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I am quite content in my life. I like who I am and where I am. I do not chase the illusive dream of perfection....not in you , not in me...it simply does not exist . Need and Wants.....two very different things . In essence I NEED nothing ,not your home , not your car, not your money ........I have all that . What I WANT is companionship with a man who has his space and place ....as I have mine . I want someone I can pamper when I so desire , to cook a special meal for/with...to curl up on the couch or just hang out .. I want to experience the pheromones that exude from your presence . Like most 50 something's I have experienced heartache and great disappointment , but I will not allow these experiences to dictate and limit what is yet to come. I expect you to harbour no resentment towards those who came before. Affection , Integrity, and Compassion are in my opinion fundamental components in any relationship.If one values their integrity then honesty and virtue are a given . If one's soul encompasses affection , then endearment and kindness ensue. And if one speaks and acts with compassion , then consideration and empathy are at the root of all actions.I am confident yet modest . I am shy but have been known to speak my mind. I am quick witted but take seriousness as such."if she is amazing she won't be easy . If she is easy she won't be amazing . If she's worth it you won't give up, If you give up you're not worthy."Bob Marley.Unfortunately it appears I must make it clear that I am not interested in Married or attached men . Nor is my purpose here simply to be another notch in your bed post.I value who I am and hopefully so do you . a brief casual meeting free of expectation and stress....mutually decided upon of course....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Avalon

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi :) Well I guess my hobbies would have to be travel. I love going places.But my favorite place is the Caribbean:) I love blue water. But I also like just a fun day for a road trip. And check out the waterfront. People watch. Just hang out. My goals for this next year is to hopefully own my own company?? And if anyone has advice in this area I would appreciate it.lol Im Lucky enough to love my job. I get to make people happy every day. Its a great feeling. My taste in music is just about anything. Just depends on the mood or what im doing at that time.But country, jazz, pop. I like it all. I like going dancing and out for a few drinks sometimes. But I also like just snuggling up by the fire and watching a movie.With popcorn. And by the way I make the best Popcorn ever:) I like to cook. I'm pretty good in the kitchen. And if you cook too. Even better..... I guess I'm kind of shy at the start. But I'm hoping that's normal? I have been on this sight for awhile now. I signed up a few months back. But I have been out of the dating world for a long time. I want to thank you for stopping by. I hope you all having good luck fishing:) Send me a message If you like any of this? I would love to get to know you better. Maybe a Martini? Or a cup of coffee. Just so we can talk. Some place casual. What are your thoughts?.

  • Linnet

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am an overall very happy person and would like to share that with someone. I love the Lord and need someone who knows how to be a scriptural head of the household... not a dictator... I am independent, strong willed and minded but fall into the submissive roll quite humbly...I am confident enough in who I am to be balanced that way... I don't play games or tolerate someone who does... I am looking for someone who loves very young children as I am raising my 3 yr old granddaughter... I'm told that I am a young 51. I'm still really physically strong and like to take long walks in the woods, skip rocks at the lake, play golf or climb trees... I've got a tomboy attitude but can wear a dress (and do) quite frequently. However, my mom tells me that I surely can't be a female because I don't care about shoes, purses or having money in my pocket! lol....she's so funny. Probably where I get my wit... I'm also not big on make-up, so if you are, I'm not your girl.... I'm a very detailed person and like to organize things. I'm not that good of a cook though, so if anyone would like to cook me dinner, well, that would be great... I'm better at candy and fudge.I've got a squeaky clean record... no jail, no rehab of any kind, no repos, wrecks, insurance claims or even speeding or parking tickets ... ever! ... yay! nor, do I have any tattoos or strange body piercings... Isn't it sad that someone would feel the need to tell you all that? This is truly some world we live in.... wow.I'm very easy going and forgiving... I wear a lot of duck feathers in crunch time... so most things roll off my back without me absorbing much of it... I just know that when I stand before God, I will be judged to the same degree as I judge others, so I'm pretty understanding and maybe even overlook things to a fault. I know I'm going to need plenty of mercy for my own life when I'm before Him, so I don't hold onto things... I forgive and move on... I would expect the same from my mate. That's not to say we overlook issues that need dealt with, but please, no drama... just responsible conversation to work things out and lets get back to being us again... even if we just agree to disagree... we weren't intended to have the exact same opinion on things... just to love each other with patience and kindness.Sooo.... anybody up for a game of golf? I'm not very good but I love to play (and look for balls that someone lost and left behind.) :-)Come on, let's go have some fun! Lets go get a bite to eat then run up to the lake and feed the ducks and fish... Laughter required...so bring your smile!

  • Austin

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I want to take life as it comes and find the enjoyment in what years are left for me here. I don't have a glass that is half full or half empty, I have a life that is changing daily and I am going to grab each and every moment and run with it. I am looking for a man who will not walk in front of me or behind me ( unless you are checking out my ass), but I am looking for a man who will walk beside me. I have a lot to offer, I am one of a dying breed who can, and does do it all ( yes I have changed the tire on a car and the oil). I can cook a great meal, keep a beautiful house, entertain a party, and make a man happy. If your a bike rider I have my own Harley. I am a good woman with morals and self esteem. I am not looking to be a serial dater ( nor am I a prude). I support myself, own my home, have a great job and have a strong work ethic, I hope you do too. I am looking for a relationship, someone to call my very own, someone to grow old with, someone who wants the same. I just want a real down to earth, outgoing, laid back, run wild, will try anything once kind of man. Please have your current ***picture posted, I do. **WARNING** Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law.It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one..., CoffeeBreakfastTeaLunchWalkDinnerWhateverBecause you and I love to be outside we go for a ride (motorcycle or car) down a long winding road. We stop somewhere with great scenery, throw a blanket on the ground enjoy a picnic that I packed for the two of us. After getting our fill of what is in the basket we lay across the blanket facing each other chatting about everything and about nothing at all.

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