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Jacqui, 52
United States, Pennsylvania, Phoenixville

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I have read some that have inspired me and helped me realize that it is brave to be so personal in such a public place. So here goes, I have a history that's not all good and perfect. But I'm not in therapy even though I have been divorced twice. Also, I don't do drugs and never have. I am proud to say that I have two boys ***and 11. And YES, they are mine thanks to God's promises and blessings, which are more than I will ever deserve! So if you are still reading, then maybe there's a chance.I am trusting and tolerant of imperfections, but I am not a door mat. I will expect respect at all times, I love to laugh, even if at myself. I find ways to stay active and in shape and am always busy. I cherish the down times too. Also I look stinking good for my age, from head to toe. And yes, I do just put it out there, some of the time. Not always. I am an army brat who grew up in many countries and value learning about people from different cultures and traditions. I am open minded and give people the benefit of the doubt, maybe too much. I was raised by an officer who taught respect is shown at all times and courtesy is a given. My parents and grandparents taught me many life lessons which are still a part of me. I am a Christian, meaning that God is a part of my life and who I look to for guidance and encouragement. He put me here to bring Him the glory, and He deserves that and more for all that He has done for me.I want a man who is strong in who he is, but doesn't take life too seriously that he can't enjoy the fun in the everyday. I want a man who can stand up for what is right, even when it's not popular to do so. A man who knows how to treat a lady without having to be told or taught. The joy of finding new friends is nice, and I don't begrudge that one bit, but really, there's nothing like the feeling of a deep love that you know is real. And it just takes one, the one willing to give a girl a chance. It really depends. I would gladly show up in my jeans and cowboy boots just as much as my black dress and pearls. But really, my goal is to be comfortable, to be able to chat and enjoy where we choose to go. So, I'm game and no, not hard to please...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz British Canadian Korean Spanish
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