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Fidelia, 31

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About Me

Hi there.I'm a sweet, smart, fun--and SANE--professional. :-D Single, never married, no kids, employed. Pretty drama- and baggage- Lots of laughs. No major expectations other than to have a nice time getting to know someone new, though my ultimate wish is to find *him.* :)Admittedly, I have weight to lose and am working on it, but I am very curvy and femininely-shaped. I know my "ultra-curviness" isn't everyone's cup o' tea, but I hope to be just the drink that someone's looking for. :-DWhile in my everyday professional life, I am considered competent, confident, and composed, beneath it all, I don't take myself super seriously. I love to have fun, be silly, and laugh. I have the maturity and social awareness to act like an adult for the most part, though. The whole grown-up-yet-still-lighthearted combo is appreciated in guys as well!Specifically:* I'm educated and articulate and definitely like guys who can articulately and grammatically express themselves, both in speech and writing.* I am very warm and like giving and receiving affection in its many forms--compliments, touching, romance, random acts of kindness, etc. :)* While I never initially meet anyone expecting or assuming that we'll end up in a relationship (the whole no major expectations thing I mentioned initially), I ultimately want to get married and have a family. HOWEVER, I am not so desperate for a ring and a baby that I'll try to force or jump into just anything. Ha ha. My point is that I'm at least open to more developing if the chemistry and connection are there and would like him to have a similar view. For those guys who need me to be very clear: I am not on here looking for a friend with benefits or random one-nighters. There are plenty of other sites out there for that sort of thing, and they require fewer words. :)* I'm not a flake. I'm even-keeled, dependable, reliable, do what I say I'm going to do, and try very hard not to waste anyone else's time. Flakiness is one of my biggest pet peeves. I'm looking for someone similarly grounded and down-to-earth.* Manners are important. I don't think people should leave behind their trash in public places for others to clean up--like at a sporting event, a movie theater, wherever. And I appreciate traditional chivalrous acts--even small stuff that a lot of people wouldn't notice, like waiting for the girl to drive away first. (And I know this shouldn't be a big deal...but what is with people not knowing how to properly hold silverware? LOL)* I like guys who are energetic and who are willing to try new things. But...sometimes I just wanna sit on my amply-sized butt and have a Netflix night. So yeah...I like a go-getter, but I also like someone who can let the wheels stop turning and actually enjoy downtime and relaxation.* I like guys who, if not on the same page, are at least in the same book as me politically-speaking. I consider myself a mix of conservative and libertarian with some conspiratorial underpinnings. :-D* Above all else, I like guys who still know what it means to be a *man.* Someone who has values and a sense of justice. And someone who is kind...to me, to children, to animals, etc. I'm usually easy-going, so I'll leave this to him to decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am ready to meet my new and AMAZING best friend!My friends would describe me as kind, considerate, always willing to lend a helping hand. Most of them also tell me I'm pretty funny. That's for you to decide. I LOVE to laugh, so I would like a guy who is genuinely funny. I come from a decent sized family -) and I have 2 nephews and a niece. I am an animal lover, I've always had them and foresee always having them.So people ask what's your idea of the "perfect guy"? Let's face it, I'm not perfect and I certainly don't expect anyone else to be. I want a man with whom I am comfortable, can go out or stay home, laugh A LOT with, and who is happy with himself and can be happy with or without me. I like to have some alone time (not a ton!) and would like a guy who is comfortable with that. To sum it up, I just want a man with whom I can live life to the fullest. :) I work hard at always being optimistic. I find true joy in being happy with myself and my lot in life. I have so much for which to be grateful, not to say there are not things to improve on but I feel I've done pretty well so far! I am looking forward to amazing things to come!

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I work in a elementary school in the 1st grade I love children. I enjoy going out trying new things love to laugh and just have fun I need a guy that can make me laugh ;) Maybe dinner and drinks

  • Marivel

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    A bit about me, I'm simple, outgoing, genuine, goal oriented, and fun to be around. I like sports whether its playing or watching. I love making people laugh and enjoy my time with family and friends. My career is important and do well at keeping the balance between life and work. I'm close with my family and many of my friends I'd consider pert of family. I have two adorable little nephews. It never fails, after hanging out with them, I can't wait to start a family of my own.Like I mentioned, I enjoy sports whether I'm playing or watching. Sitting back and watching a game with friends is great but nothing beats the atmosphere of going to the stadium. I'm currently taking golf lessons. Lessons are needed because I'm competitive at by nature. I enjoy traveling anywhere and unexpected plans are the best. It could be a vacation, a weekend getaway or just an afternoon drive. I'd like to backpack Europe and take an Alaskan cruise. I enjoy photography...people, places and things. Sometimes the oddest idea's make the greatest photo's. I always have some type of camera with me. I do have a photo published. I enjoy being in the outdoors whether is for a walk, campfire, bike ride, or a glass a wine on the deck while chatting under the stars. For my 30th birthday I wanted a motorcycle, larger tv or a guitar. I went with the motorcycle and have loved every minute of it.I'm looking for the following.....honesty, communication, ability to put others first, trust, compatibility. I need someone who can make me laugh and has an outgoing and energetic personality as well. I'd like him to be confident, independent, adventurous, enjoy the outdoors and sports. I can take a joke, so I sure hope you can. I enjoy going out but would like to find someone who also enjoys spending evenings in tinkering on house projects, watching a movie or playing board games. A communicator is best, I do not wear my heart on my sleeve but will tell you what I'm thinking and felling.I'd like to find someone who will walk with me in life. Not in front of or behind me. Are you up for the challenge?Thanks for checking out my profile. I personally think it all depends on the common interests of the two individuals.

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