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Nakita, 51

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As I was surfing the Meet Me's, I saw a some profiles with marital status: Separated. It made me wonder, Hmmmm, what's the story there??My status is "separated" and I realize that I should disclose more info about that. My ex and I are planning to finalize our split later this year. Joint financial matters and (free) health insurance for spouses are the reasons we haven't made it official. We split 2 yrs ago, very amicably. A 20 yr marriage where the sizzle had fizzled :-)I feel there is no ONE mand for ONE woman; Aas we travel our life's path, we may be lucky to meet several soul mates. The people you just connect with; and you know it pretty early on. It's not a love-at-first-sight thing, that's so Hallmark and trite. But a real connection that you feel in your solar plexus. Its unmistakeable.Not sure about online dating. Honestly, it doesn't resonate. Photographs are so one dimensional and the descriptions we write about ourselves are obviously subjective. But I did meet an interesting and talented man the first week I signed on to meetville, travel distance and opposite work schedules made it a frustrating connection; we stopped dating after 3 months.Hobbies: I like outdoors stuff, but not particularly athletic. Starting bicycling and yoga for fitness and fun. Love reading....). I love to laugh, and make others laugh; humor ir very important to me.Goals and aspirations: I'm on a quest to be a better human being. Working on bachelor's degree. I plan on living near a coast some day; probably the E. coast of FL.I'm a no BS woman. Don't like drama and will not participate in others' drama. I'm fairly straightforward, without being mean. Diplomatic but honest. I'm smart and have a good sense of humor. A good sense of humor trumps most other traits/qualities in my male and female friends. I've delayed participating in these dating websites. I'm not interested in men who move from ***after a first meeting or two. I'm interested in someone who is funny, smart, attractive, physically fit (doesn't have to be perfect), who likes similar music. I'm looking for substance and someone who is genuine. If you need constant reassurance and validation; I'm not your woman. Confident men are sexy. Needy men are of no interest to me.I almost listed music in the Talk About Hobbies section, but realized it has it own.Music is very important in my life. I love hearing live bands. Left on a desolate island with only one genre of music; metal (and most of its sub genres! Not fond of rap or hip hop. Coffee somewhere. Either we hit it off, and you know that kinda thing right away, or we don't. Conversation over a nice cup of coffee/tea is enough time to assess.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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    I just spent 30 minutes writing a profile and it didn't save it. UiurrrrgghhhhhbbbhCan't do this again right now. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Here goes again!!!!!My friends would say I am an independent, strong minded person who is honest, loyal and kindhearted and value family and friends. I would like to meet a man with similar interests and values. I am not looking for a quick roll in the sack. I am looking to meet someone I can respect and that respects me and treats me accordingly. I want to spend time with someone and see what it can grow into. It may not develop into anything more than a friendship and that would be fine. One can never have too many friends. I am not looking for someone to change my life but rather someone who will add to my life and I to theirs. I am happy, settled in my life with a great job and finding someone to share in my life would be wonderful. I love animals and am a strong advocate for animal rights and welfare. I cannot date guys that hunt, that is an absolute deal breaker for me. I have a cat and no I am not willing to get rid of him so if you don't like them or are allergic I am probably not the one for you. Grin. I enjoy nature and outdoor activities. I enjoy a night on the town on occasion but also like to just stay home with a good movie or book and a hot cup of tea. I workout at the gym ***times a week, I do not have children and won't be having any of my own at this late in life. I would date someone with children of their own. I think it would be wonderful to have the opportunity to share in that love.I have provided a recent picture - please do the same and happy fishing. Something without pressure- a walk or coffee. If there is further interest on both our parts, we can plan for a second meet.

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    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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