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Violette, 54

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About Me

I am quite content in my life. I like who I am and where I am. I do not chase the illusive dream of perfection....not in you , not in me...it simply does not exist . Need and Wants.....two very different things . In essence I NEED nothing ,not your home , not your car, not your money ........I have all that . What I WANT is companionship with a man who has his space and place ....as I have mine . I want someone I can pamper when I so desire , to cook a special meal for/with...to curl up on the couch or just hang out .. I want to experience the pheromones that exude from your presence . Like most 50 something's I have experienced heartache and great disappointment , but I will not allow these experiences to dictate and limit what is yet to come. I expect you to harbour no resentment towards those who came before. Affection , Integrity, and Compassion are in my opinion fundamental components in any relationship.If one values their integrity then honesty and virtue are a given . If one's soul encompasses affection , then endearment and kindness ensue. And if one speaks and acts with compassion , then consideration and empathy are at the root of all actions.I am confident yet modest . I am shy but have been known to speak my mind. I am quick witted but take seriousness as such."if she is amazing she won't be easy . If she is easy she won't be amazing . If she's worth it you won't give up, If you give up you're not worthy."Bob Marley.Unfortunately it appears I must make it clear that I am not interested in Married or attached men . Nor is my purpose here simply to be another notch in your bed post.I value who I am and hopefully so do you . a brief casual meeting free of expectation and stress....mutually decided upon of course....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I have never met a stranger! I have been to a few places would love to travel small or long distance get-a-ways and EXPLORE MORE... at the beach or the mountains, take me away from the CITY.... LIVE - LOVE - LAUGH..... Life is too short to WASTE AWAY.... Sunset and conversation... Tell me all about YOU.... I'll share about ME.... Let's see if this fishing experience will get us that GREAT CATCH we all want....

  • Lysanne

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hi. I am a honest fun loving woman. I am looking for a kind honest man. I have tried different profiles to get my point across without sounding crazy. I am not looking to get married, but in saying that I've been told that means I'm not serious about a commited relationship. Not true. I want that forever but I'm old enough to know that's rare and smart enough to know that getting married doesn't garentee that. I love to do most anything indoor or out. I make family and friends a priority. I am super affectionate and make a sense of humor my number one attraction. I am grounded and not into drama. I need that man who has balance between work family and friends. Just like everyone else on here trying to find that connection with limited time available. So if u like what u r reading plz feel free to contact me. Lets chat and see if there is that spark. Good luck. All depends loves lots of different things. Dinner and conversation is great. Playing pool and a few drinks is awesome. Dancing any kind out at a club works. Anything so you can see if there should be a second, third, or even many more dates.

  • Henrietta

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I am loving, kind, honest, passionate caring woman with high moral values and a big heart. I love my family and am very proud of my 3 boys. I'm looking to find someone who has a good heart, will love my children, is honest, kind, genuine, not a player but a romantic. I am looking forward to meeting the love of the rest of my life. That someone who makes me melt and see fireworks. That special man to experience new or old thing together, my best friend, lover, someone to cherish and be cherished by. Who better to experience new places, sports events, new foods, antique shopping, family time, walking on the beach or on a trail in the mountains, cuddling, laughing till it hurts with. I love to dress up or down, staying comfy on cold or rainy days to cuddle works for me too.Happiness is important as is my faith. I am a Christian and hope to find a Christian man. I'm a very open person and will always speak from the heart. Looking for a monogamous relationship. One I can feel safe and secure in. Be able to confide my deepest secrets and know he will honor me in keeping them secret. I've read many profiles as I'm sure you have also and seems most men are looking for perfection and will not accept anything less. I suppose that is all in the eye of the beholder. I'm not looking for perfect in the least, only the one that is perfect for me! Romantic surprises, cuddling, intimate conversations, sunsets, special little actions of love, special looks, candle light, walks on the beach, holding hands, or just being held close, wonderful dinners or BBQ's. There is so much I still want to do and see in my lifetime and would love to share it with you. Through the years I've learned to appreciate a variety of things. When your with the right person it just doesn't matter...it's all better. Let me know if you might be the right man for me and want to share that "last first kiss". I think a first date should be somewhere we would both be comfortable. I'd prefer somewhere that's not romantic but somewhere we could communicate with each other, laugh and just be ourselves, maybe have a little fun?

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