at a sporting event, a movie theater, wherever. And I appreciate traditional chivalrous acts--even small stuff that a lot of people wouldn't notice, like waiting for the girl to drive away first. (And I know this shouldn't be a big deal...but what is with people not knowing how to properly hold silverware? LOL)* I like guys who are energetic and who are willing to try new things. But...sometimes I just wanna sit on my amply-sized butt and have a Netflix night. So yeah...I like a go-getter, but I also like someone who can let the wheels stop turning and actually enjoy downtime and relaxation.* I like guys who, if not on the same page, are at least in the same book as me politically-speaking. I consider myself a mix of conservative and libertarian with some conspiratorial underpinnings. :-D* Above all else, I like guys who still know what it means to be a *man.* Someone who has values and a sense of justice. And someone who is kind...to me, to children, to animals, etc. I'm usually easy-going, so I'll leave this to him to decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mozell

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hello there. Dating hasn't been the easiest thing for me considering my status as a full-time single mother. Full-time means all-the-time BTW. Finding someone to go out has never been an issue, finding some one with quality and substance has. I'm generally very happy in my life. I have a good career, I'm stable, responsible, and I pride myself for being a good mother. I take care of myself. I try to incorporate healthy eating in my life. I have never been married. I chose to have my daughter in college. It wasn't the most ideal situation but my strong will pulled me through it just fine. I'm not sure if I'm going to find what I'm looking for on this site, but it's worth a shot. I'm a medical professional and a dedicated mother of one. I would like to find someone with similar interests in life and who values family as much as I do.things I like:-music-concerts--reading-playing guitar-the shins-engaging conversation-laser tag-dancing -driving with the windows down-boating-gardening-running/Pilates/yoga/HIT-eating out-attending social events-almost anything outdoors-beach/fishingmy job:medical speech- I like genuine people, I like to try new things and new adventures!Tschuss :) Some place casual, where conversation, and hopefully chemistry, flow freely.

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I Love to be artistic paint & scrapbook and NOT on *** Social networking sites, They are not for me. I'm currently going back to school to better my chances of a great life. I'm 34 and have been getting gray hair since 7th grade I don't mind it some people do But hey that's what makes me ME. I feel as if I'm a freespirit person not a leader or follower just Myself I dress how I feel not exactly to impress, lol I'm NOT the girl who goes to the store in her pajamas nor am I the girl who has to leave the house with a pound of make up either. I've been on dating sites before they were OK, I figured I may check this out! I'm open to really any kind of music but my collection includes Alt-J - Moe - Grateful Dead - Phish - Sublime - Nirvana, Tori Amos.. and So much more... BTW I know it's kinda weird BUT Halloween & Easter are my favorite times of the year.

  • Suzanne

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I was born and raised in Germany until I came to the US when I was 20. Life is an interesting journey, looking back mine has been very impressive. Not so much to worldly standards but personal growth. That's what it's all about! I am a very kind, compassionate and affectionate one of a kind. I am driven, intelligent, and determined. I have a great sense of humor, witty and dry. I take delight in the beauty that surrounds me daily, be it nature, my children or anything I see. I am all about making great memories and preserving them. My waters run deep and strong. I am passionate, sincere and genuine. I am down-to-earth, not afraid to get my hands dirty. I love home life. One of my passions are animals. I have fulfilled a life-long dream of mine and have accomplished getting my degree in Veterinary Technology and am a Registered Veterinary Technician.My perfect match would be a compassionate, kind and respectful man who values and cherishes family, loves animals. He knows what he wants, is assertive about getting it, committed, serves others before himself and knows what it means to love. He puts God first. He's driven to better and improve himself continuously. Open-minded and spiritual, eager to please and takes pleasure and joy into seeing and making people happy. Never a quitter.

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