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Arlena, 53

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About Me

Hello gentlemen, let me start by saying I am looking for one man to spend the rest of my life with. I do not enjoy serial dating or one night stands. Intimacy on the first date is unacceptable....no matter how much wine you buy me..... so please don't put me in the position to have to tell you no. Even though I am fun loving, flirtatious, adventurous and spontaneous, I am also a lady and expect to be treated as such. If you are not interested in pursuing a serious relationship please just pass on by. I am all the things I hope to find in someone else, loving, gentle, genuine, honest, caring, funny, sexy, attentive, open minded, forgiving, compassionate, sweet natured, kind, passionate, financially stable, smart, attractive, educated, strong, well preserved, respectful, and you will always know where you stand with me. I don't put on phony airs and graces and detest drama of any kind. I am very confident and don't play games. If we don't hit it off so be it, at least we got out there and tried, but please don't string me along, as I don't do well in the "runner up" position. If you know there is no connection I would rather find out sooner than later so I can continue on my search for the one. I am convinced that my man is out there, searching as hard for me as I am for him....so if you think you might be my one and only please contact me............ because I can't wait to be in your arms. :) I would love my first date to be somewhere quiet and comfortable for both of us. A place where we can talk and get to know each other. It really doesn't matter where, just a place that allows the conversation to flow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cilla

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Is always hard to talk about myself just because I never know what to say.. I am an intelligent independent caring woman who is starting over after a very long relationship. . I am not looking for nor do I need someone to take care of me.. want someone to share my life and let me share theirs. I am told I do not look my age, nor do I act it in that I am not one to just sit around I love to dance and laugh, go out to dinner and the theater numerous other things I love to do.. I love the City I live in and always find something new. .I enjoy fishing and including the baiting the hook and cleaning them not to mention cooking them. While most of my fishing has been fresh water....I did scored points with my son's friends by my fishing skills. I have the greatest friends some living here, some in numerous places around the world and I would do anything for them as they would for me., I have a good sense of humor and smile easily even at myself.. I love music all kinds but can't sing a lick.. I view the world as an exciting adventure.. I am open minded to most things and love a new adventure. I want to travel and see and do everything and then come home with all the memories.. I am hoping for some one to share life's experiences with me. I have my little dog Bogey, he is a rescue boy who stole my heart. I get along with most animals but he is my love. If you are seeking quiet and demur I am not your girl.. I am just as at ease at a black tie affair as I am in a tee shirt and jeans shooting pool at the local watering hole.. If you are seeking just a sexual relationship I am also not your girl am an affectionate, romantic loving woman but looking for just one man. . You will find me honest and loyal to a fault to those I care for. I am easy going, kind and seldom angered. I just want to enjoy life.. build new memories. Believe in the "Golden Rule" on living my life. I love getting flowers and can be swept away but the right kiss.. It took me a long time but I am comfortable with me.. I like me. I am not 25 nor do I have the body of one but try to stay in shape and still weigh what I did in high school. I am a good woman and a good person. and btw. Pics are current and have been told I am better in person. I love college football, and my ideas of a great afternoon on a cold or rainy day is curled up cuddling on the sofa and watching a game or movie.. Please only contact me if you are who you say you are.. and are truly interested in getting to know someone you may find you like.. and please be local I am not interested in long distance relationship. Educated fun person.

  • Gretel

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    It's the beginning of a whole new year! I am looking for a partner who enjoys making fond memories, ones that may last a lifetime. I am searching for that special man that I can tease, please, and make him laugh...maybe until he snorts! Minimum drama, just fun, companionship, should be ready and able with healthy passion, mutual respect, and let's see where it goes. You must have a true sense of humor, and bring it with you at all times. I will be checking! I adore massaging your back until you melt, but reciprocation is appreciated. I am very low maintenance, and not a goldigger. You can go to Rush St. or suburban hot spots for those ladies to abuse your credit card balances. OK, I am secretly holding my breath for some roses from Jewel, Dominicks or sent from ProFlowers. I am not loooking for a multitude of responses, just the right one, a special one, and I hope very soon so don't procrastinate. No pen pals, you must be willing to chat on the phone at length and have a free schedule to meet and date in a short time frame. I am not impatient, just goal oriented. Let's get the party started! Life should be a sit-com not a drama. I need a leading man. Physical appearances fade with age, so you must have a heart of gold which shines without much polishing... reply immediately! My date just needs the basics: sincere, caring, well mannered and courteous, good conversationalist, and have free time to be together regularly. You can be "whacky" If you are a "whack job" which is a noun meaning mentally unbalanced, dysfunctional, disagreeable with a temper, an addict of any kind, or an ex-basher...thanks but no thanks. Bailing you out of jail is not my idea of a good date! Be quick to smile, slow to take offense. A little patience and understanding go a long way. I am open to coffee or a drink for a meet and greet, but if we click like to go right into appetizers or a light meal to keep the momentum going. A meeting must be preceded by a phone conversation to rule out incompatibility. Grabbing a quick burger at Five Guys can be fun, if you are the type of guy to be brave and have all the toppings! Motorcycle rides, boating, fishing, or target shooting if you are the outdoorsy type and the weather cooperates. I most enjoy all live music venues, perhaps The Cube at Rivers or Blue Man Group or comedy clubs.. Hugging and holding hands are fine, but can you act out scenes or quote lines from one of my favorite movies like "" I'll bet a few of you can do that meticulously! Please, if you say you are on this site to date and meet, then please have enough free time to do that. I do not IM, e-mail only. I will generally respond to all coherent inquiries.

  • Demetra

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Looking for someone to laugh with and share my life with. I like most kinds of music, not into heavymetal. I believe in working on a relationship, nothing comes easy. I Like dinning out and having a few drinks. Friends and family are important to me.I love my children, but they have lifes of there own now.( would love grandchildren some day). I love my dog( she is my best friend!) I like to go out sometimes and sometimes just stay home ,lite some candles,soak in a bubble bath or watch tv.; listen to music in the park. Their is a friendship bridge that is nice to walk across & there is places to stop and sit at.I like going to the comedy clubs with friends thats always a fun time . I do not what any married man to chat with (you should not be on here !!! maybe you should try talking with your wife)I don't need a man that bad !!! Want to find someone that can make my heart skip a beat & can't wait to see each other again.... Meet someplace for a drink

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