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Esme, 53

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About Me

I want to find that man who will hold my hand and walk beside me, or sit and watch the stars. I also want a man who does not need to be told what to do, and he would like to just get up and go with me to the Mountains or the the beach or just for long romantic walks not worring about anything but what we want as a dating couple want to do...The music I like varys a great deal. I have been married twice before and have raised 2 great kids who are living their lifes and now that they are grown and doing thier thing , I believe it is my trun to enjoy life, to find someone who wants to get to know me for who I am NOW.. I love my swimming pool during the summer and I love to cook and bake...Sports I love my LSU Tigers...football, basketball and baseball really all sports...I love to shoot pool(I do play APA) and love to dance....This is added to my profile if you are younger than 40 dont bother to write me if you are 48 to 55 and you can not be where you say your going to be and want a one night stand or play games then you dont need to write me either. If this makes me sound like a *** then I am so sorry I just dont have that kind of time and I dont want to waste your time with games or drama....I was asked to show my support for our Troops and I do my son severed in the Navy and was in Desert Storm......He is home now, safe but he lost alot of great friends and my heart goes out to them and their family ......We all should be proud..The life they gave was for all of us.......Someone asked me why am I alone, we are all alone even with friends and family beside us the thing that I have a hard time with is being alone and that means finding the right person to share that time with being raised so old fashion means I will wait until that right person (a man) comes along......Hopefully sooner than later.....I have 3 rules that I believe in and live by 1) Dont LIE 2) Dont CHEAT or Steal 3) If you say you are going to be somewhere then be there even early and if you say you are going to do something even if it is a call then do it........These rules are not hard to do everyone can do them if they are honest and mean what they say .....Johnny Deep said something " There are 3 questions of value in Life....1) What is sacred? 2) Of what is the spirit made ? 3) What is worth living for and what is worth dying for ? The answer to each question is the same , only LOVE.......... Meet and talk to see if we having anything in common with each other and then lets go from there.....Please dont rush things and dont talk trashy that is not a trun on for me I am old fashion with my actions and values .....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lurlene

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi! Thank you for taking the time to read some things about me.These are things that are important to me and will not change.I have a lot of energy and passionate about staying fit. I challenge myself to improve all the time. It would be great to meet someone who enjoys some of the same activities, but not a requirement. Typically I go to the gym or CrossFit 6 days a week. My 3 dogs are spoiled rotten! Two are elderly and a very energetic Pit. Everyone was a rescue and needed a home.Live music venues are a lot of fun and there is a lot to choose from in this area. I usually will get together with a group of friends and we have a great time! I have been to wine tastings recently & learning a bit more about the different wines. The beach is my favorite place to be ;) A little sun and sand can cure most anything! I love to dive when I can. My daughter and I tried zip lining for Mother's Day and had a blast! We got hooked and tried the more challenging lines later in the day! I am open to trying almost anything new and adventurous :) Needless to say... I am not a couch potato! I am employed and have a great job. Occasionally I do contract work for several businesses.Sorry to add this in...however it has become an issue.... Please do not send nude photos to me or ask me to send to you! I am NOT interested in a text message or ***??? Thanks for reading & best of luck in your search! Casually meeting for coffee or a drink is a good way to see if there is interest in spending more time getting to know one another. No pressure and who knows..... May end up with a friend if nothing else!

  • Arlena

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hello gentlemen, let me start by saying I am looking for one man to spend the rest of my life with. I do not enjoy serial dating or one night stands. Intimacy on the first date is unacceptable....no matter how much wine you buy me..... so please don't put me in the position to have to tell you no. Even though I am fun loving, flirtatious, adventurous and spontaneous, I am also a lady and expect to be treated as such. If you are not interested in pursuing a serious relationship please just pass on by. I am all the things I hope to find in someone else, loving, gentle, genuine, honest, caring, funny, sexy, attentive, open minded, forgiving, compassionate, sweet natured, kind, passionate, financially stable, smart, attractive, educated, strong, well preserved, respectful, and you will always know where you stand with me. I don't put on phony airs and graces and detest drama of any kind. I am very confident and don't play games. If we don't hit it off so be it, at least we got out there and tried, but please don't string me along, as I don't do well in the "runner up" position. If you know there is no connection I would rather find out sooner than later so I can continue on my search for the one. I am convinced that my man is out there, searching as hard for me as I am for him....so if you think you might be my one and only please contact me............ because I can't wait to be in your arms. :) I would love my first date to be somewhere quiet and comfortable for both of us. A place where we can talk and get to know each other. It really doesn't matter where, just a place that allows the conversation to flow.

  • Tomeka

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm looking for men that are between the ages of ***because i'm young at heart and still like to go out and have fun.I am a very outgoing/energetic woman who enjoys cooking, playing pool, fishing, hanging out with family and friends, grilling, going on the lake, bowling, going out to eat, watching movies whether at home or at the cinema. I'm looking for someone who sees a person for who they are on the inside and not whats on the outside. I'm hoping to find someone that can be my best friend but at the same time be my partner.I DO NOT play head games, it's a waste of my time. I am honest and up front and expect the same respect in return. I'm not here for a one night stand, so if that's your intention please move along. I like to go out and have fun but can be just as happy staying home and cuddling up watching a good movie. I'll leave that up to you ;)

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