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Merri, 33

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About Me

I've been on this site a few times, and each time I wonder why LOL...no offence, but it often seems like more work than it needs to be. People don't seem to read your profile and you both end up wasting your time, when you could be looking for someone you'd ACTUALLY have a connection with...BUT, I did meet some cool people and honestly, when it comes to dating, you have to pick through the bad ones to find the good ones no matter what the format (bar, online, etc.), so I figure since I'm not much of a bar person, I may as well post on here again and see what happens.Right off the bat, I'll tell you that I'm VERY outspoken, so that being said, I'll lay it all out on the table now...If you do not have a pic or are looking for a fling, don't bother messaging me. No matter how hard u try, I know what I want, & it won't happen LOL. Only those genuinely invested in getting to know me need to reply :)I'm a "big" girl. I'm not saying that to put myself down - I'm still a beautiful girl and it's something I'm working on for ME. Sadly, I hate that I need to mention that in my profile, but let's be honest, attraction is important so if you're not attracted to an overweight girl, you can move on now :). Other attributes? I'm sarcastic, fun, a BIG TIME music lover, and a girlie girl who also loves watching sports (esp football and baseball - GO TIGERS!!!). I could go on, but then what will we have to talk about?!? :)What am I looking for? Someone who loves sports and has a great sense of humour. There is no specific "appearance" that I am looking for, but I will be honest, if I read your profile and don't have an initial interest, I'm not going to waste my time, or yours, and simply move on. While I've listed that I'm looking for a relationship and ultimately want to find "the one", I also don't believe love can be found...that it just happens. So, I'd love to get to know people and see if that is the past we're destined for.Good luck in your search! Hope to hear from you soon :) You'd win me over if you took me to a sporting event and/or a concert :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Corazon

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I like tall men. Im 5'7" and like to wear high heals, but don't like to be taller than the person I'm with. One of the biggest turn offs is an unshaved neckline. Please read my entire profile before you decide to message me.... I'm just going to put it all out there because I would rather be up front & honest than have to say all of this later on. If I don't messsage you back it is not because I'm a snob or a bi*ch. It can just get overwhelming on here sometimes and I honestly don't know what to say if I'm not interested. I don't like to be rude to people and I don't think there is a polite way to say I'm not interested. I have tried writing people back many different times to try and somehow politely say I'm not interested. In return I received not very nice messages calling me a snobby bi*ch. I am not at all, I am the opposite. I actually have a very big soft heart and I'm very caring. If I message someone and never hear back I just assume they are not interested and move on, no big deal. So I'm not sure why people feel the need to send hate messages. Ugh :-/ I'm happy with the direction my life is going. I have a great job and my own home and I'm not looking for someone take care of me. I just would like to meet new people, make new friends, have fun and see where it goes from there. I've had my share of heartache and I'm done being depressed. I just want to enjoy my life. I'm done with drama so if you're over emotional and thrive off of creating drama please don't contact me. I'm not looking to run off into the sunset and get married anytime soon, I guess I just want to date and see what happens from there. I'm not a one night stand type of girl and I have seen that a lot of guys on here are just wanting a booty call, and I'm not that girl. I'm down to have a good time and see where things lead but I'm not a whore so if that's what you're looking for then please don't message me. I am pretty new to the dating world so if I come off a bit shy at first know that I will get over my nerves, it just takes me a little while to warm up but not long. I am pretty much down to try almost anything once and I just really want to start having fun in life. I'm sick of drama and over emotional people.I have 4 of the most amazing kids in the entire world, they are truly a big part of what keeps me going. I was married for almost 15 years and recently filled fora divorce. I got married when I was 17 and had been married to the same man up until recently. All of my children are with the same man. My marriage started getting hard about 6 years ago when the man I married decided to start using drugs and cheat on me numerous times. I'm not sure why he decided to live this way all of the sudden but it was as if he reverted back to his high school days. I held on for 5 years fighting as hard as I possibly could and trying everything & anything I could think of in order to keep my vows. Im sure i didnt do everything perfect but I did the best i could in the sitution I was in. It takes two to make a relationship work and he decided he didn't want to be married and I could not change that. So if you would like to message me after reading this please feel free, I would love to hear from you if you're not one of the crazy or mean people on here. ;-) Willing to try almost anything once! So whatever sounds good to you! ;-)

  • Tony

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am tired of dating boys. I am looking for an honest, trustworthy man who wants an actual relationship. There are so many people on here that are untruthful, please don't waste my time, there are plenty of other girls on here that are just looking for a fling. I am a single mother who doesn't have a lot of free time and focuses on raising my daughter. We have a chocolate lab who we love and is part of the family. I love outdoor activities and am trying hard to get into shape. I love to try new things and meet new people. If you are into playing games or one night stands don't even bother... Something fun and different

  • Ulla

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I just want to take a moment to say thanks for stopping by and taking the time to read this! I'm a pretty laid back kinda girl! I work hard and try my best to have a good time when I'm off! I have a daughter who I absolutely adore, she'll be 18 in a few months and on her own and a 2 year old granddaughter who is my world! There are plenty of things to keep me occupied...I LOVE to fish!, camping, grilling anything outdoors! Relaxing with good friends and great conversation! I can even chill at home with a board game and a movie! I also enjoy cooking! And I hear I'm pretty good at it! ;). As far as what I'm "looking" for....just someone who is respectful, truthful , kind and possibly a sense of humor! Always a plus! I want someone to experience life with. To live Laugh and Love! i really don't care as long as were connecting and having agreat time!

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