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Violette, 54

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About Me

I am quite content in my life. I like who I am and where I am. I do not chase the illusive dream of perfection....not in you , not in me...it simply does not exist . Need and Wants.....two very different things . In essence I NEED nothing ,not your home , not your car, not your money ........I have all that . What I WANT is companionship with a man who has his space and place ....as I have mine . I want someone I can pamper when I so desire , to cook a special meal for/with...to curl up on the couch or just hang out .. I want to experience the pheromones that exude from your presence . Like most 50 something's I have experienced heartache and great disappointment , but I will not allow these experiences to dictate and limit what is yet to come. I expect you to harbour no resentment towards those who came before. Affection , Integrity, and Compassion are in my opinion fundamental components in any relationship.If one values their integrity then honesty and virtue are a given . If one's soul encompasses affection , then endearment and kindness ensue. And if one speaks and acts with compassion , then consideration and empathy are at the root of all actions.I am confident yet modest . I am shy but have been known to speak my mind. I am quick witted but take seriousness as such."if she is amazing she won't be easy . If she is easy she won't be amazing . If she's worth it you won't give up, If you give up you're not worthy."Bob Marley.Unfortunately it appears I must make it clear that I am not interested in Married or attached men . Nor is my purpose here simply to be another notch in your bed post.I value who I am and hopefully so do you . a brief casual meeting free of expectation and stress....mutually decided upon of course....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gilma

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hi there!First time here, dipping my toe in this pond!I like to laugh a lot, enjoy dogs, photography, wine tasting, cooking, being "mostly" healthy, being outdoors and living life to the fullest with my glass half full! Recent weekend outings include ziplining, kayaking and stand up paddleboarding (I didn't fall, amazing!!) —I still like to try new & fun things! I've been self employed for over 25 years...doing what I do best. I'm very down to earth, easy to talk to and enjoy camping to 5 star. I think we are all looking for similar things here (in this pond), so I won't list them all, although I do require personal integrity—and all that goes with it. I am casting a line for a partnership and hopefully best friend in life... someone who is always honest and wants to enjoy this crazy good life every single day—laughing, toasting, traveling, relaxing and working hard too—and together, we could be a great team in ALL endeavors! I have found that the little things that make you smile daily (kindness humor, touching) are really the big things that lead to a harmonious & happy life!I love life, and am passionate about many things, from adventure—to staying home and relaxing—to maybe meeting YOU?If you would like to know more, please send me a message! :) How can you describe a first date in a cookie cutter sort of way?I think it should be as unique as the 2 that are meeting— Whatever it IS, JUST BE YOURSELF, RELAX and have FUN! Oh... and please be the age and height you say—and look similar to your profile pics! Also required: No smoking and please don't pretend to be single if you are "really" married! ;)NO SURPRISES on above is sure to get us BOTH off to a GREAT start and not waste each others time, don't you agree? If so, I would love to hear from you!Sooooo—I have about ***first date ideas—from simple, to a day trip. Where would YOU like to go?

  • Jina

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Ok guys, honesty here... I am really 59 years old and Plenty of Fish will not let me change it and I really do not not want to create a new profile :-) I have a serious side to my personality that I often try to portray, but I honestly love to have fun and live life by teasing and laughing that seriousness away. I also smoke, so if that would bother you, please leave me alone. I do not know if or when I will ever quit. I am just hoping you will like me for the person I am. In the same breath, I am religious and I do so love the lord. So, if you are just looking for someone to hop in the sack with you, please keep looking!I am a busy lady lately, currently working two jobs and going to college, even as old as I am. Chemistry and sparks are important and they help make the world go round. They are not always found in someone's looks, but in their personality and getting to know the person on the inside, at least for me can take a little time. I could go on writing here to let my serious side shine through, but keeping it short and light right now is aIl I want to do. I like poetry, gardening, golfing, jet skiing, movies, and even relaxing at home and watching TV. ***\\***Plz***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or whom maybe suffering from it***\\\***OR A SURVIVOR!!! Let's just get to know each other...

  • Austyn

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am single woman that loves life! I am from a large family that is very close. I like to try new adventures and to travel. I enjoy hanging out wi family and friends and listening to local bands outdoors. I like to hike and enjoy going to the gym but sometimes could use a little motivation. I will travel anywhere to see Jimmy Buffet! I like most kind of music except heavy metal. I graduated from UT and taught for several years. I love all UT sports and watch most games unless I have to work. I hope to find someone who enjoys spending quality time with the their special woman but also has time on their own.

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