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Violette, 54

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About Me

I am quite content in my life. I like who I am and where I am. I do not chase the illusive dream of perfection....not in you , not in me...it simply does not exist . Need and Wants.....two very different things . In essence I NEED nothing ,not your home , not your car, not your money ........I have all that . What I WANT is companionship with a man who has his space and place ....as I have mine . I want someone I can pamper when I so desire , to cook a special meal for/with...to curl up on the couch or just hang out .. I want to experience the pheromones that exude from your presence . Like most 50 something's I have experienced heartache and great disappointment , but I will not allow these experiences to dictate and limit what is yet to come. I expect you to harbour no resentment towards those who came before. Affection , Integrity, and Compassion are in my opinion fundamental components in any relationship.If one values their integrity then honesty and virtue are a given . If one's soul encompasses affection , then endearment and kindness ensue. And if one speaks and acts with compassion , then consideration and empathy are at the root of all actions.I am confident yet modest . I am shy but have been known to speak my mind. I am quick witted but take seriousness as such."if she is amazing she won't be easy . If she is easy she won't be amazing . If she's worth it you won't give up, If you give up you're not worthy."Bob Marley.Unfortunately it appears I must make it clear that I am not interested in Married or attached men . Nor is my purpose here simply to be another notch in your bed post.I value who I am and hopefully so do you . a brief casual meeting free of expectation and stress....mutually decided upon of course....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Braelynn

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I smoke, ..Have a cat ..have a son over 18 and lives with me. I like to laugh, enjoy going out dancing and casinos, watch some sports and I like TV shows, rollerskating, eating whether I cook or go out, love some dark chocolate and desserts. I'm a young 54 year old who is easy going, takes things in stride but likes things planned ahead most of the time, I like my men just like my coffee ; strong..I enjoy dressing up and going out on the town for a musical/mystery dinner then dancing, I like to laugh and smile, simple things are alright with me as long as you make me feel special, picnics, fishing, camping and boating are enjoyable. Snuggling watching a movie on a cold or rainy day/night is nice. I'm shy at first but once I get to know you I talk a lot more and I can hold a conversation being shy and comfortable. I'd like my guy to do the same...If we are agreeable to date each other, I'll take interest in you and effort as long as it's reciprocated...I'm one for equal balance, I'm not selfish by any means. I'm kind hearted and have an open spirit. I don't mind trying some new things that I haven't done before. After our first meet and greet and we hit it off we would decide where the first date would be together..

  • Madelynn

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am not really good at talking about myself, but the basics are...I love to travel, I am self employed and love my work! I enjoy country music, art shows, my dogs and horses, all sporting events and love the beach and boating. I guess if I had to pick something that makes me unique its that I'm a good listener and extremely easy going! The site says lists your goals and aspirations, I believe that I have reached my goals in life, my aspirations are to meet someone that I can just have fun with! I have tried this site before and have met some nice guys but just not the right guy, maybe its you?

  • Rihanna

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    We are all joining for the same reasons, finding someone with common interests and chemistry, yes, chemistry, that word again!!!! Is very important but not all but a first step in the right direction. I want to find some nice man to enjoy the good things in life, going for long car rides beaches, BBQs etc. Someone caring and honest, faithful. RESPECT is very important to me. I do want to get to know you first, one step at a time. I love traveling in and also out of the country... interested???I really love my life, my family and my friends... I am independent and I expect the same in a man!!! What is better than walking on the beach at sunset?, swimming in the ocean, sunrises-sunsets,,, Standing outside on a clear night star gazing, these are just a few of the things I want to do with the right person.!I also enjoy oil painting I started few years ago, it was a life long dream that I never could do before for lack of time I think? There is so much more to talk about but in person is always better to see if we have the right vibes???? Anxious to find out. See you soon!P.S. don't forget your picture if you want a response, thanks. On a date I like......etc. Oh! I forgot, plane right to NY for supper or just what you will come up on the spot...restaurants are nice but not necessary unless it's a cold or raining day. No rock climbing or marathons! ;-) Not for the few first dates anyways...

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