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Leyla, 55

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About Me

- I would like to meet someone I can share this fun with and can be my best friend. I enjoy concerts and music events (both indoor and outdoor), along with dancing. I can have fun in both the country or going to dinner in town at a nice restaurant and a show later. I love classic rock, blues and folk music but am open to some other music as well. I am spiritual, but not religious. I love technology and new gadgets, etc. I am a Reiki master and enjoy helping others when I can. I've had many miracles come to me in life and some are the spiritual gifts that I no longer block out, but have learned to accept and use to help others when I can. I've learned what I can to improve my life and if you are a light worker, it would be great to exchange stories. Since I grew up near a city when I was younger, I tend to have a free spirit and enjoy life. I can think for myself, which I find a lot of "country" women do not. I have lived in the country now for almost 20 years. My dad raised me to stand up for myself and be successful in life and being a woman doesn't stop me from doing the things in life I enjoy. I am independent and don't need someone to spend my life with, but would enjoy the company if I were to find someone who is compatible. I like who I am. I prefer someone who is down to earth, enjoys life and nature. I would love to have that someone be my best friend and accept me for who I am. I am writing this because I have found that some people try to change someone else to mold them to their liking. They would like you to get rid of all of your possessions, your pets and stay silent and let them control your life. The tell tale signs are they put you down, distance you from your loved ones, allege that they fall in love with you after a very short time, want to move in with you or get married after a short time, etc. and the list goes on. That's a bit scary and fits the profile of some issues that would raise red flags in the abuse or worse category. Even long distance relationships were listed as one of the problem areas for potential bad outcomes later. After listening to classes being taught that address these issues, I am going to take a break from this site and just take life one day at a time. I was not abused, but maybe just concerned with some odd behaviors in the past year. I do know some friends who successfully met their true love on a dating site, so it's not all bad, but I will work on my place and enjoy life with my friends and if that "special" someone happens to cross my path, that would be nice, but after too many red flags were raised and I chose to *** through the months this past year, I think taking a break is the best thing for me. I have also lost my two long time best friends this year within 2 months of each other. Life is short and I want to enjoy what I have left. I have been friends with guys most of my life and don't plan on changing that. I would also expect that if a man is friends with women in their lives, I will not change that either. Friends come in all kinds of ways, whether they are furry, human (either sex), or whatever.;I don't want a pickle, I just want to ride my motor-cicle". That's the truth and he once again had me laughing pretty hard. I do have pets and as long as they are alive, I plan on keeping them until their time is done. That to me is my invisible contract of love with them. They are great company and love unconditionally. I prefer that I see a picture of you before talking to you and that you be honest in who you say you are. Honesty and trust should be the foundation of any relationship or even friendship.Good luck with your searches and may you find your true soul mate, best friend and more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gisele

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    First of all, I will try to keep this brief...I'm not a fan of paragraph after paragraph of trying to describe ourselves...that will develop with communication.I love to travel (near and far) and would enjoy someone who likes the same. I love to laugh (I have a very sarcastic sense of humour) and enjoy life, love to spend time with family and friends. My hope is to meet someone to share the good (and yes at times the bad, that's life) with....one who enjoys being happy (without drama), and enjoys time with family and friends.I'm a very positive person yet a realist. I am very young at heart and spirited, very kind-hearted and considerate, and look forward to sharing a great life with my partner. Some people can bs here...not me....I'm an open-book...ask away and I will always be honest! I am very independent and not looking for someone to look after me...I can do that. I miss having someone special in my life and believe there are so many things that are better shared with that special person...looking to make many new and wonderful memories.Oh and I wish to add...with regard to smoking...I had previously quit...it was a huge accomplishment; however, I started smoking very occasionally and discreetly. In fact, most wouldn't even know me as a smoker. And yes....it is time to make the effort to quit again.If you are sincere, honest, not into games, read my profile and believe we are compatible, please send a note :-)I have nothing to hide so I've shared photos (they are recent)...I ask that you please do the same (and they are recent)...that is only fair. If that seems shallow then so be it...Good luck to everyone here! To start, it would be an opportunity to meet and get to know each other a little better in-person. If all goes well, then a first date is in order...something to decide mutually.

  • Carlita

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am strong, open, honest and spiritual. I am looking for a man with similar traits. I have spent time as a single mom and have great relationships with my four grown daughters. Honesty is one of the most important factors in a relationship for me. I would like to connect with someone who has a spiritual awareness. I am growing and learning all the time and hope to find someone who is doing likewise. Now that my children are grown, I have time to spend as I choose. I am still learning about myself every day. I love my life- I have great friends and a very rewarding career. I would like to meet someone who would participate in my life and welcome me into his. We each bring our history, our current life and our unique self into a new relationship. If it's right, these can come together to create an amazing new path that we can walk together. Casual lunch or drinks. A chance to meet and see if there is a connection to pursue.

  • Shreya

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I love more than anything time with the people I love, none of us have enough of it. I am all about romance and although I am a very independent person, I never get tired of being treated like a lady. I love the old fashion way. I am a caretaker by nature,it is part of what I do everyday, so I tend to pamper the one I am with. It means alot to me when someone is attentive thru good times and bad. I am very devoted to the people I care about. I believe nothing, nobody is perfect and I dont take myself too seriously. Laughter is the best medicine, I have seen it heal....I have heard that people with a good sense of humor also tend to be intelligent and honest....what do you think? Lets talk and get to know each other.....you go first.Kali We can decide together, keep it simple.

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