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Farley, 33
United States, Pennsylvania, Souderton

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I'm fairly active on this site. I message most guys back and at least try to have a conversation. If you are needy, clingy, desperate, depressed or angry, please go onto the next profile. I hate to start out like this but if you don't have a job then don't message me. I understand the economy is bad, but if you're unemployed maybe you should spend your free time trying to find a job *** a girl.With that said. A little bit about me.I've been told my entire life that I'm different. It took me a long time to embrace that. I don't try to be different. It's just something about me that people who are close to me are aware of. I'm the total package. I'm great, fantastic. I could go on and on. :) I've got a lot of confidence and I know who I am.I'm a ginger. That's red hair, freckles, blue eyes, and I think I've managed to keep my soul up to this point. I have photos from my childhood to prove the bright carrot top that runs through my veins, though the reds I have now are compliments of my best friend, my hair stylist.I live my life with a lot of respect for myself and other people. Because of this, I expect that people would treat me the same way. That's something we're supposed to learn when we're young, right? Treat others how you'd want to be treated. I don't do wrong by other people and have a hard time forgiving people who do me wrong. I'm a great friend to have as long as you treat me like a friend. I give logical advice when asked, and give awful advice when not asked which might include the faithful go-to "Poke them in the f-ing eye". That'll get their attention. Life is a learning process and I am like a sponge that is continuously soaking up the knowledge that the world has to offer. I may not have all aspects of my life together, but I try my hardest and have realistic goals that I am well on my way to achieving. The way I see it, if you're not growing as a person you're dying.And some friendly advice, don't come at me saying how sexy I am and all the things you want to do with me. That doesn't turn me on, if anything it's going to turn me off of the guy who does it. There's a time and place for everything, and bringing out your perviness too soon will be a deal breaker. Keep it in your pants and out of your mind if you're trying to get to know me. Let's talk about before the first date....This is how I roll.If i'm interested in a guy I'll give him my number. It's not something I do right often, but a piece of advice, if a girl gives you her number, it's because she wants you to call her... soon. That's how it's worked for decades. Somethings don't change.So then after some friendly conversations we should agree to meet.I think just meeting in a public place is a good idea. I think you're setting yourself up for a bad time if you plan out some long elaborate date with someone you haven't met just to find out that there's no interest.After that we'll see where it goes. I'm not just looking for a friend with benefits, I want more than just that. So if all you're looking for is someone to have some "fun" with, please move on to the next profile.And if you get the chance to meet me and you blow me off our stand me up. Don't expect a second chance.Thank you for your time. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Salsa American Caribbean French Vietnamese Dirt Bike Racing
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    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    About Me:I'm a mom and a high school science teacher. I love my kids and most days love my job. I am educated, successful, independent, responsible, and happy. My coworkers would say I'm a hard worker and organized. I love to laugh and attempting to make other people laugh. I like reading, working out, traveling and spending time with family and friends. I enjoy living in St. Louis and all it has to offer. I am honest and a rule-follower.To give you an idea of what I do "in my spare time," it's taking advantage of the area. In the past few months, I've attended concerts, enjoyed dinner with friends, went camping, watched the air show, went swimming and to the zoo. We like making s'mores in the fire pit in the backyard, having movie nights and watching morning cartoons together. I am not a big sports fan, although I do enjoy watching or attending a game every now and then.Besides dance aerobics, I am training for a 15K. I hate running... but "might" admit I'm starting to like it. I have really enjoyed running the past few days right after it's rained and the leaves are starting to turn colors and drop. *Just FYI: I'm not a big drinker. I don't do drugs and won't tolerate it. I am not interested in having sex with men I barely know.*What I'm Looking For:An intelligent, attractive, funny, responsible, and successful man. I want to be able to go out to dinner and events at times but also stay home and cuddle on the couch. I am looking for something more than dating and a man who appreciates family. If you don't know if you want children, or are "open" to having children, you aren't for me. I do have two kids. My life is pretty great right now. But I could use some icing for my cake. ;-) I think it's fun to go out on a first date where you can talk and get to know one another. Long enough to determine if there is an initial spark.

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  • Carmela from Souderton | Woman | 32 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

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  • Toby from Souderton | Woman | 32 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    So about me...I'm a fun loving, outdoorsy, artistic, loyal, and good hearted woman! I enjoy being active, but I definitely need my downtime just as much! I'm a Christian and I try to live out my faith the best I can, but that doesn't mean I'm perfect. Nor do I expect you to be. That does mean if you're not then we can't date. I'm not opposed to making new friends though! If I message you and I may or may not be your type then at least say hey! I don't expect everyone to think I'm attractive, but I do like meeting new people. So if I message you then you either sound like a cool person that I could become friends with or you might just catch my eye. :) I am not looking for sex, I am not desperate, and I do have standards. I am only on here for the slim chance that this is where I might meet the person I'm supposed to be with. I was in a bad relationship and am more careful about dating now. So when I say nothing serious I mean that I am not just going to jump into something. If I like you then I will see where things might go and if there is a genuine connection then we can go from there. I am not a Barbie! If that's what you want I am not your type! I am strong willed, intelligent, and hard working! I work 2 jobs currently so I don't have as much time as I would like to do everything I need to do. I just got into running so I'm trying to be more conscientious about my health and more frequent with my workouts. I'd prefer someone who won't try to sabotage that intentionally or unintentionally. I don't mind if your a gamer because I'm a little nerdy myself, but if you spend more time with games and pay more attention to your games than my needs then I am also not your type! My friends and family are very important to me and I spend as much time with them as I can when I'm not working or setting off on one of my adventures. I love traveling and exploring new places! I prefer a man who can get his hands dirty, but can also go out and be sophisticated as well. If I sound interesting feel free to chat! :) Something simple like coffee, drinks, ice cream, etc. if you're a talker and are comfortable holding a conversation. I'm up for most anything! Just ask! The most important thing is it caters to our interests and were both comfortable. :)

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