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Well Helloooo.... Seriously. I studied painting in college and keep up with my practice as much as possible, painting drawing, developing a website, and going to galleries and museums as much as I can. Would looove to find someone to come with me. I wander around taking pictures of 60's 70's suburban architecture,and then paint from the photos, so if you want to come with me and do that, that would be awesome too. Its been a year since ending a ten+ year relationship, and I would love to find someone to share joy with, in all capacities. On one hand , I want to find someone to be with after being lonely for years even while still in my marriage. But on the other hand, I am not so desperate that I feel like I have to jump into a serious thing with the first random person I meet. I do NOT expect a relationship to "complete'' me, or be the sole source of my happiness. A partner is what i want. Someone who I can trust, and someone I want to be a partner to, and give all i have to give to, and feel good about it. I want to find someone who feels like they have nothing to lose by showing me and telling me how good I make them feel... and me doing the same... How about we BOTH open doors for each other, and BOTH make each other sandwiches? :) I am not interested in controlling you, or in being controlled. I don't want a relationship to be a conquest, a power play, or a game. I feel like I have much to give, I just want to find some reciprocity. Just someone who gives a sh*t, and for whom i give an equal sh*t. Parts of myself that have remained thru the trials of late include my sense of humor, dry and at times sarcastic, but never mean- spirited. If I see a snail on the pavement, I move it. So it can live a bit longer before it's stepped on, hahaha. If you trip or do something lame, I won't laugh, because I'm liable to do the same. Other persistent traits are my cool, collected, stoic exterior, but also my passionate, and admittedly romantic, interior. Think librarian filled with lava. I think I achieve a good balance between realism and idealism. I'm hopeful but have absolutely no expectations; I don't assume the best and I don't assume the worst. I believe it is just as foolish to discount the ugly parts of life as it is to discount the beautiful parts. I don't mind hard work , I know I cant sit around waiting for X to happen before i can be happy, I just want to fill in the spaces between the sh*t with more fun and joy to balance it... I want to find someone who somehow makes me feel comforted AND excited, all at once. Is this possible?? -L. I can imagine going on an epic walk thru some nearby hiking trail, alongside streams, down tree-.. And then eating thai food together and/or going to see and old kubrick movie somewhere where they still play old movies..and it wouldn't matter that we miss some of the movie because we've both seen it a million times...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

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