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Detra, 31

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About Me

I'm an artist, art therapist, and music lover. Spiritual but not religious, Virgo, cat person, introvert, social, and intuitive. The rest we can talk about later! I wouldn't say that I'm open to going wherever the wind will take me (that was more in my 20's) but I am open to thinking about it, planning it, and THEN doing it. Yep, I used to pick up and leave whenever I wanted. Now I am kind of looking for a way to be grounded, successful, and free-spirited. I've been an independent person since the day I was born, sometimes to a fault. I don't like being told what or how to do anything. Well, if it's something that I care about. If it's computers, please DO tell me how. Most of all, I want to help. That might sound cliche, but I see it as a way of life, not just my career. What I'm looking for: someone who is HONEST WITH HIMSELF.Someone who has the ability to express what he FEELS, needs, and wants.Someone who values inner growth and embraces change. Msg me if the above resonates with you. First date should be magical, right? Hopefully it would supercede anything I'd write right here..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am here for at least 1 to 2 years possibly longer to gain experience in my new profession and spend time with my parents since I have been gone for so long. I was in a long-term relationship a few months ago and am ready to give love and happiness another shot. I am not one to rush into anything but not really the hook-up type of girl, especially because of my profession. I love being outdoors and have not stopped fishing and shooting trap/hunting since I have been here. Besides fishing and hunting, I enjoy the river, desert, riding atv's, horse-shoes, sports, camping, star-gazing...pretty much anything outside. I am a tomboy but definitely have a girly side that balances everything out. I usually get along with guys better than girls since I tend to avoid and stay out of the drama especially small town drama. I do have a few close girlfriends from the different places I have lived in the last few years and cherish them dearly. I will occasionally go to the bar for a drink but would much rather have a drink in one hand and a fishing rod in the other. I love movies, football and enjoy fantasy football but with starting a new life here, working long hours to start and not having a lot of friends left here from high-school I tend to watch my team at home *** socializing at a bar on football Sunday. I am not opposed to do so but I am kind of spoiled with having the NFL ticket for the first time ever (yay for me!!) and not having roommates for the first time in years (double yay!). I am stubborn and hard headed but that just comes with being a red head (irish***italian :). I also tend to be a big goofball/dork, a clutz and a very honest person that doesn't mind hearing the truth without all the fluffy bs around it (which is why I tend to attract more guys as friends). I am very easy going but competitive (its a sports thing), respectful and a lefty that shoots right handed shotguns. I have always been a fighter and have always worked really hard to get where I am....I am never one to judge and really try to avoid quitting or giving up on things. K the rest you gotta earn (like happy dances and silly gestures and little bursts of silly reasoning/justifications etc. etc.)! :) Almost forgot the music part....born and raised country...listen to a little of everything on occasion but always find my way back to country! I am one of those non-traditional girls. It is the small things that count. I don't need a romantic date at our 5 star Sizzler....I would rather dinner to go and eat on a tail gate then do some fishin or talkin or sunset watchin or storm chasing. The whole awkward first date dinner thing is over rated...i'd rather do something we both want to do.

  • Sherell

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am a very outgoing person. I think I have a pretty good sense of humor, though if you don't appreciate sarcasm I'm not sure how funny you would think I am. I am always always up for trying something new and like to get out of the house as much as possible. :) I am just looking for someone that I can laugh with.....

  • Allegra

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I work as an D.V, Advocate for the a local shelter in the Valley. I’m in transition with stating this position. I’m excited about the chance to learn more about case management and work more closely with women and children affected by domestic violence; I have a pipe dream of becoming a guidance counselor for high school aged kids. I’m thinking about applying to grad school to peruse that dream. Baby steps! I’m originally from northern IL. I’ I’m looking to meet get to know, date and hope to develop a LTR with a: nice, caring, loving, trusting, stable guy. People say that I can have a bit of an aggressive blunt personality and yet still be very animated, outgoing and easy to read. With that being said, it would be great to find a guy that loves me for me. Find a guy that could become my best friend and make me a better person. Something low-key. Coffee and meeting me and my dog at the park. Maybe drinks or happy hour somewhere.

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