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Fidelia, 31

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About Me

Hi there.I'm a sweet, smart, fun--and SANE--professional. :-D Single, never married, no kids, employed. Pretty drama- and baggage- Lots of laughs. No major expectations other than to have a nice time getting to know someone new, though my ultimate wish is to find *him.* :)Admittedly, I have weight to lose and am working on it, but I am very curvy and femininely-shaped. I know my "ultra-curviness" isn't everyone's cup o' tea, but I hope to be just the drink that someone's looking for. :-DWhile in my everyday professional life, I am considered competent, confident, and composed, beneath it all, I don't take myself super seriously. I love to have fun, be silly, and laugh. I have the maturity and social awareness to act like an adult for the most part, though. The whole grown-up-yet-still-lighthearted combo is appreciated in guys as well!Specifically:* I'm educated and articulate and definitely like guys who can articulately and grammatically express themselves, both in speech and writing.* I am very warm and like giving and receiving affection in its many forms--compliments, touching, romance, random acts of kindness, etc. :)* While I never initially meet anyone expecting or assuming that we'll end up in a relationship (the whole no major expectations thing I mentioned initially), I ultimately want to get married and have a family. HOWEVER, I am not so desperate for a ring and a baby that I'll try to force or jump into just anything. Ha ha. My point is that I'm at least open to more developing if the chemistry and connection are there and would like him to have a similar view. For those guys who need me to be very clear: I am not on here looking for a friend with benefits or random one-nighters. There are plenty of other sites out there for that sort of thing, and they require fewer words. :)* I'm not a flake. I'm even-keeled, dependable, reliable, do what I say I'm going to do, and try very hard not to waste anyone else's time. Flakiness is one of my biggest pet peeves. I'm looking for someone similarly grounded and down-to-earth.* Manners are important. I don't think people should leave behind their trash in public places for others to clean up--like at a sporting event, a movie theater, wherever. And I appreciate traditional chivalrous acts--even small stuff that a lot of people wouldn't notice, like waiting for the girl to drive away first. (And I know this shouldn't be a big deal...but what is with people not knowing how to properly hold silverware? LOL)* I like guys who are energetic and who are willing to try new things. But...sometimes I just wanna sit on my amply-sized butt and have a Netflix night. So yeah...I like a go-getter, but I also like someone who can let the wheels stop turning and actually enjoy downtime and relaxation.* I like guys who, if not on the same page, are at least in the same book as me politically-speaking. I consider myself a mix of conservative and libertarian with some conspiratorial underpinnings. :-D* Above all else, I like guys who still know what it means to be a *man.* Someone who has values and a sense of justice. And someone who is kind...to me, to children, to animals, etc. I'm usually easy-going, so I'll leave this to him to decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ariana

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am a 35 year old single working mom. I have a Bachelors degree in Art History and I am now working towards my Masters. My kids come first, and my schedule can be hectic sometimes as I work two part-time jobs. However, one of my jobs is working from home as a graphic designer for a local company so I have somewhat of a flexible schedule. I love to read, visit museums and attend art events. I love to travel, I have been to several places in Europe and hope to return soon. I enjoy going to the movies or just cuddling up on the couch with a DVD or Netflix ;) I enjoy being outdoors, going for hikes, walks, camping, bike riding, playing with my kids and working in my garden. I am pretty easy going, love to laugh and I have a great sense of humor. I would like to meet someone to go on dates and/or outings, someone with whom I can have intelligent conversations and laugh with. I am not looking for a new husband right now, but I am not looking for any one night stands or trying to sleep around either. I would like to take time and get to know someone and just see how things go. *Please, if you are taken, in a relationship, have a girlfriend(s) or are constantly looking for the next "hook-up", do NOT bother to contact me, I am not interested in playing that game***Another side note: If I do not respond to you right away it means one of two things: either I am busy (I do have a life outside of meetville, sorry!) or I am simply not interested. There is no need to verbally attack me or make negative remarks because I did not respond to you immediately after receiving your message. This is a sign of insecurity, it is a huge turn off and as a result you will be blocked.** Really depends on the other person and our common interests. I think a simple meet and greet or coffee is good for starters. From there we can talk about a first date and decide on something that will allow us to talk and get to know one another in a comfortable, no pressure environment.

  • Penelope

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I'm a mommy of two wonderful, beautiful babies. I love animals, but those who know me call me the cat lady. I enjoy volleyball, bowling, nights out with my girlfriends, camping, tubing, boating, cold beer on hot days, listening to bands that play good music and really up for anything. I have a huge heart, which can be my weakness at times. I'm a great listener as well. I'm most definitely not perfect and made many mistakes in life, but I've accepted my faults and learned from them. Most people say I'm rather friendly and have a nice smile or pretty eyes. I often daydream about the perfect life, but so far haven't found it yet and not sure such thing really exists.Also I just want to add that (and not trying to be rude just want to get straight to the point) if your a creep or a selfish person I don't have time for that, So please move on. If you message me and don't get a reply right away it's because I'm probably busy with my toddlers (my number one priority) or working. I'm not necessarily seeking a relationship, just want to see what/who's out there and see where things go if we should happen to be compatible. I'd say meet for a drink or two or three to see how the vibe & conversation goes. That way if we're not feeling it, then we can shake hands and go our separate ways. If we hit it off then maybe grab some dinner, go to a baseball game, bowling. Something fun that will be enjoyable.

  • Terry

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I'm a fun loving person! I love to hang out with friends and family and enjoy playing pool, cards, movies, music and just talking. I'm shy at first but once I get to know you I'm very easy going. I'm not looking for games or one night stands. I have 3 young boys that are the loves of my life and my first priorities.

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