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Gilma, 32
United States, Pennsylvania, Slatington

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About Me

I want to find a connection - someone to share my life with. I don't want to fool around, I want a lover. I don't want someone who wants to connect only a few times a week, I want a best friend I can talk to about anything, anytime. I want to be a mini-van mom with a guy who makes a great dad. I'm a great care-giver, and really enjoy taking care of those I love, but I want to be cared for and cherished myself, not taken advantage of.Half introvert, half extrovert, I like balance in my life, enjoying a good party and solitude. I'm a down-to-earth, fun-loving person - very affectionate. (I believe in random, unannounced hugs), intellectual and loyal. I smile at everyone, sing for all reasons, hug when I'm happy, dance when I'm alone, love children and close friendships, am inspired by affirmation and am frustrated by disrespect. What am I looking for in a guy? It's really difficult to say it's anything particular - strength and integrity, humor, compassion, a love for God, a love for kids, family-oriented, affectionate, someone who can take charge but values my input and opinion..."Who doesn't long for someone to hold - who knows how to love you, without being told?"So, whatcha think? Whatever enables us to get to know each other within a short span of time! Can't we do something casual, but nontraditional?;..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Play Musical Instrument Adult Family & Kids War Baseball
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