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Alethia, 35

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About Me

I am the proud mommy of one beautiful daughter. I just finished college and love what I do. I'm not real sure what i'm looking for on here..... So far, not so good. Blah blah blah. I guess this is what the dating world is all about? I love to make new friends and meet new people. Unfortunately, this experience has been a huge let down.Good looks and status don't preserve healthy friendships or relationships. Your character traits (like how we treat one another) do. I have often wondered why we care for things we can never measure up to such as superficial and materialist ideals. As you know, physical attraction depreciates overtime, while character can be cultivated and improved. In other words, your character doesn't depreciate over time - it is an investment that actually gains value if you work for it. We cannot measure the worth of someone through means of status, beauty, wealth, and power. These things have very little to do with improving the quality of life as they are only surface things, appealing mainly to our most carnal nature. If one gains people's attention or affection based on good looks, the words one speaks, natural beauty, status, and rank, then that will be the only things to keep their attention. Of course, these aren't negative traits; more so, they are not the kinds of traits meant to sustain us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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