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Alethia, 35

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About Me

I am the proud mommy of one beautiful daughter. I just finished college and love what I do. I'm not real sure what i'm looking for on here..... So far, not so good. Blah blah blah. I guess this is what the dating world is all about? I love to make new friends and meet new people. Unfortunately, this experience has been a huge let down.Good looks and status don't preserve healthy friendships or relationships. Your character traits (like how we treat one another) do. I have often wondered why we care for things we can never measure up to such as superficial and materialist ideals. As you know, physical attraction depreciates overtime, while character can be cultivated and improved. In other words, your character doesn't depreciate over time - it is an investment that actually gains value if you work for it. We cannot measure the worth of someone through means of status, beauty, wealth, and power. These things have very little to do with improving the quality of life as they are only surface things, appealing mainly to our most carnal nature. If one gains people's attention or affection based on good looks, the words one speaks, natural beauty, status, and rank, then that will be the only things to keep their attention. Of course, these aren't negative traits; more so, they are not the kinds of traits meant to sustain us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kamilah

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    All I want is to meet a normal guy. With a normal job. And a normal car. That has a normal brain. That wants the normal things in life. But everyone on this site seems to be a hot mess. A million kids, tons of baggage, can't hold a conversation, throwing up corny gang signs with blunts hanging out their mouths, and pants halfway down their nasty ass. So unattractive. P.S.- if your profile says you want to date but nothing serious or casual dating/no commitment, you won't get a response from me. Something quick and easy in case there is no connection, we don't have to waste each others time :)

  • Charise

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I'm a pretty diverse person who doesn't like to talk about myself... I love my family, my job, my faith and politics. I enjoy traditional roles but am happy being independant. When it comes to games - not here! I'm honest to a fault but most people would probably still describe me as nice :) There's a lot more but... Just ask :) I'm interested in MEETING someone. Going somewhere and having a great conversation would be ideal - learning everything about someone online doesn't seem like fun.

  • Mead

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    So, this is where I get to tell you all about me...fantastic (insert eye rolling and sarcastic tone). First of all, I hate these things and trying to pitch myself. I could sit here and tell you all about how fabulous I am, but I don't think it really gives you an accurate picture of who I am.I have a very dry sense of humor and love sarcasm. Nerdy science jokes crack me up and I love to laugh. If you don't have a good sense of humor or can't appreciate it, then move along. I tend to think of myself as quirky, probably a result of my science background. I love reading and will often curl up with a great book and read it cover to cover before I do anything else, especially if the weather is yucky. I read a lot of fiction. Most of it is science fictionish, but I am sure a true sci-fi reader would disagree with that statement. I also read a lot of youth/young adult literature. I like to know what my students are reading and they are quick reads. I usually have a couple books going at a time. When it's nice outside I like to go camping and fishing, but never seem to do either one of them enough. I also love to drive and road trips are always welcome as long as the weather is good. I like to travel and have been to a few different countries, and am always adding to my list of states visited.I'm also working at improving my cooking skills. I love baking and would love to someday open my own place and sell things from my family recipes. I like to cook, but I don't know that I would call myself a good cook. I don't like making lots of food for one, so I usually make what is easy and quick that I can stand to eat multiple days in a row.I used to be a high school science teacher, now I work in education, but outside of the classroom. The decrease in stress has been tremendous!I love music! I love live music even more! I hate to list what I listen to, because it all depends on my mood. I could listen to just about everything, but screamy metal music is my least favorite. I just don't get into it. when I'm on the computer. In the car it's mostly on Kiss***or KGGO. The most recent concert I went to was Blink 182. Fave music moment;I am shy, no denying that, but I am worth getting to know. I want someone who will accept me for who I am and wants a low-key life. I look at a lot of profiles but seldom send messages (shy). If you noticed that I looked at your profile but didn't leave a message, it's probably because I couldn't think of something to say that would spark interest, but it doesn't mean I didn't like what I saw.So, message me if you made it all the way through this and you think it's worth getting to know more about me, but please message me something more than Hi...it doesn't usually lend itself as a great conversation opener...I've given you plenty of things to ask me about...give it a try!

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