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Erlene, 35

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I don't get this Meet Me / Favorites thing. That seems like the equivalent of staring at a girl in a bar. Why not say hi ***? It works much better :)I digress... I’ve been single for a bit and finally decided to step out there and give it a shot again. So, here I go!I am a divorced mom of a 14 year old son that I have nearly full time. My ex and I have been divorced for a very long time and he’s remarried, so there is no drama or unfinished business. I’ve been single for a little under a year and have been focusing on my career, home and self. I’m also one that likes to be free and clear of emotional residue from a previous relationship prior to starting another one. And really, who likes to date? It's awkward and nerve racking yet a requirement in order to live "happily ever after". I’m fairly bashful and am accused of being reserved at times. I can be at first, until I know someone. Afterwards, I am sarcastic, goofy and can get an entire Zoo Brew crowd to sing happy birthday to a friend. I'm terminally responsible and am blessed with the rare ability to have and use common sense. Here are a few more about me’s:I LOVE horror films. I want to be scared to walk down my hallway after the movie is over and run and jump into bed for fear of having my feet too close to the dreaded “underneath the bed”.Since I was a kid, I have been into zombies. When I say into, I mean into figuring out how to survive an outbreak. Yes, I watch the Walking Dead. Just to make it clear, if you turn, I will kill you :) .I can have a full length conversation about the most random things. If shoes could talk what they would say, imaginary origins of certain sayings, dolphins and their dark sordid habits, and the secret subculture of cats that live in the sewers by my home. I call it a vivid imagination, some call it odd. Hm.I’m Libertarian. I am a strong believer in civil rights. Everyone’s civil rights, not just Americans.I watch Top Gun and Independence Day every time it’s on TV. I didn’t realize I did that until a little while ago.I will dance in public and sing (horribly) with my window down. If I’m in the grocery store, it’s all over. The cart is my dance partner.I love Beavis and Butthead, dirty jokes, made up words, inside jokes, stupid human tricks, accents, baby animals and Chewy Spree’s (not the purple ones).I can’t handle flakey people. I’m too busy to deal with those who don’t follow through. Meh.I have 3 dogs and I’m allergic to them. I love my jerk faces and if I have to take a pill everyday to keep them, so be it.I love the sound of the banjo. So much so that I’m going to be taking lessons soon on how to play.With that (above), I am a music lover. I have a life soundtrack and music moves me.I have a male roommate. He’s like a brother to me. Like a real brother - I want to punch him most of the time and he annoys me. But, he's a big help most of the time. I am a non smoker. I quit in November of ***. I can’t date a smoker. I don’t care what anyone says, it doesn’t get easier but, I will never smoke again. Ever.I have recently started a very healthy lifestyle of eating and exercise (Eat To Live). I don’t care if you are a salad freak like me, but I can’t date someone who is very overweight and/or unmotivated. I like to (Maybe not like, but I go) go to the gym, hike, walk, etc. I have a goal I want to reach and want someone who can be a partner in it, not just watch on the side with a bag of Doritos in their hands.I have 5 tattoos. They are all colorful and not on my boobs…or my neck, or face, or behind my ear or anywhere else weird that will be regretted later.Chivalry and manners are a must. I am old fashioned with that. It is noticed and very appreciated.I don’t like feet.I hog the blanket.I love my Wonder Woman clothes.I wish I could wear a cape all the time.I’m blunt.I play dirty and will cheat at a card game. Hey, if you put your cards in my view, of course I will look. Duh.I am a happy person. I like my life. I would just prefer to share it with someone too.Now onto what I want in a guy (this is the hard part):Someone who knows themselves. I have a strong personality and I’m tired of people changing so drastically that they become the male version of me. I don’t want to date myself!Big smile. I had braces a few years ago and I love to smile. I love looking at a huge face squishing room lights up sparkly smile.Honesty. I don’t mean brutally jerk honest.Has his life in order. I pay my bills. Please pay yours.Smells good.Similar interests but enough different to make it interesting.Slightly a homebody.Normal.Lastly, I have a fairly busy daily life. If you message me and I don’t respond right away, be patient. I can see that you messaged me as this is an app on my phone. I will message back when I can. Non creepy stuff.... Unless its the fun creepy stuff. Then I'm down.***I have had 2 scary experiences with this online stuff. Patience is appreciated. I won’t meet you if I don’t know you well enough to feel comfortable yet. Sorry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Classie

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I keep an insanely busy schedule between work, gym, family, friends and studies but will definitely find time for the right guy. Not really into disclosing everything online, so if you have any questions please just ask:)"In life you will realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you". This is what I'm looking for...the man that will bring out the best in me and help me strive to be the best me in all areas of life that I can be and I promise to do the same for him:)Keep in mind...I AM in search of a long-term, committed relationship. If this is not consistent with your wants and needs at this time please do not waste my time. Thank you:) Meet up for a coffee or drink

  • Raye

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Hola! Canadian woman here! I'm not looking to jump into any relationships immediately nor am I looking for one night stands. Just going with the flow and hoping to meet some cool people along the way. I'm facetious, capricious (it's not always a bad thing!) and down to earth. I'm an independent woman who knows what she wants. I'm not looking for childishness or games. I value honesty, loyalty and faithfulness. I'm quite benevolent. I love to have fun and enjoy a good laugh. I'm up for just about anything. From a spontaneous trip to vegas or a night at home curled up on the couch with a homemade dinner, a good movie and a good scotch. I'm looking for open-minded non-judgmental people - this is extremely important to me. I'm quite versatile and can handle myself in almost any social situation. Anywhere from camping, a hockey game, a night of dancing at a dive bar to 5 star dining, a business seminar or even meeting your mother! :D I have lots of tattoos and plan to get more. I dont mind getting my hands dirty. I'm pretty casual and love the rockabilly look but can be comfortable in a pair of jeans and an old rock t-shirt or getting dressed up for a night on the town! I love to travel and do it often. I've been to 3 continents on our beautiful globe so far. I love to eat healthy and work out often but don't get me wrong I love some greasy mexican food every once and a while too! I'd like to meet someone who also cares about their appearance and surroundings. It says a lot about someone! I just recently dyed my hair red. I like changing things up once and a while but my hair is usually black so I have a few pics on here so you can see my many looks. I like to change them often and have fun with my appearance and personality. Life should always be interesting!I'm looking for someone to have fun with. Someone I can sit down with for hours and enjoy articulate conversation and a few laughs. I'm a sapiosexual (look it up) So I'm not into one liners (if your message is simply "hi", "what's up" or something complimentary like "wow, you're beautiful" or something similar, while I appreciate it, it's not a compelling conversation starter, so I probably won't reply). I think the brain is the sexiest organ a man has but dont get me wrong, physical attraction is important too. I like to stay in shape and live a healthy lifestyle so I would expect that you do to. Being active with a partner is really important to me. I want to meet someone with his sh*t together, who can take care of himself but don't get me wrong, once we hit it off I am one who loves to spoil my man. If there's mutual respect and an emotional connection, I can be fiercely loyal, faithful, experimental and loving. I'd like to meet someone who has ideas and creativity so we can inspire, support and motivate each other. Hopefully my profile stood out amongst the other thousands. If you think we might have a lot in common, I'd love to hear from you! Cheers! xox Could be anything from a ride down the coast on a motorbike, an outdoor festival, sharing a nice bottle of wine on a patio, pool at a dive bar or browsing through a flea market. It really doesn't matter. Depending on the person and the chemistry, we could have fun sitting down counting paperclips together! :)

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Love to be outdoors. I am passion is cooking : ) I love animals.

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