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About Me

I am a easy-going, fun-loving, humorous, honest, compassionate, friendly, loyal, classy, and country woman. I'm constantly complimented on my smile and sweet personality. I am a nurturer, because I love making people comfortable and happy. The bar scene is not my thing, but I will have a few drinks socially. I prefer to date within my race. My rural area has very few single men my age to choose from, so I finally resorted to this site where I have met a few nice friends here.I love to travel, dine out, go to the movies, watch sunsets on the beach, sunrises over the lake, snowball fights, walks in the woods, outdoor sports and activities, or just snuggling up on the couch to watch a movie or football. I'm definitely not a "couch potato". I live an active, healthy lifestyle and work out 3 or more days a week. I am not nor will I ever be a "Twiggy", but I am working to get down to my doctor's idea of a healthy weight for me. I prefer my jeans and t-shirts, but can be dazzling in a dress for the right occasion. I can play a piano (grew up playing in my church) and I like all kinds of music except Rap. I have 2 daughters 19 & 20 that are grown and gone to college and working. I really miss them being here every day..maybe I'm still going through the "Empty Nest Syndrome".I was raised a country girl in a good Christian home with traditional values and beliefs. I grew up loving and living in the outdoors while riding horses, fishing, swimming, playing all kinds of sports, hunting, camping, etc....fishing! My favorite foods are Cajun and Mexican cuisine, but I love to cook on the grill, fry fish, and boil those mudbugs.I own my own home and am financially secure. If you are looking for a "sugar momma", or you drink or smoke excessively or do illegal drugs, then keep on looking. I believe for a relationship to be successful, we need to start out as friends, then see how it goes from there. I am not a serial dater! I am looking for that one special guy to steal my heart. Are you out there? Please help me get off this site!WHO I AM FISHING FOR:I want to meet a man that also loves the outdoors, "fishing buddy", easy-going, honest, compassionate, fun-loving, adventurous, financially secure, easy to talk to and not afraid to show affection in public. One who is faithful, and understanding, has a positive outlook on life, and likes to have fun. One who loves to smile and be happy. A man that is looking for his best friend and maybe more. I'll never notice if you gain or lose ***lbs....because when you love someone you love them heart and soul, not lbs. and inches. Message me if you want to know more. Thanks for checking me out. I would love to get to know you over dinner and drinks at a nice, quiet restaurant, but flexible to your suggestions also.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Loria

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello there...I am considered a down to earth easy going lady who enjoys most anything. I’m adventurous but have my limits (no bungie jumping) lol...I enjoy... family, the outdoors, walks on the beach day or night..fishing(bait my own hook)..skeet shooting..cooking/BBQ’s..motorcycle/horseback riding..volleyball..candlit dinners and bubblebaths..reading..music..collecting Native American Indian artifacts.. and watching football games..ect ect. I’d rather regret the things I have done, than the things I have not...Looking for something real and lasting. Have a Great Day!! :o) PS...Profiles with pics get better response Looking for someone loving, caring, attractive, sensitive, strong, confident, honest, open minded and sense of humor a must (laughter *** soul)This quote sums me up..... I might not be someone’s first choice, but I am a great choice. I may not be rich but I am valuable. I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not, because I’m good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things, I’ve done in the past, but I am proud of who I am today. I may not be perfect but I don’t need to be. Take me as I am, or watch me as I walk away. Someplace laid back with a great atmosphere where you can talk, laugh and enjoy the moment. By the water is always a great place.

  • Savanah

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    When people ask me to describe myself I have to say I’m multi-faceted (like a diamond). I love horses, crossfit, most any sport and good food. Trying new restaurants, a road trip for a famous BBQ joint, or cooking a new recipe. I work out on a regular basis and still play in a coed softball league. I'm very active - not one to sit around if there's something going on. I’m attracted to strong men who can wrap their arms around me (while turning me on the dance floor, of course!). Sarcasm is an attribute in my book and so is a dry sense of humor. I like to tease but am never cruel. Laughter is a MUST and if you can laugh at yourself then you probably have the level of self-esteem I might be attracted to. I am proud of my professional achievements and want a man who is not intimidated by my success. I don’t make time to watch too much television; I’d rather be outside or getting physical.I don’t smoke but I understand that some people do and I’ll accept it if it’s occasional; but not if it’s a habit. I am not looking for a man with addictions – you know who you are and what they are and I’m not very tolerant in that respect.I prefer casual to fancy and like beer better than liquor most of the time. I am most comfortable in jeans and boots or shorts and flops. I can dress-up as well, but its not a regular occurrence (except for work!) and would be a special occasion of some kind. I’m not interested in a high maintenance man; you cannot take longer than me to get ready. My ideal age range is ***but if you’re awesome, I’ll make an exception. Age is just a number anyway. I want someone I have common ground with but that can keep up with me and is willing to go and do and enjoy everything life has to offer. I’m willing to travel if you’re worth it. I like a man who can take control but is willing to let me have my way in certain areas. If your interests are similar, maybe we should meet. I can never have enough friends or dance partners so what do we have to lose? Somewhere and something simple where we can visit and get to know each other a little bit; then if things click, we can go on a real date.

  • Mariela

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking for a good hearted man who's a cowboy that's a knight in shinning armor. I have been lucky in life to have had unique opportunities. Working with kids always keeps me on my toes and learning new things, and I like to try different/new things. Kids have a way of showing you the world. It's fun and energizing to get out and do things, see friends or just take it easy... I love spaghetti and rice (I am Italian and Spanish), cheese and beer(grew up in southern WI), peanut butter and jelly is still one of my favorite sandwiches(still working on growing up), I really like sushi(lived in Japan) and there is nothing quite like a good side of beef cooked (by you of course)on the grill(that comes from growing in cow country)...going for walks, canoeing, boating, watching movies or going to the theater, eating out - dining in, reading, catching up with friends, watching storms - stormy weather is good... I heard it makes the corn grow!!I like an array of music, ole time rock, 40's/50's, country, Latin... even a little opera (what can I say my parents liked it). Music makes the soul sing. I enjoy dancing; I hear music and my foot starts a tapping and the next thing I know I'm dancing. I also like looking at old cars(not sure where that comes from)I look forward to meeting someone with different interests as well as similar because it's fun to learn new things. But more importantly, it is the sense of self our interests create during our free time and wanting to share that with others as a reflection of who we are.Being outside is great, the never ending feeling of the sky at any hour of the day or night is awesome. Well at this point in life, as I am finding that I have more time to myself, I am redefining what I do.What am I looking for (loaded question)sometimes I would like to think I know... But it is some kind of a click - a connection that's there. Then that connection leads to spending time getting to know each other and wanting to spend more time together. Laughing and having fun is always good, and being realistic too. Life does have its everyday side to it but laughing seems to help that. An important element to a strong relationship is mutual attraction, it is the feeling two people get when they are around each other...best friend, soul mate, unexplained chemistry.. I know that a relationship is like hard wood floors; they ebb and flow with the weather and take work to keep looking like new.I look forward to meeting you and see if we have a connection. On a first date, that is when we initially meet, I think a drink/coffee or dinner is a great way to talk and see if there is a connection. Although stepping out of the norm could be fun too, say something like... going to Valley Fair or bowling... Let's talk and come up with something!

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