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About Me

I am previously married / have no children. In terms of the relationships we have in our lives, I strongly believe your partner should be your priority, but that it is also important to balance your life among family, friends, work, play, continued learning, alone time, hobbies, relaxation, etc. I love to laugh - enjoy quiet evenings at home with my partner, dining out, good red wine, watching movies, cooking, cooking a romantic meal with my partner, get-togethers with family / friends, adventures / exploring new places with my partner, putting an effort into my fitness, traveling (would love to do more of), weekend getaways, day trips, cottage life, boating, nature, campfires, thunderstorms, walks in the forest, skiing (snow/water), back yard BBQ's, my pet, gardening, reading, just relaxing / doing things around the house. My friends describe me as warm and genuine. I am cheerful, loyal, and enjoy doing things with my significant other who hopefully enjoys many of the same things. I am passionate about the things I believe in. I tend to be direct - I say what I mean and mean what I say, and am looking for same. About the one I'm looking for...Intelligence, a good sense of humour, and the abililty to not take yourself too seriously are important charateristics to me. I detest arrogance, and appreciate someone down to earth.Above all, I am looking for a man of integrity; someone who is dependable, kind, comfortable giving and receiving affection, respects others, emotionally mature/stable, loyal, has a stong work ethic, financially responsible, a good communicator who is open with nothing to hide. Looking for someone who is at the stage where he is ready, looking for a committed relationship / life partner. It is important to me that you have completely moved on from your ex, i.e. both emotionally (that you've taken the time to put your former relationship behind you) and financially (alimony and child support payments a thing of the past). Otherwise, I believe your new relationship becomes complicated / contaminated by the one you are not yet completely out of. Would prefer no children period - not out of selfishness as many people with children seem to think, but because they introduce dynamics, life-long complications into a relationship and never-ending connections to ex-wives. If you do have children, it is important they are at a stage where they are independent, i.e. completed their education and on their own.I would just like to add: I am a one-man woman, and would not be comfortable with someone who is into dating multiple people at once. i.e. if we agree we are dating to see where it takes us, then it is important to me we are dating exclusively, until/unless we agree the match is no longer worth pursuing. Somewhere we can relax and talk so we can get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Henrietta

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I am loving, kind, honest, passionate caring woman with high moral values and a big heart. I love my family and am very proud of my 3 boys. I'm looking to find someone who has a good heart, will love my children, is honest, kind, genuine, not a player but a romantic. I am looking forward to meeting the love of the rest of my life. That someone who makes me melt and see fireworks. That special man to experience new or old thing together, my best friend, lover, someone to cherish and be cherished by. Who better to experience new places, sports events, new foods, antique shopping, family time, walking on the beach or on a trail in the mountains, cuddling, laughing till it hurts with. I love to dress up or down, staying comfy on cold or rainy days to cuddle works for me too.Happiness is important as is my faith. I am a Christian and hope to find a Christian man. I'm a very open person and will always speak from the heart. Looking for a monogamous relationship. One I can feel safe and secure in. Be able to confide my deepest secrets and know he will honor me in keeping them secret. I've read many profiles as I'm sure you have also and seems most men are looking for perfection and will not accept anything less. I suppose that is all in the eye of the beholder. I'm not looking for perfect in the least, only the one that is perfect for me! Romantic surprises, cuddling, intimate conversations, sunsets, special little actions of love, special looks, candle light, walks on the beach, holding hands, or just being held close, wonderful dinners or BBQ's. There is so much I still want to do and see in my lifetime and would love to share it with you. Through the years I've learned to appreciate a variety of things. When your with the right person it just doesn't matter...it's all better. Let me know if you might be the right man for me and want to share that "last first kiss". I think a first date should be somewhere we would both be comfortable. I'd prefer somewhere that's not romantic but somewhere we could communicate with each other, laugh and just be ourselves, maybe have a little fun?

  • Marketta

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Iam here just looking for my soulmate.Iam not here looking for intimate encounters.Iam very honest,loyal,companion,I like good music,theather,cooking,dancing,walking holding hands,reading a good book,soccer,watching tv with my special one and more,Iam very easy and simple person.I consider myself very understanding and i have a lot of love to give for.I love dogs.My favorite colors are blue and red.Iam open mind about culture,religion,political and i appreciate to talk just about anything...i try to live enjoying all good things the life has to offer.I work as hairstylist.In my time free i love painting oil on canvas.Iam a happy woman looking for my soulmate do share life in good and bad ones.If you are married please dont contact me.No drama.No games. The first date must be in a public place like cafe, dinner etc...We will talk about ourselves and about what we are looking for..We must have enough maturity and respect about our diferences and see what happen after the first conversation....

  • Karin

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I have strong Christian Values. Honesty is a must with me(so not even cheating on your income tax). I am not perfect and don't expect perfect. But I do have standard I refuse to change. I have a sense of humour and love to laugh. Love people and conversation. Not an emotional or drama queen. Am often late 5 to 10 mins (trying to change that, but its not working very well, ha ha).I love ***rock, some 80's rock and all country music, I go to dry dances, not usually bars. Love to dance. Look at the bright side of life most of the time. I do not smoke and absolutely disagree with drugs.I don't watch sports, so this could be my free time, as I like to be alone sometimes.Don't want someone around me, needing to be with me 24 hours a day or following me around the house like my dog does. Looking for friendship for now and see if it leads anywhere (slowly). I'm that down to earth, honest women, with a good heart all the men says they are looking for. MUST HAVE PICTURE IN DESCRIPTION, for me to respond to messages. No off island contacts, sorry. Two people getting to know each other who may hit it off and want to spend more time together for coffee, a walk, a concert, a movie. Not rushing into anything. I'm independent and pay my own way.

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