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Alexis, 34
United States, Pennsylvania, Rochester

Offline, last seen Thu, 23 Oct 2025 06:09:43

About Me

I have two distinct and different sides.One being the kind, compassionate and caring. I will drop whatever things I am working on or struggling with to help a friend. I'm sort of like the mother hen to my friends. I don't know why but it just happens... I think I've always been that way since I was very young.The other is the blunt, and brutally honest side. Don't ask me something if you really don't want to know what I think. I won't give you the answer you want to hear. I also tend to speak up when I see something I don't like or feel is unfair.Don't get me wrong, I usually know when to keep my mouth shut, and I don't try to hurt people. There is a difference between the way I am and saying anything on your mind or saying mean and hateful things that are not productive or that someone hasn't asked for.I don't make plans, I just decide to do stuff last minute. I tend to do things by myself just because most of my good friend live out of state now and my local friends are either working or they have kids, husbands, they are poor, etc.I have been known to have intentions to go out and driven somewhere and decide that I really don't want to do that and just come back to the area and gone to the movies *** enjoy when talking to someone that they will say that there family is weird or that they are weird about something. My typical response is "bring it on". I grew up with a brother who eventually was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. I usually don't think the things we did in our family were weird so I can usually top it. I also think most people are weird in there own way. Every person or family has something about them that the majority of people would find odd.I work in banking customer service. It pays the bills until I can pay off some student loans before to go back to school. I'm also a licensed massage therapist. I very much enjoyed it but I need to build my practice so I can do it full time.I don't have any television shows that I religiously watch or specific genres of books I read. If you hand me a book I will at least give it a few chapters and usually finish it. This is typically the way I read is by what people pass on to me.I like most movies but stay away from horror movies.I tend to keep my radio tuned to cyy, but I can't tell you the last cd I purchased.I'll look at your profile but I will seldom make the first contact. I'm just a bit shy like that...fear of rejection?Okay so I've noticed recently that some people have filters on their profile that you can't *** you fit certain criteria. Now I don't really care if you have criteria but I will say that although I am NOT, I repeat, I am NOT looking for intimate encounters. It states you can block those who have messaged others for sex/intimate encounters. If that is solely based on me replying to someone stating they are looking for that then my message won't get to you. I sent a smart-ass message to a guy who made a comment about my high heeled legs being... well you can figure out the rest. I also don't know if that rule won't apply if you message me first, so if you don't hear back that could possibly be why.Most of you won't ever know me. Whether it be because you only date blondes, you don't date fat girls, maybe the fact that I didn't complete my degree, you live states away or you are just too shy to say anything to me. It is sad because you'll never know that I love to cuddle, that sometimes I like to be the big spoon and that I'm a blanket thief. You will never see how fierce the love of my family and close friends is (a momma bear and her cubs has nothing on me) and that I would drop everything for those people who are in need. You'll never taste something that I bake in my spare time and see the excitement in my eyes when someone likes what I make, the silly giddy feeling when someone gives me an interesting/new recipe. You may see on my feet or hear me say that I love shoes but you'll never watch the high that a pair of new shoes gives me. You will never meet my my cat who will purr before you even put your hand on her. You won't take a long drive to nowhere with me and stop just because something looks interesting and then laugh with because it was really lame. I'll never make a bargain with you so that you will do the dishes.;holiday" to celebrate. I take my job seriously and you'll never watch me move my way up in the company.I have no idea if writing this will even make a difference or if it will even be read but I guess I'll throw it in for an interesting read. I'm not yet but can easily see that I could tip into being cynical about dating/relationships/love. No one said nor did I believe it was easy but it sure gets frustrating.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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