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Detra, 31

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About Me

I'm an artist, art therapist, and music lover. Spiritual but not religious, Virgo, cat person, introvert, social, and intuitive. The rest we can talk about later! I wouldn't say that I'm open to going wherever the wind will take me (that was more in my 20's) but I am open to thinking about it, planning it, and THEN doing it. Yep, I used to pick up and leave whenever I wanted. Now I am kind of looking for a way to be grounded, successful, and free-spirited. I've been an independent person since the day I was born, sometimes to a fault. I don't like being told what or how to do anything. Well, if it's something that I care about. If it's computers, please DO tell me how. Most of all, I want to help. That might sound cliche, but I see it as a way of life, not just my career. What I'm looking for: someone who is HONEST WITH HIMSELF.Someone who has the ability to express what he FEELS, needs, and wants.Someone who values inner growth and embraces change. Msg me if the above resonates with you. First date should be magical, right? Hopefully it would supercede anything I'd write right here..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Malia

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Disclaimer: yes I had to change my headline so my profile is read. I know before I read ur message that you've not read it. I Do want more children. It's not just an option I chose... I Do want to be married too. I am outgoing, bubbly, and fun. I'm a giver and sometimes to a fault. my friends say i'm a good listener and communicator. If I could live at Disneyland I would...lol! I would eventually like to move to Cali and live in a beach house but I could settle for just living in Cali *** hot ol' Phx! (I'm a native born and raised in Phx.) I have house I am fixing and flipping. I'd luv a partner in crime in this fix and flip. :***also, when I say I am fixing, I mean I am fixing. I'm not hiring contractors, I am doing it myself with a couple of friends. I find remodeling and fixing a house fun!.. I have split time with my kids Dad so I have the time to share with someone special too. I am a spiritual person and I like quotes that are motivational, positive affirmations speak to me.I'm not into the bar scene so much any more. I will go on occasion but I'd rather go have a nice glass of wine in a nice wine bar or cook an amazing Filet ( or any dinner- love to cook) at home with a great glass of red. Don't get me wrong I could go for a sports bar, throw on a pair of jeans and a hat and eat some nacho's and wings too. I eat healthy and like the healthy lifestyle tho. I juice just about every morning and love to talk about what is the best things to eat and drink for the optimum body health. I try to stay away from gluten and sugar, I do however have a week spot for cheese, the really nice, fine, yummy cheeses. I bake cakes and cupcakes from home. ,I eat organic, Non GMO, and grass fed meats.I would love to learn French as I have had a lot of experience with a French family and took it in high school so I have an app on my phone that I listen to when I get time..one of these days it'll come in handy when I finally take that Europe trip and enjoy me a little France whilst over there...lol!What I'm looking for- A Future, not a "For now".. I want to find someone to build life with that will be there for the distance. someone that enjoys time alone as a couple and time as a family with the kids. If you're not sure if you want kids or not don't write me.. I am not here for you to find out if my current children are in your cards or not, and I also say I want more kids, that is a VERY important thing for me. to be ale to attempt having more children is something I want, if it doesn't happen that's ok, but if you're not interested in that possibility don't write me.I believe we all have Love Languages too and can learn from one another no matter who the person may be. I'm growing every day and have learned a lot from my past relationship. . Meditation, Reiki, and energy work as well as believe in God.. it's quiet the mixture that I truly love...lol!I guess I have to put this in here too... I know what I'm looking for and will not "settle" I have had some great dates and great men in my life with Great qualities that I will find in my special someone so I have kinda high standards and expectations... If this scares you off then ur not the one for me anyway. Happy Fishing :-) we can decide together after we chat

  • Sissy

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Ok, so, I guess I'm going to give this a shot. A couple of things about me. . . I am a happy person with a healthy bit of sarcasm, a love of cars and traveling. I can enjoy a nice glass of wine and a good suspense movie or a cold beer and a game of basketball. I have a great family and close circle of friends who are a big part of my life and it would be nice to find a great guy to enjoy my time with and be comfortable and happy with. And the rest comes later... Lunch, dinner, drinks, somewhere we can hear each other enough to chat (and figure out if there should be a second date). I'm up for a simple relaxed time or willing to do something a little different.

  • Maxene

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Spend a decent amount of time with my family, mainly my sister (her hubs and 2 boys), and I have a standing Saturday date with my feisty 92 year old grandmother.I enjoy traveling and seeing new things. Wish I had more money and time for more adventures. I'm a total book nerd that's constantly reading. Nothing smart or enlightening, but fluff. Languages: I can talk in movie quotes. Granted it's girly movie quotes mainly, but still. There are some movies I have memorized and can subconsciously repeat the whole movie while watching. It can be annoying. I'm also fluent in sarcasm. AND!! I can speak German. I haven't really used it conversationally in 10 years, so it's a bit rough. I try to watch/read things to keep it a little active.I enjoy all sorts of movies. Oldies, 80s, some action, musicals, comedies. However, I tend to not enjoy watching things that are over the top in profanity/vulgarity, yet I tend to talk like a sailor (go figure). I also have a love/hate with horror movies, I'm a jumper and sometimes a screamer.I like a wide range of music from oldies, 80's, alt rock, indie, folk, one hit wonders.I love laughing. My humor tends to be a bit juvenile and dirty at times. I hate clowns, zombies, creepy dolls, snakes, scorpions, spiders, mushrooms and tomatoes.Like most people, I'm a shy extrovert. In new situations it takes me a bit to warm up. Once I'm comfy, I can be very out going.In college I did a testimonial for an informercial! Haha. I never saw it on TV though.

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