SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Chara
Online
Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I'm newly separated from my husband after 13 years, and looking to rejoin the social scene. I have 2 children, ages 9 and 3, I work, I go to school full time, and my kids and I are in a musical, so my time is limited and my schedule is hectic, but I'd like to meet a nice guy to hang around with. Nothing serious. Definitely not looking to jump right into another relationship, but I've never really been single, and I know NOTHING about the dating scene. In all honesty, I'm quite socially akward, but getting better, I think. I like to go out (but don't often get the chance) or stay in. I like a good movie, especially suspense, cheesy horror, and comedy. I'm a "reader." My favorite author is Steven King, and if you've read Dark Tower, you're already leaps and bounds above the "competition," so let me know! I love just about any kind of music, but lean toward rock/hard rock/alternative. I went through about a decade long goth phase, so you can assume I like most of those cliche's (velvet and lace, dark music/movies/books, vampires [not Twlight!], halloween,etc.) though I was never much for trendy. I was already an outcast, and halloween was my favorite time of year, so after dying the hair black for a haunted house job, it just kind of worked out that way.I'm an open book, and tend to overdiscuss things. I like to know what people are thinking about everything at every given point. The hardest part of my transition into the social scene has been this concept of "going with the flow." I may not be looking for a relationship, but I would like to know that a person I'm spending time with appreciates my company. If you can't make an effort to let me know either in word or action, please don't bother messaging me. I don't need constant reassurance, but I certainly don't want to waste my time bugging someone who doesn't want to be bugged. On that note, I am persistant, but generally assume the worst if I don't know what's going on. (Thus the overdiscussing)Now that I've probably scared everyone away, on to lighter things: I like theater and musicals, I love stand-up comedy and cult classics. I don't have pets, but I'd like a kitten. I'm a bleeding-heart liberal who can admit that our govt. has gotten out of hand. I have an associates in Criminal Justice and am working toward my bachelors, but I'm no longer sure what I want to do with my degree. I'm a barista/bartender at a great place in a small town. I don't make nearly enough money. I'd love to travel, but never really have. I LOVE road trips! I like to be spontaneous, but it's especially tough with a kid in school. I'm horribly indecisive, but once I make a decision, I stick with it. I have no problem admitting I'm wrong, but I'll argue till I'm out of breath if I think I'm right. My family is the most important thing to me. My children come first in every decision. The rest of my family is all in town too. I'm a small-town girl through and through, though I enjoy the buzz of the city.My goal for now is just to find a nice guy to spend time with. Someone who appreciates honesty and communication, and isn't into playing mind games. A sense of humor and adventure are important, and remember, sleep is for the weak. Something very casual. Coffee in the park or a few drinks out. A museum would be lovely if you're so inclined. Somewhere we can talk and get to know each other a bit. Movie dates stink.
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Monique
Online
Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
Here's a list for you of some highlights:-I'm a bit of a "hippie" and I've been told I look like a tree hugger. -I love nature and feel the best when I am surrounded by it. I strive to live more sustainably on the planet. -I want to live outside of cities rather than in them (for the reason stated above).-I am both creative and analytical yet not many would call me practical. I make decisions that are not always logical or rational. I'm a big believer in following my heart and intuition and this trumps logic and practicality for me. -I love staying at home as well as going on outdoor adventures. -I am the only parent to my 3 year old son, and am looking for someone who wants to join our family and help us grow it. -I have a degree in mathematics that I don't use at all. -I love to read and learn new things. -I dabbled in internet marketing for a bit to try and find a way to make location-independent income. I learned a lot, but ultimately felt like it wasn't right for me. I am currently putting energy towards a variety of web design projects. This allows me to create potential income opportunities while expressing creativity and having my son in my own care. -I had a negative experience in the mainstream school system for a large chunk of my life and am now a huge believer in unschooling and child-led learning. -After focusing for a long time on a vegan raw food diet, I've recently begun gravitating more towards a sustainable diet that includes animal foods. I am currently brewing my own kombucha and enjoying it very much. -I am a big believer in natural health and birth, home birth, and unassisted birth. I am not a believer in most standard western medical ideology/practices, though I recognize that at times they can be potentially useful (i.e.caring for broken bones)Please don't contact me if you don't have a profile picture or if you are older than 40. Go for a walk in the park?
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Vianne
Online
Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
To start, I am 31 yrs old. I am a single mother of a 10 yr old, but dont let that scare you. I have plenty of people around to watch her. I am very laid back and easy going. I enjoy spending time with my family and friends. I like to go out every now and then but not all the time. I like to cuddle up on the couch and watch movies with someone. I am looking for someone I can spend time with and get to know. Then see what happeneds from there. I am a very independent, and some men cant handle that. So if you are looking for someone to follow you around like a puppy its not me. I am a great listener, but love to talk as well. I am a real straight forward person. I tell people how it is even if its not what they want to hear. I am a real women and I do have curves. So if your looking for the skin and bones type. Its not me. I listen to mainly Country music, but really anything with a good beat. If you would like to know more just ask. I am an open book and very honest. Also if you are looking for a booty call or a texting buddy. I'm not your girl. If you don't have time to see someone then what's the point of dating. If your not will to go out and do new and fun things there's also no point. I am open to really any type of first date. Somewhere we can talk and get to know each other is the best.