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Violette, 54
United States, Pennsylvania, Pittston

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About Me

I am quite content in my life. I like who I am and where I am. I do not chase the illusive dream of perfection....not in you , not in me...it simply does not exist . Need and Wants.....two very different things . In essence I NEED nothing ,not your home , not your car, not your money ........I have all that . What I WANT is companionship with a man who has his space and place ....as I have mine . I want someone I can pamper when I so desire , to cook a special meal for/with...to curl up on the couch or just hang out .. I want to experience the pheromones that exude from your presence . Like most 50 something's I have experienced heartache and great disappointment , but I will not allow these experiences to dictate and limit what is yet to come. I expect you to harbour no resentment towards those who came before. Affection , Integrity, and Compassion are in my opinion fundamental components in any relationship.If one values their integrity then honesty and virtue are a given . If one's soul encompasses affection , then endearment and kindness ensue. And if one speaks and acts with compassion , then consideration and empathy are at the root of all actions.I am confident yet modest . I am shy but have been known to speak my mind. I am quick witted but take seriousness as such."if she is amazing she won't be easy . If she is easy she won't be amazing . If she's worth it you won't give up, If you give up you're not worthy."Bob Marley.Unfortunately it appears I must make it clear that I am not interested in Married or attached men . Nor is my purpose here simply to be another notch in your bed post.I value who I am and hopefully so do you . a brief casual meeting free of expectation and stress....mutually decided upon of course....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian Irish South American Vietnamese Dance Nascar Collecting
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