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Nahla, 31

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About Me

As of Aug ***, I am a mommy to the most amazing little boy. If you can not see yourself dating a single mom or can not grasp the concept of my son being number 1 in my life, then you do not need to read any further. I understand that children are not for everyone, and respect that 100% so there is no need for either of us to waste our time, just be honest :) I attempt to keep my life as stress free and drama free as possible. I am always up for a good time and am always up to try new things. Im a loud mouth and will always tell it like it is. I am a thin, white woman so if thats not your "type" then no offense, please don't waste my time, or yours for that matter. I listen to all types of music (yes this includes country) generally based upon my mood at the time. I tend to go for tall MEN from all walks of life but work best with the easy going, self sufficient ones with a TERRIFIC sense of humor. I was a wildchild for many years but things have changed drastically since I had my son. I think everyone needs to let loose occasionally but the days of constant partying are behind me. I WILL NOT go clubbing. If thats ur thing, awesome, but I am more of a dive bar/pub type. Finally, while many people are on this site to find their "one and only," I am perfectly fine making some new friends. This does NOT mean that I am looking for a hook up. Thats not my style. I am a mixture of the girl next door and a tomboy. My hair and makeup are not always done but thats not going to stop me from running out to the store or even stopping at the bar sometimes. I love how my butt looks when i wear heels but 99% of the time i am rockin jeans and flip flops. I cant stand people that are unable to have a good time unless they are the center of attention. Do not expect me to send you pictures (clothed or naked) because I won't. I have respect for myself and if you're the superficial kind of guy that expects such things, you aren't the kind of guy I am looking for, sorry. There are plenty of trashy girls with low self esteem out there for you to bother. ~ If you have a super hairy chest, it is not attractive to walk around with your shirt unbuttoned low enough to show off your amazon fur. I don't care who you are, it is NOT a good look.....on anyone....seriously.~ I am terribly allergic to cats so if you have some sort of homeless cat shelter in your house, we won't work. I love animals (def a dog person) but cats and I just don't get along.~ I am not looking to correct spelling or punctuation issues in ***, however, PLEASE do not talk to me unless you have the ability to communicate in proper English. I'm not a "shortie," I'm not "tryin a holla atchu," and believe it or not a paragraph has more than one period. If you pronounce the "th" sound as an "f," keep it moving. It's just sad and pathetic (especially since I have a thing for nice teeth.) If your mouth looks like you snack on yellow crayons and dynamite, I am totally turned off. **If one of your profile pics is a copy of your mugshot, please don't bother. I am NOT going to respond (and I find it quite sad that I have to make this part of my profile.) anything...a sporting event, some drinks (always loosens things up a bit), ice cream, a walk....the possibilities are as open as your mind allows them to be!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dorla

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Don't ask stupid questions, please. Read this and if it isn't your fit move on! It's just a waste of time if you don't!First lets talk about body type. Average doesn't mean you got a big ole gut and a flabby ass! Athletic means you have a muscular body (not some muscle buried under a bunch of fat!). A few extra pounds means you should stop eating McDs and get your a$$ to the gym. Just sayin.I DO NOT WANT TO SEE YOUR PENIS BEFORE I MEET YOU!!!!! I WILL NOT SEND YOU NUDIE PICS OF MYSELF!I am a passionate person who emphasizes family values and being a good friend to people.I have an 18 year old cat and a 10 week old cat. I love my cats like they are my kids--they aren't going anywhere!If you want to meet for a drink and change your mind please be courteous and let me know in a timely fashion. First of all my time is precious (so is yours) and I don't appreciate losing any of it. Second, it's just disrespectful.Dancing, hiking, camping, bonfires, wild animals (I know right), dining, cooking, sleeping, cuddling, festivals, music, picnics, parties, wine, good beer-especially on a patio on a hot summer day, fabulous conversation, intellects, water, beaches, estuaries, science, math: All words that describe things I enjoy. "The meaning of the word *** and "Trust me on the sunscreen" videos are quite frankly my favorite videos (youtube)--the messages are very near and dear to me. I am a huge fan of grainy 80s movies in addition to 80s music. I enjoy movies and I watch shows like Desperate Housewives and Glee. Big fan of 2 TVs in the house--that way, while you watch sports (unless its hockey or football) I can watch what I like to watch too!Music is a blessing. I enjoy all types (well OK I tolerate country and am learning to like it) but mostly I am trance and house junkie.I have a very colorful background. If you don't want to hear the stories about the madness of my youth, move on! I talk to some of my x's-I hope you do too. My best friend is a guy. These things aren't changing. If you can't spell--don't bother. If you can't have an intelligent conversation please don't waste my time! If you are lazy and/or unemployed, live with your mom or dad, are in the middle of a divorce (this means separated too!!!), have jealousy issues or really any issue with me going out with my friends get-lost!I am NOT religious in a traditional sense--will never be (I am a pantheist). Don't thump me in the head with a bible! I think the coolest thing is the diversity that religion offers--I am ashamed of those who think that what they believe is any better than the rest! I do believe in the 10 commandments--if that helps.Politics...hmmmm. Probably a liberal on the conservative side. I seem to get more conservative as I get older.If you have pictures of your kids on THIS website there is something wrong with you and I would prefer never to hear from you. Please don't allow your children to be the awwww factor--It is just plain gross! They shouldn't even meet a new "friend" until a few months into a relationship.Your opinion is just as important as mine.Honesty is the best policy! Somewhere for a drink or coffee, walk at the lake--public. I am not just gonna swing by your place or have you to mine before I meet you!

  • Shelomith

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    OK HERE'S MY SCOOP IM 31 I HAVE 2KIDS I WORK ALOT....I LIKE TO GO OUT AND HAVE A GOOD TIME I DONT NEED DRAMA IN MY LIFE,I HAVE KIDS SO I AM LOOKING FOR A MAN NOT ANOTHER KID...I AM A THICK CHIC SO IF UR LOOKING FOR A SCRONNY GIRL SHE IS NOT HERE.....IM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO CHAT WITH GET TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER AND IF WE CLICK THEN WE WILL C WAT HAPPENS,THE WAY I LOOK AT IT IS,IT IS WAT IT IS......I AM NOT INTO SHORT GUYS BECAUSE I AM TALL AND I JUST DONT THINK IT LOOKS RIGHT(LOL).....IM REALLY NOT INTO GOING TO THE MOVIES I RATHER CHILL AT HOME,CUDDLE UP AND WATCH A MOVIE....MY KIDS R MY LIFE SO IF U WANT ME TO URSELF THATS NOT GONNA HAPPEN(THERE WILL B DAYS U WILL HAVE ME TO URSELF BUT NOT ***IF U DONT LIKE KIDS THEN BOUNCE BECAUSE I COME AS A PACKAGE.....I don't got time for games so if u on bull**it and don't know wHat u lookin for please don't waste my time.... Definitely not to your house...

  • Shirlene

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I have led an unconventional life thus far. Lots of adventures, misadventures and unexpected twists along the way - not all of them enjoyable at the time - but in retrospect? I am thankful for it all.It's taken a while to get here - to this place where I know myself. I'm comfortable with myself and what I want in life. If this is what happens when one turns ***bloody hell... I wish I'd gotten here soon! For all the "certainty of self" I have found - I don't think we always know who will make us happy. Wanting and valuing the same things? Essential. Beyond that - chemistry and the quirks of human interaction are rather indescipherable to me.So, I am going to keep it simple. Not exactly what I thought I would be doing with my MA in Political Economy; however, I just love it. I am also in school part time in to become a Registered Holistic Nutritionist. Food, the "politics of food" and sharing with people what a profound impact your food choices can have - both on your health and on a political and environmental level - this is my passion. In my free time - basically I just hang out with my Dogchild (see adorable spotted beast above) and chill at home reading or cooking/baking or kick my ass and go to yoga.I am looking for someone who wants to be a part of my life and has no need for me to BE their entire life. Between school and work - I am indeed quite busy four days a week. But the other three days?It would be lovely to find someone to adventure with -If you think we might enjoy each other - send me a message.Have a lovely night.

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