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About Me

I try not to take life too seriously, but do when I need to. I'm great at sculpting to my surroundings, but most of the time I like to see if I can get away with being myself. I love to laugh, and be around people that can make me laugh. I am openminded, adventurous, fun-loving, out-going, and social. I know when it's time to work and when it's time to play, which is a fine line I've learned to walk over the years.I was married young and have been divorced for about 5 years now. At first I was happy to have my independence and definitely have had my share of good times, but I'm starting to realize that I miss love... I never thought I'd admit that! It's so hard to find and sucks when it falls apart but hey... Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Do i expect to find love here? Not really, but you never know and at the very least it's entertaining. I'm hoping I might stumble across a guy that is on my level. Someone comfortable in their own skin. Someone who wants to spend time with me but can let me do my own thing sometimes. Lemme know if you're into any of my loves below... That should give us something to talk about!****ing up and learning from it, working hard, playing harder, believing in karma, learning about other cultures, creepy conversations about paranormal phenomena, national geographic, 80 degree weather, being active, hibernating in winter, movies, Sunday night network shows, massages, snuggling, hoodie footie pjs, a clean, comfy home. I'm open to just about anything but if you're looking for a quick hookup I already have people I can call for that... :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dorothy

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    ***Disclaimer: I'm really not into Chat, I don't like the pressure of an immediate response, please send me a message *** hate to have to state the obvious but you're wasting your time by sending me a message with just your cell number and telling me to text you. That being said, everyone likes a compliment but please don't just message me "U R beautiful". It's not much of a conversation starter and I probably won't bother to reply. Thanks.*** Although I’m very independent, I’m a bit old fashion too. I really appreciate when a man remembers to be a gentleman. I find “guy humor” funny since I work with mostly men but I’d prefer the man that I’m with to treat me like a lady and not just one of the guys. If you're painfully shy, it's just not going to work out because I'm very outgoing and so aren't my friends. I like a guy who can mingle with any type of crowd. I try to take care of myself and like to dress nicely but I can also cuddle in a tee shirt and watch tv in bed. Physical attraction is obviously important but I can’t stand when a “hot” guy is c0cky, he will immediately lose "hot points" and is no longer considered attractive. I'm usually attracted to clean- I hate to fight, argue or even bicker. I also hate drama. Life is just too short. One good thing about always being around men is that I’ve learned that men really can’t read our minds and therefore, I just say what I mean. I find that it helps alleviate misunderstandings and arguments. I’ve never cheated on anyone and I’ll always be faithful until the end. I’m also a very affectionate person. I tend to wear my emotions on "my sleeve" which is usually happiness because I'm always smiling about something. I don't read books often unless I'm studying. I really need a tutor to explain Science to me so I can start my Masters. I like drama, action and non-fiction movies. I don't like "Chick Flicks" they are too predictable! I've gotten hooked on "The Big Bang Theory" and "The Walking Dead." I listen to almost any kind of music except head-banging hate music and classical. I have doubts about finding “the one” online but I figured since I shop for shoes, cars and everything else online, why not look for my soul mate? :***more thing, I’’s accent, I tend to drop the “r” on some words. I'm up for anything. I really don't like the typical dinner and a movie because you can't talk during a movie and I'd like to know who I'm sitting next to! I've only been on one really fancy dinner date in my whole life so any place that we can talk and get to know each other is fine with me. I'm not a picky eater and love to try new food/places but I'm a wimp when it comes to spicy food.I'd prefer something low pressure because lately I've had guys begin to sound like we're not just meeting up to get to know each other, we're meeting up to start the rest of our lives together. Yikes. Yes, I can always tell after the first date whether or not I think we'll mesh well and I'm sick of the dating scene too but let's not meet up with the intent to get married. That's a bit too much pressure for me, just saying.

  • Christia

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hi...i am playful, energetic and fun. I love to be creative and learn new things. Some of my interests include the beach, yoga, jogging, bbqs, cooking, painting, concerts, and most of all laughing and seeing the humor in life! I'm interested in meeting a man who is active, honest, affectionate and caring. Turn ons...chivalry, intelligence, nice smile/teeth, a silly sense of humor, inside jokes. Turn offs...users/players, opportunists, FLAKINESS.. I'm enjoying the journey and would like to enjoy adventures with one special guy. :)

  • Kendal

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Full time student.. Hard working, driven to succeed in life. Honest, caring, genuine person looking for the same. No time for games or drama, life is too short for that Love spending time with friends and family, the beach, being outdoors, the good stuff. Drinks and good conversation.

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