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Here I find myself single again after waiting 42 years to finally get married for the 1st time. See my husband passed away suddenly May ***. I was only married a short ***years but I enjoyed the security of knowing I had someone who I had committed to and who had committed to me for the rest of out lives. I don't believe I can list what I want in a man since I believe chemistry plays a large role in who I am attracted to (my husband was far from a saint but I was strongly in love with him) I usually date younger men. I am not your typical girlie girl. I have no idea how to cook,or interest in it, but love home cooked meals as well as going out to dinner, and some how always date guys who can cook. I hate to clean and I'm not into my hair and nails or wardrobe and pretty much wear my favorite pair of clogs every day. I never wanted children (or dated a man who had them) but enjoy my nieces and nephews once in a while. I've always taken care of myself financially, worked in civil service for 20 years and am now retired with a good pension. Bought my own house on the water, cars, boat, Harley etc. and then got married. My beliefs are very important to me and lean very liberal (I protested Bush's inauguration in ***and I hope to find someone who believes like me. I don't believe I'm a citizen of the United States but rather of the world. I never work out, not really into sports but like the mets. I think listing things I'm not into would be easier for me. I don't believe in war for any reason, or guns. I don't like cowboy hats, big belt buckles or country music, or wearing red, white and blue. I don't think family has to be all that important since you cant pick your family like you pick your friends. I am against prejudice of any kind and will not tolerate it. I like documentaries or programs based on true stories, over watching something that someone else made up (IE: I'm usually not into the top movies out in the movie theaters) I can't list hobbies because I usually don't do something over and over, I will try any thing once. I love traveling to new places, trying new foods, seeing new sights. I smoke and drink sometimes too much. I am an animal lover and have a giant slobbering dog and cat. (my dog passed away since i wrote this) I'm not happy all the time (like most people pretend to be on this site) Don't know what the hell I want from life or who I am. But I believe finding these things out and learning is ongoing and changing process.***Hi I'm back from about a year break from this site. When I was here I went on a couple of dates but I don't think I was ready for a relationship. I don't know if I'm ready yet for a big serious relationship but I miss spending time with a partner. Believe it or not my dog of 10 years also died since i first wrote this and I dont have the cat any more. I am still an animal lover and plan on getting some pets as soon as I'm ready. I'm hoping to meet some fellow single people my own age and if nothing else gain some solid friendships. meet for a drink

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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  • Dimple

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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