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Selby, 33
United States, Pennsylvania, Sharon

Offline, last seen Sun, 12 Jul 2026 14:22:14

About Me

Hmm, I hate this part, as I am sure most of you out there do. First off I have 2 wonderful girls ages 10 and 11, they live with me full time, I am very family orientated and spend a lot of time with them.So I have been recently told that I am intimidating, I look at my self and I don't see it. So can someone please tell me why I am intimidating to talk to???? To be honest I am not sure what I am really looking for right at the moment. Start as friends and hang out, talk have fun would be good. I have lots of interests that range from reading to exploring. You want to know more than ask, I am not going to give you all the info here, yes I am going to make you actually use your keyboard and write. It tells me to talk about goals and aspiration once again ask, that is something that comes up in a naturally flowing conversation. Yes I am sarcastic and sassy, I am honest, I have my sweet side, I have a good sense of humor, I am fairly easy going and I have a brain that I do actually use. As for music my interest is a wide range. I read, I write, like all different movies, mostly action or thrillers for the most part. I am told I am a very interesting person, I can generally hold my own in a conversation even if its something I have no idea about.......Next few sentences may sound like I am bitter hardly I just have a very low BS tolerance**I have to laugh not sure what brings me back to this site. People say they are looking to chat, get to know people, I will try to start a conversation, and yet no response, If your only looking to chat does it really matter what the other person looks like. It's the same thing as looking to hang out, not looking for a commitment or anything when it comes down to it if your looking for friends DOES IT REALLY MATTER what that person looks like? Correct answer being NO!Oct.4,***Looking through profiles I find it hilarious that users without pics, demand that a person needs to have a pic to contact them....when only looking for friends...WTF....will never understand peoples mind set.**Now for the rest of you that are going on about finding the one, hate to break it to you but some supermodel isn't going to be sitting on the other side of the screen, so those for you that are looking for some perfect barbie looking trophy you are going to be sadly disappointed.** And those of you that are ***grow up, get out of the midlife crisis phase, take a look around you, you live in the Cariboo. Most of us women here are cariboofied, and those that haven't lived here long well they will be cariboofied in no time at all. Look beyond what is on the outside cause you ain't going to be pretty in another 20 to 30 years either. **This is not my first time here, I am not dumb, so please don't treat me as if I am. I try to live by 2 rules :#1: Treat others the way we want to be treated. #2: If you can't say anything nice than don't say anything at all. Screw the first date, let's just go find something to do and chill.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reading Walking Indian Vietnamese Action Comedy Music Sci-Fi
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