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Lourdes, 32

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ok so i typed the first date thing first lol....gave me a chance to realize my interests.....definitely sunlight is well something i enjoy yet very much so lacking in my life as i work evenings most of the time..... i love the beach sand water, hearing waves, good music in my ears..... looking around people watching or reading a good book.....(ok all that was one event and one interest)......... ;) so i guess u could say i like to read, listen to music, going to the movies, sunbathing, playing the piano, learning new things, going shopping, perusing bookstores, walking around sandhills..... generally window shopping. i have an odd fascination with school supplies and i am always buying pens or highlighters..... i also like trying out new body washes either from bath and body works, victorias secret or sometimes go the walmart route (hey you would be surprised.....) I love watching suspense movies, true life crime channels, have always wanted to write a book and have a good lead this time on what about..........He would be someone comfortable to be around.... as if we had known each other forever upon first meeting..... yet so many guys seem so sketchy these days same with us females no doubt....everyone is out for himself or herself but my ideal mate would not have any hidden agendas..... he would be warm hearted inside and out, give his last dollar to a stranger, be there for his woman, family and friends through thick and thin and try for the most part to build others up rather than tear them down even if it means he lets others get a little credit from time to time *** always being the hero or top dog......in essence someone who doesnt need to belittle others to get ahead in life....... someone who will tell everyone how great a job a coworker did rather than gossip about him/her negatively if that makes sense.....anyhow no one is perfect but you know what kind of person you are deep down inside....if you are the type whose only purpose in life is to keep tearing others down so you can have half an ounce of self confidence, then im not interested and sorry you have read this far...... maybe i provoked a new way of thinking for you....... I want someone who can make me laugh, knows how to keep me on my toes and has some way of offering a fresh perspective on things or issues i may contemplate from time to time...... thank you for your time if you did read this in its entirety...... and if i hear from you well you must be unemployed (please at least be looking - i know times are tough but don't give up) or just cant sleep lol...if it is the latter then please by all means at least let me in on the secret of staying awake for long periods of time.... because I definitely love to sleep...actually I should have ranked that as my number one "hobby" i would like to and plan to go places in life but only so many hours in one day.... :( oh yeah, although i do not attend church as regularly as I would like, I would prefer a man that does or at least someone who knows a verse or two from the Bible...... I do enjoy church but have been somwhat discouraged from some of the ones I have visisted lately; however, that is in no way a reflection of the importance I place on some type of regular attendance..... i just want to find the "right fit"...... I do not smoke or do tobacco and would hope for the same in my man..... I have no kids never been married but do want one or two little ones at some point..... if you are still reading I hope you will forgive my grammar as I have dismissed my editor already for the evening..... (my sense of humor is a little on the dry side) yet sometimes in very stressful situations it has given me a giggle or two myself so it does come in handy although at times is corny.....however when I tell stories I can spin any tale into a comedy and love making people laugh (if I can get just one smile out of some people though to me its an accomplishment also).....ok the end...... just please do not be a liar...... I definitely would like to do something uncharacteristic for a first date..... yet something that both of us would find enjoyable.......... yeah it would be an out of town trip but that gives you travel time to talk some..... and also would give us or at least me the chance to see something new...... running up the state house steps at midnight and doing some real good exercise with one of my college friends was always wild and crazy and scary not to mention dangerous but we had protection ;) and it gave us a break from otherwise gruesome physics..... things like that that would be exicting to both of us..... or a trip to an amusement park.....i know these are somewhat "expensive" first dates.... yet memories last a lifetime and hopefully if nothing else it could be the spark of a new friendship....thats why i am always trying to think outside of the box.....for those of you cheapskates........?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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