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About Me

Well Helloooo.... Seriously. I studied painting in college and keep up with my practice as much as possible, painting drawing, developing a website, and going to galleries and museums as much as I can. Would looove to find someone to come with me. I wander around taking pictures of 60's 70's suburban architecture,and then paint from the photos, so if you want to come with me and do that, that would be awesome too. Its been a year since ending a ten+ year relationship, and I would love to find someone to share joy with, in all capacities. On one hand , I want to find someone to be with after being lonely for years even while still in my marriage. But on the other hand, I am not so desperate that I feel like I have to jump into a serious thing with the first random person I meet. I do NOT expect a relationship to "complete'' me, or be the sole source of my happiness. A partner is what i want. Someone who I can trust, and someone I want to be a partner to, and give all i have to give to, and feel good about it. I want to find someone who feels like they have nothing to lose by showing me and telling me how good I make them feel... and me doing the same... How about we BOTH open doors for each other, and BOTH make each other sandwiches? :) I am not interested in controlling you, or in being controlled. I don't want a relationship to be a conquest, a power play, or a game. I feel like I have much to give, I just want to find some reciprocity. Just someone who gives a sh*t, and for whom i give an equal sh*t. Parts of myself that have remained thru the trials of late include my sense of humor, dry and at times sarcastic, but never mean- spirited. If I see a snail on the pavement, I move it. So it can live a bit longer before it's stepped on, hahaha. If you trip or do something lame, I won't laugh, because I'm liable to do the same. Other persistent traits are my cool, collected, stoic exterior, but also my passionate, and admittedly romantic, interior. Think librarian filled with lava. I think I achieve a good balance between realism and idealism. I'm hopeful but have absolutely no expectations; I don't assume the best and I don't assume the worst. I believe it is just as foolish to discount the ugly parts of life as it is to discount the beautiful parts. I don't mind hard work , I know I cant sit around waiting for X to happen before i can be happy, I just want to fill in the spaces between the sh*t with more fun and joy to balance it... I want to find someone who somehow makes me feel comforted AND excited, all at once. Is this possible?? -L. I can imagine going on an epic walk thru some nearby hiking trail, alongside streams, down tree-.. And then eating thai food together and/or going to see and old kubrick movie somewhere where they still play old movies..and it wouldn't matter that we miss some of the movie because we've both seen it a million times...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Madeline

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I hate this part! lol Okay, lets see....the best way to describe me is sweet and sassy. I really enjoy a good sense of humor so if you have that then you alrealdy have bonus points :)I'm not going to go on and on about all the things I love to do because I think it would be more fun to discover all that about someone as you talk to them and get to know them. I'm just looking for what most people want... to meet a guy that I really click with and have something grow from there. There are 3 requirements that are totally non-negotiable! You must love kids and cats because I have two of each of them :)You must be honest! The truth always comes around and bites you in the ass eventually anyway. I don't have time for flakey people. If you are one then please don't contact me. If you think you can handle all that, then I would love to hear from you. I adore dogs as well. I definitely enjoy my late nights partying it up every now and then,however, I have mellowed out quite a bit. I can appreciate quality over quantity any day!!! I share joint custody of my two daughters with my exhusband. They are 11 and 12. If there is anything you want to know, just ask. I know I dont look like a cowgirl but I love country music. Oh by the way, the most recent pics from this year are the ones where I'm blonde. You know us hairstylists, gotta change it up. If you have pics on here of yourself flexing in the mirror without a shirt and sunglasses on, then you are probably not my type :) I guess you could call me traditional in the sense that I like a gentlemen. I still expect a man to pay for a date, open doors and treat a woman like a lady. :) My main motto in life is to treat people how I want to be treated so let's have fun spoiling eachother! happy fishing!

  • Pricilla

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    things that are a must;he has to be funnyhe has to be kindhe has to be respectfulhe has to be easy goinghe has to not be clingyhe has to be ok with some space when im creatinghe has to be smart but not a know it allhe has to like to learnhe has to like me of coursehe has to be awesomehe has to be out there :)i'm not looking for a million dates. free dinner or any games. i just want a real connection with someone who feels the same. make me laugh.I am really attracted to arty music types of people. i like deep thinkers and people who dont get caught up in everyday life. if you dont look up once in a while you miss out on the best parts of life. im not super into strenuous activities either. i have compressed disks in my spine so all extreme things are off limits for me. i have a dirty dry sense of humor and i also use my humor as a shield and a weapon. i have so many facets to who i am that it takes a while to get to the heart of me. one day i will find the right guy and i will know all this time i was waiting for him. My feelers are always out for any BS that crosses my path. Don't bother if you are looking to hookup.

  • Lorelei

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am a fun and happy person. Love to laugh and hang out. If you ask my friends I am a huge social butterfly and will talk to anybody. I love hockey, bowling, scrapbooking (yes, I just said scrapbooking), mini golf, anything really. I like most music, but prefer country. I have strong goals in life and have accomplished many of them already. I have amazing friends who I would do anything for. Overall I'm a happy, outgoing person that is just looking for the right person to share it all with! If you want to know more, you know how to reach me. Don't be shy :) Something casual, I don't drink coffee however I do enjoy a strong adult beverage, good tea or a smoothie.

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