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Ashely, 51
United States, Pennsylvania, Phoenixville

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About Me

I am a easy-going, fun-loving, humorous, honest, compassionate, friendly, loyal, classy, and country woman. I'm constantly complimented on my smile and sweet personality. I am a nurturer, because I love making people comfortable and happy. The bar scene is not my thing, but I will have a few drinks socially. I prefer to date within my race. My rural area has very few single men my age to choose from, so I finally resorted to this site where I have met a few nice friends here.I love to travel, dine out, go to the movies, watch sunsets on the beach, sunrises over the lake, snowball fights, walks in the woods, outdoor sports and activities, or just snuggling up on the couch to watch a movie or football. I'm definitely not a "couch potato". I live an active, healthy lifestyle and work out 3 or more days a week. I am not nor will I ever be a "Twiggy", but I am working to get down to my doctor's idea of a healthy weight for me. I prefer my jeans and t-shirts, but can be dazzling in a dress for the right occasion. I can play a piano (grew up playing in my church) and I like all kinds of music except Rap. I have 2 daughters 19 & 20 that are grown and gone to college and working. I really miss them being here every day..maybe I'm still going through the "Empty Nest Syndrome".I was raised a country girl in a good Christian home with traditional values and beliefs. I grew up loving and living in the outdoors while riding horses, fishing, swimming, playing all kinds of sports, hunting, camping, etc....fishing! My favorite foods are Cajun and Mexican cuisine, but I love to cook on the grill, fry fish, and boil those mudbugs.I own my own home and am financially secure. If you are looking for a "sugar momma", or you drink or smoke excessively or do illegal drugs, then keep on looking. I believe for a relationship to be successful, we need to start out as friends, then see how it goes from there. I am not a serial dater! I am looking for that one special guy to steal my heart. Are you out there? Please help me get off this site!WHO I AM FISHING FOR:I want to meet a man that also loves the outdoors, "fishing buddy", easy-going, honest, compassionate, fun-loving, adventurous, financially secure, easy to talk to and not afraid to show affection in public. One who is faithful, and understanding, has a positive outlook on life, and likes to have fun. One who loves to smile and be happy. A man that is looking for his best friend and maybe more. I'll never notice if you gain or lose ***lbs....because when you love someone you love them heart and soul, not lbs. and inches. Message me if you want to know more. Thanks for checking me out. I would love to get to know you over dinner and drinks at a nice, quiet restaurant, but flexible to your suggestions also.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Reggae Western American Football Dance Nascar Outdoor Hobbies
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