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Golden, 31
United States, Pennsylvania, Rochester

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About Me

Came here to laugh at some friends' profile, met some awesome people and decided to stay. I don't really *want* a man, but if "he" showed up I would probably give in.I. Love. Men. My soul mate was a US Navy SEAL who passed away before our son was born.-spoken and modest man. He set the bar for any future relationships. I have yet to find another man who understands two people can love one another and respect each other's emotions and trust without drama and arguing. I grew up much more quickly than I should have, and usually get along better with those older than myself, but maturity comes at all ages. Just have a good head on your shoulders and not be a frat boy.My two children come first. That will never change. One is special needs (Autism, Type 1 diabetic) and I will drop everything to care for him. If anyone ever tried to hurt him or his brother in any way, I would happily go to prison rectifying it. True story.I'm 5'9 and trained in MMA for a few years. I am nowhere near 'hardcore' or *** like some of you have assumed. It was either martial arts or ballet, and my father didn't have a son so he won. And that 'few extra pounds' does not mean 'morbidly obese'. I take extremely good care of myself and have always been naturally curvy. I also gained alot of muscle whole training. I am 100% happy with myself and if a man isn't that is his problem. I have never received a.complaint.That being said, I wear high heels. Alot. Besides, I gravitate to the big ones. I am a sucker for big shoulders. Especially if he's bald. That has everything to do with my Randy Couture fascination (and a childhood crush on Captain Picard). I will always think Randy Couture is hotter than you. I don't want to feel like your bodyguard so please be taller than me. Beef makes me feel all petite and feminine, which is reason #3 I love the juggernauts. Reasons #1 and #2 are none of your business.On the other hand, when I'm not watching the contact-sport type, I am enjoying Liev Schreiber. Tall, sexy, intelligent, wears a suit like he was born for it. I watch the History Channel just to hear him narrate. So I guess it is safe to say the dapper and distinguished intellect is my cup of tea, also. And the Russian guy I met at the opera. Apparently Russian men have the irresistably charming and open-the-door-for-her/we're-the-only-people-in-the-world-right-now engrossed in a woman thing down pat. If I had that guy's number I wouldn't be on this site.If you cannot spell, carry on intelligent conversation, are addicted to ANYTHING- be it a substance, bottle, or video game- do not contact me. I love to laugh. My twisted sense of humor has surprised many. Don't send me pictures of your cars, trucks, boats, etc. I am very independent and have my own land, money, house, and so forth so I really don't care about yours. No offense, I just prefer a man who cares about more than the superficial. If you are involved in any illicit or illegal activity, don't waste my time. I have a very large Federal law enforcement family. These are NOT podunk local cops. Your behavior will no doubt at some point be scrutinized by my interrogator specialist father and one of the Navy SEALs. Infuriatiing at times, but has saved me from disaster before so don't lie, don't play, and don't be an idiot because when they show up with evidence I listen. Please love animals. I am a farm girl down to the core.I guess I am looking for a 6'4 Russian SpecOps businessman who teaches science and history to first graders and helps old ladies cross the street. Until he comes along, I don't mind talking to the rest of you. :) If I don't respond to chat requests, please don't think I am *** 99% of the time I am out working and using my phone and as you may know, meetville chat doesn't work on most mobile devices... Also this app leaves me logged in when I'm really not so if I don't answer it could very well be that I'm not really online. Thanks for understanding :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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