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Niki, 51

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About Me

I like lots of things, I just started taking zumba classes, sexy dances , hard as hell ,but fun and keeps me feeling good. . I want someone that has their own opinions. Don't be afraid to dislike and say it!! I am easy to talk to and will always make it fun. Life is too short!! Guys don't make it all about you, that's our job to make it all about you and you can do that for us, yes be a gentleman, ask about our day, act interested, and we will give it right back........I think it would be nice if a man did the chasing. I want to find someone that won't change after you meet them, and most of all don't put in your profile ready to meet someone then, you don't have time, DON'T SAY IN THE PROFILE READY FOR SOMETHING AND YET YOU DON'T HAVE TIME OR YOU'VE DECIDED NOT READY !!! DO WHAT YOU SAY MOST OF ALL, FOLLOW THROUGH I'd love to find that person that makes me laugh and cry. I want to miss them as soon as they leave and make feel wanted, I will be nervous around you just because I don't want to disappoint at first, first meetings are the hardest, so give it a chance before you let it go, sometimes we are just scared, nervous about our first time, first everything with you, so jump out before you jump in. I won't settle for less then what I feel but I do give chances. My kids are grown. I have a grandson that I adore he is just 3. I am happy with my life, friends , job and family but would be nice to have someone to add to that . I am out spoken and have fun just "being" its about who you are with not just what you are doing, I like that the other person calls/or text first thought of morning and the last thing at night ..That makes a good start to the day and nice to see that just thought of me in the middle of the day. It's the best thing in life that happens is to get the feeling and keep it......... It doesn't even matter just make it happen :) be the MAN make the decisions and make them about what you think I would want and we will have a great time finding out the rest

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lara

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    %(h , into fancy cars and shiny objects. Have a whole separate room just for my shoes. Needs my man to be always accessible and on call 24 hours a day to cater to my every whim. Lazy as the day is long and spends all of YOUR money to get my hair and nails done. Don't even THINK of expecting me to pick up a check anywhere!Oh and if your best friend is better looking and richer than you, watch out!So......if you're still reading, maybe you get that I have a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor? Read on for the "real" me.I'm very laid back and easy going most of the time, definitely NOT a party girl! Sometimes shy, especially when first meeting someone, but have also been told that I have the tenacity of a Pit Bull when it comes to getting something done. Still a bit of a tomboy, so if you like a gal who owns her own power tools and isn't afraid to use them you're looking in the right place :). I love the "hey, I MADE that, or hey I fixed that" feeling!Definitely a jeans & T-shirt kind of gal but can clean up okay when the occasion arises.I hate the saying "it is what it is", but it really IS was what it is, isn't it? ;DI try to have a Zen outlook on life. Haven't perfected that yet, but I'm still evolving!Looking for someone who values honesty above all as much as I do. I've got my big-girl panties on, so can handle ANY raw truth. Give me that respect and you have my respect. It's that simple.A true sense of humor is a must, because if you can't laugh at life what's the point?Okay, I'll admit I got lazy at this point and did the old cut-and-paste.my job:I'm a Human Decorator. If you can decipher that, you know what it is that I do ;)my religion:I believe in reincarnation, that we get to keep coming back until we get it right. Think I have quite a few go-rounds ahead of me ;)favorite things:Like to sample all types of music but find as I'm getting older that I prefer clear voices, acoustic guitars and strings.last read:Last read was "The Dome" by Steven King (The Stand was my favorite). Updating that statement..currently re-reading Stranger In A Strange Land. There's a great quote about sex and love in it that I can't wait to find again.Found it........"Male-femaleness is the greatest gift we have. The joining of bodies with merging of souls in shared ecstasy, giving, receiving, delighting in each other.;(if you have NO idea what he's talking about, pass right on by please ; And I read medical texts for fun (the gotta know how things work thing again).my pets:Love any and all animals. Currently have two Jack Russells, so am not afraid of a challenge LOLOkay..now the bad stuff....Sorry about the bad pics, but have very few of myself that don't make me look deathly pale or like I have a huge nose (both true..okay maybe my nose isn't huge but it's a little odd. Guess that's what you get when you mix Polish & There I said it. I know it's SO not PC these days, but I consider it my SSRI (that's my daily rationalization and I'm sticking to it!) . Want to see the woman in the first paragraph? Just TRY to get me to quit. Been there, done that, and it ain't pretty.So have to say that's probably my one big deal breaker here. If you don't smoke we probably won't get along well.An update to the above paragraph. Giving e-cigs a shot, and doing fairly well with them. My smokestack is down to a quarter of it's original output. There may be hope for me yet!! :POkay, if you read this far you are one patient guy or just needed a little laugh. Either way, if you're interested, drop me a line here, but be forewarned that I actually have a life and don't check here everyday. Oh and since I really do like the "techie" stuff, expect a few *** and forth at first. Bonus points for you if you can actually spell (or at least know how to use a spell checker)!Peace! Hmm...shower, brush my teeth, put on some makeup, heck if you look promising I might even shave my armpits....Oh, blond moment there..I think they meant what would you want to DO on a first date, not FOR a first date. Silly me ;)Somewhere fairly quiet (I'm almost deaf in one ear from my days at L'Amours taking pictures of the bands..seriously) where we could talk for a while would be nice. I don't drink (I come by this ditziness naturally)so something low pressure like coffee might be nice. I'd appreciate giving us both the option of getting the heck out of there quickly and gracefully if it comes to that :D

  • Tona

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Looking for a man that can and knows how to treat a women with respect. Loves to live life and wants to share the rest of your days together, and not just sit on the couch and watch life pass you by. Have fun, adventures and make some great memories.

  • Stephenie

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hi how are you ? My hobbies are gardening , fishing, writing , drawing, painting, and many more . My goal in life is to one day build a log cabin. I want to learn to play the guitar. I hope to have my children's books published . I would love to have a little dinner . What makes me unique is that I am true blue , what you see is what you get . I am a love bug to the core .I am a hard worker and try my best to do my best . I love to cook but also love to build . I am not afraid to get my hands dirty . I am a tom boy at heart . But still very feminine . I am a very happy person and live my life to the fullest . I believe that every person that steps into your life is there for a reason , for a short time or long enjoy them. I would love to find a man who is happy and enjoys his life . I do know how to treat a man . I believe that men need just as much love and care as a woman . I really respect men and enjoy having a man by my side. I am a very physical person and love to cuddle and show affection .I am an old fashioned lady. With good morals . I love all music as music is always in my heart . I live a sweet loving life . I do not smoke or drink or do drugs . I use to be a body builder but had to give that life style up . I do not go out with people that do drugs This means Weed .. as that is not my life style . To each their own . I do not go out with heavy drinkers . just not my thing I am a sweet lady and would like to find a good man who gets along with children . As I have 5 children and one still at home with me . I have 6 grand children so yes kids are a big part of my life . I have been a single mom for 20 years and I do know how to work hard . I am very passionate about every thing that I do . I am not looking for a fling , or just a one night stand And fellas looks fade with time but inner beauty does not. If I am a lady that you might want to know please leave me a message . Thanks and have a great day huggggs I would like my first date to be a meeting for a coffee down at the water or in the coffee shop . If we like each other then we could go for supper and mybe a movie . If we are very comfortable we could grab a couple of movies and go to your place or mine and watch them . It will be up to us .

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