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Dyan, 31

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About Me

I am a 30 year old female who lived in NYC my whole life. This is actually my very first year on a dating website and I am actually sort of nervous. Ok here it goes...I was not the type of girl who always wanted to have a boyfriend. This does not mean that I was a crazy party girl ***. I just feel like ever since I got older, I became more picky in who I wanted to date or have a relationship with. Since I turned 30, I really do feel like I am ready to meet someone who is an open-minded, independent, honest, caring person who is really fun to be around. I love to laugh and always want to be around someone who does not sweat the small stuff. I am a down to earth, sarcastic (in a good way), non-judgemental,intelligent, caring person with a great sense of humor. I am extremely laid back and can have fun in almost any place I go. I do not like any DRAMA in my life and I really hate to fight.I am just getting sick of meeting guys at a crowded bar where they are literally pressed up against me and super drunk. It would be nice to meet someone *** at bars. Now, even though I want to be in a relationshiop someday, I still want to take things slow when I meet someone. For example, I would NEVER ask after the third date "where things are going between us." I would never smother you or try to make you change your ways (Its just not my style.) But I am a very affectionate person if I do feel that we have a connection. Sooo, if you are interested in my photos (and yes they are RECENT photos) and my profile, feel free to *** up somewhere for a cup of water. :) jk

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    These profile things are so hard to fill out. It's worse than a job interview. I guess I'll say this: I haven't stayed in one place very long till now and I'm here for the long run. I'd like to meet new people with interesting hobbies and interests, especially adventure minded individuals. I enjoy learning, traveling,playing outside and joking around. Race, ethnicity, education, income, etc are all welcome but I am on the tall side (almost 5'9) so it's a factor cause I love heels. So hit me up and tell me how you got through writing this paragraph. Self-promotion is exhausting. Good luck and cheers. Beach, snorkel, ocean, sun, music on the sand, good chats and laugh, fresh food snacks and sipping some local flavor as the sun sets.

  • Nerissa

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    So first off I feel the need to express my disgust of the men I thought were on the same page as me. I have been trying to find someone to settle down with for a while now and keep finding myself involved with men who end up not being the person they portrayed themselves to be, so basically liars. These guys come off very sweet in the beginning saying how they have been hurt in the past, and that they are looking for a serious monogamous relationship, and that they are different from all of the other guys out there. If you are that type of person that I have just described, please just move along. I am not looking for drama, head-games, liars, etc...etc....Now that that's out of the way, a little about me if you're still interested. I am opinionated, but not to the point that I don't listen; I just like to share my thoughts and views and expect the same from someone else. I find that if you don't speak up, then that could lead to problems down the road. I like to travel, play & watch sports; my favorite sports to play are snowboarding (I just started this past season and love it) and tennis, and I love watching baseball & football (a couple of my favs) go Yankees! :) I have my degree in Graphic Design. I love art, design, museums, movies, reading, all types of music, concerts, festivals & photography. I also love fishing, camping, hiking, and other outdoorsy stuff. I like going to the bars, & out in general, but I also like to stay in sometimes just as much and relax at home and watch movies. I'm pretty laid back, and I like to do just about anything, and am open minded. I am a mix between a girly girl and tomboy, you would definitely have to get to know me to fully understand this. I am far from perfect and don't expect you to be perfect either, that would just make me a hypocrite. She is my best friend and is always with me when she can be.The type of guy I am looking for is not full of himself, down to earth, honest, giving, compassionate, & can be spontaneous but also able to make plans and keep them, and most importantly loyal. I believe a good recipe for a good relationship starts with similar interests and friendship, because without that what is there left to build on?**also, FYI I most likely will not respond to you if your profile has pictures of you without your shirt on or of you showing off your muscles. It's nice to have a little imagination, you don't have to show it all just to get someone to talk to you. Obviously you must be full of yourself to be showing yourself off on a public site or insecure, and that's not the type of guy that i'm in to so don't bother. And secondly, what is with most of the guys on here having pictures of themselves with girls hanging all over them or vice versa???? I most likely will not respond to you if you have these either, it just screams player...

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I try not to take life too seriously, but do when I need to. I'm great at sculpting to my surroundings, but most of the time I like to see if I can get away with being myself. I love to laugh, and be around people that can make me laugh. I am openminded, adventurous, fun-loving, out-going, and social. I know when it's time to work and when it's time to play, which is a fine line I've learned to walk over the years.I was married young and have been divorced for about 5 years now. At first I was happy to have my independence and definitely have had my share of good times, but I'm starting to realize that I miss love... I never thought I'd admit that! It's so hard to find and sucks when it falls apart but hey... Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Do i expect to find love here? Not really, but you never know and at the very least it's entertaining. I'm hoping I might stumble across a guy that is on my level. Someone comfortable in their own skin. Someone who wants to spend time with me but can let me do my own thing sometimes. Lemme know if you're into any of my loves below... That should give us something to talk about!****ing up and learning from it, working hard, playing harder, believing in karma, learning about other cultures, creepy conversations about paranormal phenomena, national geographic, 80 degree weather, being active, hibernating in winter, movies, Sunday night network shows, massages, snuggling, hoodie footie pjs, a clean, comfy home. I'm open to just about anything but if you're looking for a quick hookup I already have people I can call for that... :)

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