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Violette, 54

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About Me

I am quite content in my life. I like who I am and where I am. I do not chase the illusive dream of perfection....not in you , not in me...it simply does not exist . Need and Wants.....two very different things . In essence I NEED nothing ,not your home , not your car, not your money ........I have all that . What I WANT is companionship with a man who has his space and place ....as I have mine . I want someone I can pamper when I so desire , to cook a special meal for/with...to curl up on the couch or just hang out .. I want to experience the pheromones that exude from your presence . Like most 50 something's I have experienced heartache and great disappointment , but I will not allow these experiences to dictate and limit what is yet to come. I expect you to harbour no resentment towards those who came before. Affection , Integrity, and Compassion are in my opinion fundamental components in any relationship.If one values their integrity then honesty and virtue are a given . If one's soul encompasses affection , then endearment and kindness ensue. And if one speaks and acts with compassion , then consideration and empathy are at the root of all actions.I am confident yet modest . I am shy but have been known to speak my mind. I am quick witted but take seriousness as such."if she is amazing she won't be easy . If she is easy she won't be amazing . If she's worth it you won't give up, If you give up you're not worthy."Bob Marley.Unfortunately it appears I must make it clear that I am not interested in Married or attached men . Nor is my purpose here simply to be another notch in your bed post.I value who I am and hopefully so do you . a brief casual meeting free of expectation and stress....mutually decided upon of course....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Antonio

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    True happiness: what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony (Gandhi)Every day at work and play I attempt to live in true happiness! I am an energetic woman who believes in living a quality life who makes healthy choices that nourish my mind, body and soul. I love romance, being emotionally connected and sharing day to day life in a committed loving relationship that is evolving and respectful. I am down to earth, easy to talk with, and love to have fun and need laughter to keep those laugh lines forming! I have been described as intuitive, analytical, compassionate, emotionally intelligent (what?), honest, resilient, passionate, and a lifelong learner! I am active everyday (big encouragement from Miss Maggie); curious about stuff (?); a devoted and loyal partner; and giving/caring to those who are in my circle of influence! Would love to meet someone with the same values and interests. I love the outdoors, exploring, conversation, exploring different cuisines, live music & theatre. I also enjoy taking time to relax with a glass of wine, a book, movie or just reflecting on life?. I appreciate the male mind (yes I said mind!) and the special joy that the right companion offers; most experiences are best shared with another. I am seeking a deep connection with someone who is able and wanting to share themselves in a mature, committed, loving, respectful and affectionate relationship.PS Please have a picture or respond with one. Thanks and good luck fishing!

  • Merrill

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I enjoy cooking and baking. Hate the cold!-this is home. They have two seasons- green and brown. Most people are too stuck up or afraid to say Hi as they walk by. I like to make others feel welcomed. When out with friends, I will always invite the loner to come join the group so they do not have to drink alone. The Big Bang Theory cracks me up. Like to watch old black and white movies from the 30's-50's. I listen to rap/hip-hop and old country.Not the outdoors type. Winter is too cold and in the summer I do nothing but burn-peel-burn some more. I've never tanned in my life. Just turn different shades of red.Love joking around,laughig, pulling pranks. I don't take things too serious and neither should he. I want someone who can laugh at me, with me and himself.I like cats,dogs and horses( not to ride,just to pet their nose) Hate spiders,bats,creepy crawl things,worms,snakes. I like the quiteness of fishing but I dont like to eat fish and I wont bait my own hook! I can be on the river bank casting time and time again without a hook or bait. Just like to pretend I'm fishing. I find it calming. I know-weird right?My dislikes in food: anything green, most meats, and if it has too many ingredients I wont eat it either(up to 5 is my max), black beans look like dead flies-YUK!-the kind where the juices drip off your elbows-no lettuce-no pickle(green stuff) The first time we meet in person would be day time for coffee. If things go well, then a dinner date, drinks or a movie. I prefer a place where jeans and t-shirt are the norm. Dressing up is okay, but at the end of the day I just want to relax with a bottle of beer and catch the game on tv. Sports bars would be a great place to meet. Not into basketball but will watch it. I prefer football or baseball. I've never been to a hockey game but think it would be a lot of fun. Especially right down by the glass where all the action is.

  • Thu

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I would like to meet someone with similar interests, yet share in some new ones. A man within 5 years either way, would be realistic for me and at least my height, 5'10". I am not asking for perfection, as I believe we shouldn't expect more than we can offer. I am affectionate, passionate and honesty is a must. No reason to waste anyone's time, at our age. Telling us what you think we want to hear, rather than being honest, always spells disaster and = a man or woman with bad character. I dislike...couch potatoes, shallow, judgemental or close minded people, cowards who tell you what they think you want to hear, people who hunt animals and/or hurt kids or animals. road rage, inconsiderate people, those with no integrity and men that post a pic of themselves with a dog, to catch a woman's interest, when they have no interest in owning one. :( I enjoy meeting new people, would like to meet a nice, compassionate, respectful, funny, easy going man, who isn't still blaming his X for all his shortcomings, honest and trustworthy, non smoker, non drug user, with a nice smile. I will offer the same in return. I know you're out there somewhere. If I've eliminated 80% of you with my profile, it will take less time to meet a good man. I believe that if you are going to do something for someone, you should do it from your heart, rather than expecting something in return. Otherwise, you'll be greatly disappointed in life. A simple act of kindness, is worth more than ***good intentions. Are you out there somewhere? If so, will I find YOU or will you find ME? I think a first date should be decided upon between the two of us. If we decide to go on a first date, that means we've made it through our initial contact and we think there may be some interest...which may be headed in the right direction, which would be great! :)

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