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Chara
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I'm newly separated from my husband after 13 years, and looking to rejoin the social scene. I have 2 children, ages 9 and 3, I work, I go to school full time, and my kids and I are in a musical, so my time is limited and my schedule is hectic, but I'd like to meet a nice guy to hang around with. Nothing serious. Definitely not looking to jump right into another relationship, but I've never really been single, and I know NOTHING about the dating scene. In all honesty, I'm quite socially akward, but getting better, I think. I like to go out (but don't often get the chance) or stay in. I like a good movie, especially suspense, cheesy horror, and comedy. I'm a "reader." My favorite author is Steven King, and if you've read Dark Tower, you're already leaps and bounds above the "competition," so let me know! I love just about any kind of music, but lean toward rock/hard rock/alternative. I went through about a decade long goth phase, so you can assume I like most of those cliche's (velvet and lace, dark music/movies/books, vampires [not Twlight!], halloween,etc.) though I was never much for trendy. I was already an outcast, and halloween was my favorite time of year, so after dying the hair black for a haunted house job, it just kind of worked out that way.I'm an open book, and tend to overdiscuss things. I like to know what people are thinking about everything at every given point. The hardest part of my transition into the social scene has been this concept of "going with the flow." I may not be looking for a relationship, but I would like to know that a person I'm spending time with appreciates my company. If you can't make an effort to let me know either in word or action, please don't bother messaging me. I don't need constant reassurance, but I certainly don't want to waste my time bugging someone who doesn't want to be bugged. On that note, I am persistant, but generally assume the worst if I don't know what's going on. (Thus the overdiscussing)Now that I've probably scared everyone away, on to lighter things: I like theater and musicals, I love stand-up comedy and cult classics. I don't have pets, but I'd like a kitten. I'm a bleeding-heart liberal who can admit that our govt. has gotten out of hand. I have an associates in Criminal Justice and am working toward my bachelors, but I'm no longer sure what I want to do with my degree. I'm a barista/bartender at a great place in a small town. I don't make nearly enough money. I'd love to travel, but never really have. I LOVE road trips! I like to be spontaneous, but it's especially tough with a kid in school. I'm horribly indecisive, but once I make a decision, I stick with it. I have no problem admitting I'm wrong, but I'll argue till I'm out of breath if I think I'm right. My family is the most important thing to me. My children come first in every decision. The rest of my family is all in town too. I'm a small-town girl through and through, though I enjoy the buzz of the city.My goal for now is just to find a nice guy to spend time with. Someone who appreciates honesty and communication, and isn't into playing mind games. A sense of humor and adventure are important, and remember, sleep is for the weak. Something very casual. Coffee in the park or a few drinks out. A museum would be lovely if you're so inclined. Somewhere we can talk and get to know each other a bit. Movie dates stink.
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Charmaine
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Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
I'm happy, content with life, intelligent and adventurous. I have many interests and always discovering more (I recently learned to ride an ATV and attempted dirt biking). I'm curious about life, people, places, the universe, and pretty much everything else. I enjoy solitude equally as much as being in a crowd of people. I love spending time in the city, but like living at the foot of the escarpment (hiking haven!). I wish I could say I don't take myself too seriously but damn it that'd be a lie. I can't tell a joke to save my life. But I will laugh at yours (even the bad ones). I love the outdoors and being active. I am thrilled by shooting stars, fireworks and stunning sunsets. I've traveled some but would love to travel more. And I'm looking for someone affectionate, interesting, kind, and a bit wild to share it all with. My interests reach far and wide, I'm generally open to exploring anything and often surprise myself with what I like.When it comes to movies, I often find myself liking the ones off the beaten path. The slightly odd ones that leave you unnerved or get you thinking or make you go wtf? I'm a documentary junkie... too many, too little time to keep up with themMusic: a VERY mixed bag of stuff...! etc. I love being introduced to new stuff and I loooove going to concerts!Books: too many to mention - I often have a novel or two on the go at all timesFood: anything! (well anything that can be vegetarian). Food is a huge passion of mine and you will often find me at a farmer's market, food/drink festival, specialty food store, hunting down unusual ingredients/spices, in the kitchen making up a new recipe or sharing food with those around me. Drinks. And honesty - if you're not feeling it, whether it be a friendship or something more, it's cool if you tell me. And I will do the same :)
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Davida
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Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 31-41
I like to cook, I have 2 children. I love live and loud music from bluegrass to classical to death metal. I love music. I love going to the beach altho there isnt one around here. I hope someday to relocate. I dont really have anything else Id like to add at this time = ***Grab a bite and a drink somewhere smoky with a local band rockin some songs i know