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Violette, 54

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About Me

I am quite content in my life. I like who I am and where I am. I do not chase the illusive dream of perfection....not in you , not in me...it simply does not exist . Need and Wants.....two very different things . In essence I NEED nothing ,not your home , not your car, not your money ........I have all that . What I WANT is companionship with a man who has his space and place ....as I have mine . I want someone I can pamper when I so desire , to cook a special meal for/with...to curl up on the couch or just hang out .. I want to experience the pheromones that exude from your presence . Like most 50 something's I have experienced heartache and great disappointment , but I will not allow these experiences to dictate and limit what is yet to come. I expect you to harbour no resentment towards those who came before. Affection , Integrity, and Compassion are in my opinion fundamental components in any relationship.If one values their integrity then honesty and virtue are a given . If one's soul encompasses affection , then endearment and kindness ensue. And if one speaks and acts with compassion , then consideration and empathy are at the root of all actions.I am confident yet modest . I am shy but have been known to speak my mind. I am quick witted but take seriousness as such."if she is amazing she won't be easy . If she is easy she won't be amazing . If she's worth it you won't give up, If you give up you're not worthy."Bob Marley.Unfortunately it appears I must make it clear that I am not interested in Married or attached men . Nor is my purpose here simply to be another notch in your bed post.I value who I am and hopefully so do you . a brief casual meeting free of expectation and stress....mutually decided upon of course....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sharyn

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hi there,I am a fun spirited red head who likes to have fun. I enjoy watching movies, taking long drives, having BBQs with family and friends and walking my dog. I am a sociable person who enjoys being around other people. Laughing is very important to me. I also like to listen to live bands just hang out. I like playing poker as well as board games too. I'm not looking for the perfect guy, just the guy who is perfect for me.Someone compatible with me would have some similar interests, family would be important to him too.

  • Leyla

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    - I would like to meet someone I can share this fun with and can be my best friend. I enjoy concerts and music events (both indoor and outdoor), along with dancing. I can have fun in both the country or going to dinner in town at a nice restaurant and a show later. I love classic rock, blues and folk music but am open to some other music as well. I am spiritual, but not religious. I love technology and new gadgets, etc. I am a Reiki master and enjoy helping others when I can. I've had many miracles come to me in life and some are the spiritual gifts that I no longer block out, but have learned to accept and use to help others when I can. I've learned what I can to improve my life and if you are a light worker, it would be great to exchange stories. Since I grew up near a city when I was younger, I tend to have a free spirit and enjoy life. I can think for myself, which I find a lot of "country" women do not. I have lived in the country now for almost 20 years. My dad raised me to stand up for myself and be successful in life and being a woman doesn't stop me from doing the things in life I enjoy. I am independent and don't need someone to spend my life with, but would enjoy the company if I were to find someone who is compatible. I like who I am. I prefer someone who is down to earth, enjoys life and nature. I would love to have that someone be my best friend and accept me for who I am. I am writing this because I have found that some people try to change someone else to mold them to their liking. They would like you to get rid of all of your possessions, your pets and stay silent and let them control your life. The tell tale signs are they put you down, distance you from your loved ones, allege that they fall in love with you after a very short time, want to move in with you or get married after a short time, etc. and the list goes on. That's a bit scary and fits the profile of some issues that would raise red flags in the abuse or worse category. Even long distance relationships were listed as one of the problem areas for potential bad outcomes later. After listening to classes being taught that address these issues, I am going to take a break from this site and just take life one day at a time. I was not abused, but maybe just concerned with some odd behaviors in the past year. I do know some friends who successfully met their true love on a dating site, so it's not all bad, but I will work on my place and enjoy life with my friends and if that "special" someone happens to cross my path, that would be nice, but after too many red flags were raised and I chose to *** through the months this past year, I think taking a break is the best thing for me. I have also lost my two long time best friends this year within 2 months of each other. Life is short and I want to enjoy what I have left. I have been friends with guys most of my life and don't plan on changing that. I would also expect that if a man is friends with women in their lives, I will not change that either. Friends come in all kinds of ways, whether they are furry, human (either sex), or whatever.;I don't want a pickle, I just want to ride my motor-cicle". That's the truth and he once again had me laughing pretty hard. I do have pets and as long as they are alive, I plan on keeping them until their time is done. That to me is my invisible contract of love with them. They are great company and love unconditionally. I prefer that I see a picture of you before talking to you and that you be honest in who you say you are. Honesty and trust should be the foundation of any relationship or even friendship.Good luck with your searches and may you find your true soul mate, best friend and more.

  • Thu

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I would like to meet someone with similar interests, yet share in some new ones. A man within 5 years either way, would be realistic for me and at least my height, 5'10". I am not asking for perfection, as I believe we shouldn't expect more than we can offer. I am affectionate, passionate and honesty is a must. No reason to waste anyone's time, at our age. Telling us what you think we want to hear, rather than being honest, always spells disaster and = a man or woman with bad character. I dislike...couch potatoes, shallow, judgemental or close minded people, cowards who tell you what they think you want to hear, people who hunt animals and/or hurt kids or animals. road rage, inconsiderate people, those with no integrity and men that post a pic of themselves with a dog, to catch a woman's interest, when they have no interest in owning one. :( I enjoy meeting new people, would like to meet a nice, compassionate, respectful, funny, easy going man, who isn't still blaming his X for all his shortcomings, honest and trustworthy, non smoker, non drug user, with a nice smile. I will offer the same in return. I know you're out there somewhere. If I've eliminated 80% of you with my profile, it will take less time to meet a good man. I believe that if you are going to do something for someone, you should do it from your heart, rather than expecting something in return. Otherwise, you'll be greatly disappointed in life. A simple act of kindness, is worth more than ***good intentions. Are you out there somewhere? If so, will I find YOU or will you find ME? I think a first date should be decided upon between the two of us. If we decide to go on a first date, that means we've made it through our initial contact and we think there may be some interest...which may be headed in the right direction, which would be great! :)

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