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Arlena, 53

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About Me

Hello gentlemen, let me start by saying I am looking for one man to spend the rest of my life with. I do not enjoy serial dating or one night stands. Intimacy on the first date is unacceptable....no matter how much wine you buy me..... so please don't put me in the position to have to tell you no. Even though I am fun loving, flirtatious, adventurous and spontaneous, I am also a lady and expect to be treated as such. If you are not interested in pursuing a serious relationship please just pass on by. I am all the things I hope to find in someone else, loving, gentle, genuine, honest, caring, funny, sexy, attentive, open minded, forgiving, compassionate, sweet natured, kind, passionate, financially stable, smart, attractive, educated, strong, well preserved, respectful, and you will always know where you stand with me. I don't put on phony airs and graces and detest drama of any kind. I am very confident and don't play games. If we don't hit it off so be it, at least we got out there and tried, but please don't string me along, as I don't do well in the "runner up" position. If you know there is no connection I would rather find out sooner than later so I can continue on my search for the one. I am convinced that my man is out there, searching as hard for me as I am for him....so if you think you might be my one and only please contact me............ because I can't wait to be in your arms. :) I would love my first date to be somewhere quiet and comfortable for both of us. A place where we can talk and get to know each other. It really doesn't matter where, just a place that allows the conversation to flow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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