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Violette, 54

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About Me

I am quite content in my life. I like who I am and where I am. I do not chase the illusive dream of perfection....not in you , not in me...it simply does not exist . Need and Wants.....two very different things . In essence I NEED nothing ,not your home , not your car, not your money ........I have all that . What I WANT is companionship with a man who has his space and place ....as I have mine . I want someone I can pamper when I so desire , to cook a special meal for/with...to curl up on the couch or just hang out .. I want to experience the pheromones that exude from your presence . Like most 50 something's I have experienced heartache and great disappointment , but I will not allow these experiences to dictate and limit what is yet to come. I expect you to harbour no resentment towards those who came before. Affection , Integrity, and Compassion are in my opinion fundamental components in any relationship.If one values their integrity then honesty and virtue are a given . If one's soul encompasses affection , then endearment and kindness ensue. And if one speaks and acts with compassion , then consideration and empathy are at the root of all actions.I am confident yet modest . I am shy but have been known to speak my mind. I am quick witted but take seriousness as such."if she is amazing she won't be easy . If she is easy she won't be amazing . If she's worth it you won't give up, If you give up you're not worthy."Bob Marley.Unfortunately it appears I must make it clear that I am not interested in Married or attached men . Nor is my purpose here simply to be another notch in your bed post.I value who I am and hopefully so do you . a brief casual meeting free of expectation and stress....mutually decided upon of course....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Geneva

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I come from a large family who are all close. Friends and family are very important to me. I am a strong believer in trust and honesty. I am looking for that someone special, that will allow me to be me. Someone who can laugh and have a good time, that can be comfortable enough to be himself around me. I am a very independent women and is not looking for someone to take care of me. What I am looking for is friendship that may lead to long lasting relationship. I have always believed in actions speak louder then words! I need someone to treat me as well as i treat them.If you have to lie about your height, age, how much money you make or how old your pics are. You are only lying to yourself .... And like i wouldn't notice.. Lol.. Sorry for being honest! Lets not start off with integrity issues. Good luckIn your search :)All my pics and profile are true and up to date. First meet should be relaxing and no pressure. Lets see if there is a connection ! :)

  • Braelynn

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I smoke, ..Have a cat ..have a son over 18 and lives with me. I like to laugh, enjoy going out dancing and casinos, watch some sports and I like TV shows, rollerskating, eating whether I cook or go out, love some dark chocolate and desserts. I'm a young 54 year old who is easy going, takes things in stride but likes things planned ahead most of the time, I like my men just like my coffee ; strong..I enjoy dressing up and going out on the town for a musical/mystery dinner then dancing, I like to laugh and smile, simple things are alright with me as long as you make me feel special, picnics, fishing, camping and boating are enjoyable. Snuggling watching a movie on a cold or rainy day/night is nice. I'm shy at first but once I get to know you I talk a lot more and I can hold a conversation being shy and comfortable. I'd like my guy to do the same...If we are agreeable to date each other, I'll take interest in you and effort as long as it's reciprocated...I'm one for equal balance, I'm not selfish by any means. I'm kind hearted and have an open spirit. I don't mind trying some new things that I haven't done before. After our first meet and greet and we hit it off we would decide where the first date would be together..

  • Lakia

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Love to entertain loved ones. Being out for a good bargain, second hands stores are a blast when I can get something nice and nobody believes that I got it for such a good price! Driving on a great motorcycle and going out for a trip around this beautiful province. Laying on a beach and loving the person that I'm with. Listening to nature and also good music, blues, rock and roll, dance music. Can enjoy going to a museums and shows ( concerts ). If this isn't enough information, then just ask me and I'll tell you. If you don't mind meeting in a public place then I'll meet you where we can talk and have a nice cold one, ice tea, ice coffee, wine and the list goes on!

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