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About Me

I am an individual who prides herself on trying different things. I am looking for someone who can join me in my quest to live my life to the fullest every day. I raise my two boys on weekdays and have three to four weekends each month to be care-free and fun. I like to keep busy during my free time. I have taken a vow to live healthier and more actively. Looking for someone to keep me inspired to be active often. I imagine myself with an adventurous and intelligent man. I would like to see someone who can balance me out and challenge me in all aspects of my life. Good looks and height are helpful too.I would like to go back to school to study culinary arts. Although, I am pretty good at the cooking thing already. I am a talented artist who hasn't practiced in awhile. I am not your average girl. I don't cry at girl movies. I don't take two hours to get ready. And I go out of the house without make-up, sometimes. I can throw back beers during a hockey game and turn around and get dressed up for fine dining and drinks. I would hope my first date reflects the personality of the guy I am out with. I would love a hike that could allow for conversation followed by a nice light meal and drink. I would also enjoy a fine meal in a modern atmosphere that allowed for meaningful conversation. Either situation would be an ideal date for me and the right person. For goodness sake, please don't be too shy to ask a girl out!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lourdes

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    ok so i typed the first date thing first lol....gave me a chance to realize my interests.....definitely sunlight is well something i enjoy yet very much so lacking in my life as i work evenings most of the time..... i love the beach sand water, hearing waves, good music in my ears..... looking around people watching or reading a good book.....(ok all that was one event and one interest)......... ;) so i guess u could say i like to read, listen to music, going to the movies, sunbathing, playing the piano, learning new things, going shopping, perusing bookstores, walking around sandhills..... generally window shopping. i have an odd fascination with school supplies and i am always buying pens or highlighters..... i also like trying out new body washes either from bath and body works, victorias secret or sometimes go the walmart route (hey you would be surprised.....) I love watching suspense movies, true life crime channels, have always wanted to write a book and have a good lead this time on what about..........He would be someone comfortable to be around.... as if we had known each other forever upon first meeting..... yet so many guys seem so sketchy these days same with us females no doubt....everyone is out for himself or herself but my ideal mate would not have any hidden agendas..... he would be warm hearted inside and out, give his last dollar to a stranger, be there for his woman, family and friends through thick and thin and try for the most part to build others up rather than tear them down even if it means he lets others get a little credit from time to time *** always being the hero or top dog......in essence someone who doesnt need to belittle others to get ahead in life....... someone who will tell everyone how great a job a coworker did rather than gossip about him/her negatively if that makes sense.....anyhow no one is perfect but you know what kind of person you are deep down inside....if you are the type whose only purpose in life is to keep tearing others down so you can have half an ounce of self confidence, then im not interested and sorry you have read this far...... maybe i provoked a new way of thinking for you....... I want someone who can make me laugh, knows how to keep me on my toes and has some way of offering a fresh perspective on things or issues i may contemplate from time to time...... thank you for your time if you did read this in its entirety...... and if i hear from you well you must be unemployed (please at least be looking - i know times are tough but don't give up) or just cant sleep lol...if it is the latter then please by all means at least let me in on the secret of staying awake for long periods of time.... because I definitely love to sleep...actually I should have ranked that as my number one "hobby" i would like to and plan to go places in life but only so many hours in one day.... :( oh yeah, although i do not attend church as regularly as I would like, I would prefer a man that does or at least someone who knows a verse or two from the Bible...... I do enjoy church but have been somwhat discouraged from some of the ones I have visisted lately; however, that is in no way a reflection of the importance I place on some type of regular attendance..... i just want to find the "right fit"...... I do not smoke or do tobacco and would hope for the same in my man..... I have no kids never been married but do want one or two little ones at some point..... if you are still reading I hope you will forgive my grammar as I have dismissed my editor already for the evening..... (my sense of humor is a little on the dry side) yet sometimes in very stressful situations it has given me a giggle or two myself so it does come in handy although at times is corny.....however when I tell stories I can spin any tale into a comedy and love making people laugh (if I can get just one smile out of some people though to me its an accomplishment also).....ok the end...... just please do not be a liar...... I definitely would like to do something uncharacteristic for a first date..... yet something that both of us would find enjoyable.......... yeah it would be an out of town trip but that gives you travel time to talk some..... and also would give us or at least me the chance to see something new...... running up the state house steps at midnight and doing some real good exercise with one of my college friends was always wild and crazy and scary not to mention dangerous but we had protection ;) and it gave us a break from otherwise gruesome physics..... things like that that would be exicting to both of us..... or a trip to an amusement park.....i know these are somewhat "expensive" first dates.... yet memories last a lifetime and hopefully if nothing else it could be the spark of a new friendship....thats why i am always trying to think outside of the box.....for those of you cheapskates........?

  • Kaley

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I'm a 33 year old nurse and single momma of one three year old boy. I love to laugh, hang out and have fun. :-) I am a respectable woman so please come at me that way. :-) I'm out going and I'm myself from the get. If you ain't about nothin or you like games and drama keep it pushin pimpin. ( In other words, I have a career, my own place, a car, and independently take care of myself and my son. If you can't bring the same to the plate, have a nice day, but please do so elsewhere lol) Drama isn't my thing, it interferes with the good, and ain't nobody got time for that lol. I'd like to eventually find someone who makes me want to be in a relationship with them, but thus far it's been the disqualification round.. lol. I'm a "go with the flow" kind of person, easy to get along with for the most part, but I do have a smart mouth, only because I don't take life to seriously and I like to laugh. If you have no sense of humor, you probably should stop reading now :). I don't play games, I'm very honest, ( so don't ask me a question that you don't really want the answer to.) so.... there's that. I have a son who is the center of my world, he takes precedence over all else in my life. I have high morals and self respect, so if you're looking for that toot it and boot it girl, swerve and miss me with that shit. I have a son who looks to me to learn about the world, and the way I treat others and the way I allow myself to be treated will someday be reflected in the man he becomes, I can't expect him to respect me if I'm not willing to be a person who deserves respect... I want a man who is gentleman enough to hold the door but just thug enough to smack my ass as I walk thru it lol

  • Julianna

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within." Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life, but by the obstacles one has overcomed trying to succeed."

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