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Dedra, 52

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About Me

I am patient, kind, independent, successful and have been known to be a little saucy at times. I'm a Midwestern girl with Midwestern values. I'm comfortable in my skin and have fun regardless what I'm doing- be it riding in a limo dressed up for a charity event, to riding on the back of a Harley on a beautiful day.(I'm not a biker chick) Its all about who I'm with. I love boogie boarding, roller coasters, and snorkeling, trying new things, exploring new places. I'll try pretty much try anything once. Locally, I enjoy going to sporting events (especially football), live music venues (small or large) and comedy clubs. I'm looking for a man who takes care of himself; one who is. emotionally and financially stable; someone who can be playful and silly but not reckless; someone who is adventurous and spontaneous; someone to share life's experiences and journey with. Added note: Please have current photos (within the past year-mine are. If you're married, looking for a hook up or needing to borrow $$ (I have stories about this) please pass me by. Somewhere comfortable for the both of us...Happy hour Comedy Club, miniature golf, lunch... we'll have to talk about it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lara

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    %(h , into fancy cars and shiny objects. Have a whole separate room just for my shoes. Needs my man to be always accessible and on call 24 hours a day to cater to my every whim. Lazy as the day is long and spends all of YOUR money to get my hair and nails done. Don't even THINK of expecting me to pick up a check anywhere!Oh and if your best friend is better looking and richer than you, watch out!So......if you're still reading, maybe you get that I have a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor? Read on for the "real" me.I'm very laid back and easy going most of the time, definitely NOT a party girl! Sometimes shy, especially when first meeting someone, but have also been told that I have the tenacity of a Pit Bull when it comes to getting something done. Still a bit of a tomboy, so if you like a gal who owns her own power tools and isn't afraid to use them you're looking in the right place :). I love the "hey, I MADE that, or hey I fixed that" feeling!Definitely a jeans & T-shirt kind of gal but can clean up okay when the occasion arises.I hate the saying "it is what it is", but it really IS was what it is, isn't it? ;DI try to have a Zen outlook on life. Haven't perfected that yet, but I'm still evolving!Looking for someone who values honesty above all as much as I do. I've got my big-girl panties on, so can handle ANY raw truth. Give me that respect and you have my respect. It's that simple.A true sense of humor is a must, because if you can't laugh at life what's the point?Okay, I'll admit I got lazy at this point and did the old cut-and-paste.my job:I'm a Human Decorator. If you can decipher that, you know what it is that I do ;)my religion:I believe in reincarnation, that we get to keep coming back until we get it right. Think I have quite a few go-rounds ahead of me ;)favorite things:Like to sample all types of music but find as I'm getting older that I prefer clear voices, acoustic guitars and strings.last read:Last read was "The Dome" by Steven King (The Stand was my favorite). Updating that statement..currently re-reading Stranger In A Strange Land. There's a great quote about sex and love in it that I can't wait to find again.Found it........"Male-femaleness is the greatest gift we have. The joining of bodies with merging of souls in shared ecstasy, giving, receiving, delighting in each other.;(if you have NO idea what he's talking about, pass right on by please ; And I read medical texts for fun (the gotta know how things work thing again).my pets:Love any and all animals. Currently have two Jack Russells, so am not afraid of a challenge LOLOkay..now the bad stuff....Sorry about the bad pics, but have very few of myself that don't make me look deathly pale or like I have a huge nose (both true..okay maybe my nose isn't huge but it's a little odd. Guess that's what you get when you mix Polish & There I said it. I know it's SO not PC these days, but I consider it my SSRI (that's my daily rationalization and I'm sticking to it!) . Want to see the woman in the first paragraph? Just TRY to get me to quit. Been there, done that, and it ain't pretty.So have to say that's probably my one big deal breaker here. If you don't smoke we probably won't get along well.An update to the above paragraph. Giving e-cigs a shot, and doing fairly well with them. My smokestack is down to a quarter of it's original output. There may be hope for me yet!! :POkay, if you read this far you are one patient guy or just needed a little laugh. Either way, if you're interested, drop me a line here, but be forewarned that I actually have a life and don't check here everyday. Oh and since I really do like the "techie" stuff, expect a few *** and forth at first. Bonus points for you if you can actually spell (or at least know how to use a spell checker)!Peace! Hmm...shower, brush my teeth, put on some makeup, heck if you look promising I might even shave my armpits....Oh, blond moment there..I think they meant what would you want to DO on a first date, not FOR a first date. Silly me ;)Somewhere fairly quiet (I'm almost deaf in one ear from my days at L'Amours taking pictures of the bands..seriously) where we could talk for a while would be nice. I don't drink (I come by this ditziness naturally)so something low pressure like coffee might be nice. I'd appreciate giving us both the option of getting the heck out of there quickly and gracefully if it comes to that :D

  • Kecia

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Well been on and off this site, and have met some really great guys, Not sure in the past if I was really ready for the dating scene again or making a commitment. So now that my boys are very much on their own now, and I am much more settled thought it time to update the profile. I am somewhat quiet a little shy at first ,but strong minded and a good sense of humor. I am not at all materialistic but like to be comfortable, I enjoy my home and garden, I have a secure full time job that I enjoy. not into fishing but love camping preferably places I can suntan naked lol so not too many people around. I have been on a few quads and would totally love to have one of my own. I have a wonderful network of social friends, but tend to be more of a homebody, Love to cook and would prefer to entertain small groups at home. Love the summer winter sports and the cold lol not so much. my best asset from what im told is that I am always smiling, I've had a lot of struggles and hurdles to go through in life, but getting past that have now come to enjoy life and looking forward to the future. Not to offend any of you guys, as ive said, I am not materialistic and don't have a lot, but at age 50 if you live with your mom, do not have a somewhat secure job or a vehicle please don't message me. I enjoy a good glass of merlot with a nice dinner out as much as a cold beer and a burger

  • Letitia

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I\'m currently single and I have no children, but would like children in the future. Overall, I\'m looking for that certain someone who will complement my personality, make me laugh.

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