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About Me

I am previously married / have no children. In terms of the relationships we have in our lives, I strongly believe your partner should be your priority, but that it is also important to balance your life among family, friends, work, play, continued learning, alone time, hobbies, relaxation, etc. I love to laugh - enjoy quiet evenings at home with my partner, dining out, good red wine, watching movies, cooking, cooking a romantic meal with my partner, get-togethers with family / friends, adventures / exploring new places with my partner, putting an effort into my fitness, traveling (would love to do more of), weekend getaways, day trips, cottage life, boating, nature, campfires, thunderstorms, walks in the forest, skiing (snow/water), back yard BBQ's, my pet, gardening, reading, just relaxing / doing things around the house. My friends describe me as warm and genuine. I am cheerful, loyal, and enjoy doing things with my significant other who hopefully enjoys many of the same things. I am passionate about the things I believe in. I tend to be direct - I say what I mean and mean what I say, and am looking for same. About the one I'm looking for...Intelligence, a good sense of humour, and the abililty to not take yourself too seriously are important charateristics to me. I detest arrogance, and appreciate someone down to earth.Above all, I am looking for a man of integrity; someone who is dependable, kind, comfortable giving and receiving affection, respects others, emotionally mature/stable, loyal, has a stong work ethic, financially responsible, a good communicator who is open with nothing to hide. Looking for someone who is at the stage where he is ready, looking for a committed relationship / life partner. It is important to me that you have completely moved on from your ex, i.e. both emotionally (that you've taken the time to put your former relationship behind you) and financially (alimony and child support payments a thing of the past). Otherwise, I believe your new relationship becomes complicated / contaminated by the one you are not yet completely out of. Would prefer no children period - not out of selfishness as many people with children seem to think, but because they introduce dynamics, life-long complications into a relationship and never-ending connections to ex-wives. If you do have children, it is important they are at a stage where they are independent, i.e. completed their education and on their own.I would just like to add: I am a one-man woman, and would not be comfortable with someone who is into dating multiple people at once. i.e. if we agree we are dating to see where it takes us, then it is important to me we are dating exclusively, until/unless we agree the match is no longer worth pursuing. Somewhere we can relax and talk so we can get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    First of all, I will try to keep this brief...I'm not a fan of paragraph after paragraph of trying to describe ourselves...that will develop with communication.I love to travel (near and far) and would enjoy someone who likes the same. I love to laugh (I have a very sarcastic sense of humour) and enjoy life, love to spend time with family and friends. My hope is to meet someone to share the good (and yes at times the bad, that's life) with....one who enjoys being happy (without drama), and enjoys time with family and friends.I'm a very positive person yet a realist. I am very young at heart and spirited, very kind-hearted and considerate, and look forward to sharing a great life with my partner. Some people can bs here...not me....I'm an open-book...ask away and I will always be honest! I am very independent and not looking for someone to look after me...I can do that. I miss having someone special in my life and believe there are so many things that are better shared with that special person...looking to make many new and wonderful memories.Oh and I wish to add...with regard to smoking...I had previously quit...it was a huge accomplishment; however, I started smoking very occasionally and discreetly. In fact, most wouldn't even know me as a smoker. And yes....it is time to make the effort to quit again.If you are sincere, honest, not into games, read my profile and believe we are compatible, please send a note :-)I have nothing to hide so I've shared photos (they are recent)...I ask that you please do the same (and they are recent)...that is only fair. If that seems shallow then so be it...Good luck to everyone here! To start, it would be an opportunity to meet and get to know each other a little better in-person. If all goes well, then a first date is in order...something to decide mutually.

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    I\'m honest and warm hearted and don\'t like to play games so please no players. I would enjoy meeting someone who’s ready for a relationship that grows every day with each new experience we share.

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