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Aleshia, 35

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About Me

Well this should be easy....yeah right ! Who am I? I am a mom to the most adorable, well behaved, wonderful, amazing one year old (okay I may be a little biased). After the sudden death of my husband two years ago, I took sometime to redefine myself and who I am. I am now just ready to start meeting people and expand my horizons. I enjoy most things and love to try at least everything once. I love spending time outside and a nice hike or a day on the beach is definitely for me. I never knew that this was not a common thing...but I am not a fan of the typical "chick flick" movie...they really do not hold by attention and can usually put be to sleep. I do enjoy an action/adventure. end of the world type movie. As far as my personality goes....I can be VERY sarcastic and like a person who can give it right back to me :-) I am usually shy in new situations but can open up fairly easily. I get along with almost everyone and have a kind heart. Ideal first date: Going anywhere....it's all about the conversation and connection. Dinner is always fun. Nothing to high pressure and something you don't have to dress-up for. First dates in my opinion are better when you are comfortable and relaxed.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dyan

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am a 30 year old female who lived in NYC my whole life. This is actually my very first year on a dating website and I am actually sort of nervous. Ok here it goes...I was not the type of girl who always wanted to have a boyfriend. This does not mean that I was a crazy party girl ***. I just feel like ever since I got older, I became more picky in who I wanted to date or have a relationship with. Since I turned 30, I really do feel like I am ready to meet someone who is an open-minded, independent, honest, caring person who is really fun to be around. I love to laugh and always want to be around someone who does not sweat the small stuff. I am a down to earth, sarcastic (in a good way), non-judgemental,intelligent, caring person with a great sense of humor. I am extremely laid back and can have fun in almost any place I go. I do not like any DRAMA in my life and I really hate to fight.I am just getting sick of meeting guys at a crowded bar where they are literally pressed up against me and super drunk. It would be nice to meet someone *** at bars. Now, even though I want to be in a relationshiop someday, I still want to take things slow when I meet someone. For example, I would NEVER ask after the third date "where things are going between us." I would never smother you or try to make you change your ways (Its just not my style.) But I am a very affectionate person if I do feel that we have a connection. Sooo, if you are interested in my photos (and yes they are RECENT photos) and my profile, feel free to *** up somewhere for a cup of water. :) jk

  • Britteny

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am someone who has a good head on her shoulders. I can be silly, but also know when it is time to be serious. I have a job that I absloutely love, and there is never a dull moment. I have friends that I don't always get to see or talk to, but are able to pick right up where we left off. I am like any other typical girl in the fact that I love to shop--even if I don't buy anything at all. It's something that relaxes me. I love playing mini-golf when the weather is nice, and going for walks. When it's raining, I like to stay in and play board games or just cuddle up and watch tv. A first date should take place somewhere that I can hold a conversation with a person and get to know someone; definitely not going to see a movie. More importantly than what I would want to do on a first date, I should explain what it is that I am looking for in a match for me. I would like to meet someone who is honest, whom I can trust, laugh with, and generally just have a good time with. I'm a sarcastic person so I would like to meet someone who can dish it out, as well as take it.

  • Eirene

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hey Guys ...Doesn't this whole online dating process seem like an infomercial about yourself? Just curious!As you can see I have a quirky sense of humor. I am a very outgoing person who loves to talk but is also a great listener. I'm a very open minded person and love to try new things. Once I'm interested in someone and I feel we have a good connection the more important and serious qualities about me start to shine through. I always give 100% at everything I do including in relationships and I feel that should be mutual. I feel that having a balance of friendship along with romantic chemistry is very important. I love small surprises because I feel as we age life starts to become a little more predictable. I must admit I am rarely surprised but if someone can manage to surprise me that would definitely spark my interest. I am always cold and mosquitos love me. I enjoy spending time outdoors and breathing in some fresh air is always nice (ex. biking, hiking, rollerblading, walking). Music has always been a passion of mine and I genuinely love all types of music. So, going to any kind of concert, festival, club or punk show is always a plus. Although I must admit I am not a huge country music fan. Along with having a love for music comes my love for dance. I have taken all forms of dance and once in awhile I could bop along to a good song in the grocery store. Art, culture and love for life lets me enjoy such activities as going to the city, museums, amusement parks, beach, parks, live sporting events, dining experiences, etc. I am not always expecting a fast paced life of filling my schedule with activities, which means I know how to relax and enjoy quiet nights, rainy days and lazy days.Since I believe in honesty... I do occasionally smoke. I am looking for a positive influence in my life to help me quit altogether. So, if you are brave enough to be a positive influence and distract my mind enough so I don't have the occasional thought anymore would be AWESOME!!!Serial daters who are not looking to EVER settle down please do not apply. I understand the point of dating is to get to know each other but I am not down with the games.With all that being said, I am full of personality that I would love to share with someone and I have much more to offer than a few paragraphs. If you contact me and I do not reply it is because I felt we may not have a connection. Please do not take offense. I just felt that maybe we would not have enough in common but don't give up hope because there is always someone out there that is perfect for you.Looking forward to meeting someone great!!! Basically somewhere we can talk to get to know each other. So,if you can think of something clever let me know ;)

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