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Jaydon, 53
United States, Pennsylvania, Phoenixville

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About Me

Let me start by saying that I am no where near being perfect and I've definitely made my mistakes along the way and have learned from them. I've realized that it's usually a man who can bring out the best in a woman so I'm hoping to find that special person who will bring out the very best in me. I'm romantic, spontaneous, independent, and a true friend. I'm secure, and responsible. Friends consider me funny and someone who they enjoy being around. Must be my witty sense of humor..lolol. I know when to be professional, but also have a wild side on occasion where I enjoy letting loose :-) I guess you would say I'm responsible but very fun! I'm very blessed to have a great group of friends. I love adventure and travel and have done so extensively in Central America. I also lived in Guatemala and Honduras for several years. My time there was nothing less than amazing. I have the travel bug and hope to do more with my partner, Time spent with close friends and family helps keep me sane/grounded. Balance in life is important to me. I'm looking for someone to share all that life has to offer. I'm looking for a man who is active and somewhat fit or height/weight proportionate. You enjoy a career that is challenging and fulfilling. You can carry on a conversation about a wide variety of subjects, yet you reserve the ability to laugh at yourself, and with me, rather than at me - although the latter is often easy to do...haha Like me, you seek someone to help smooth out the edges of an already well-rounded life. Finally, I believe that being selective is a great thing. Too many people fear being alone. I'm very comfortable being alone and prefer it to being in a relationship that doesn't stimulate me in a variety of arenas. There are many great people out there but not everyone is great for each other. I never take offense if someone were to delete an e-mail I sent them or write back, "Thanks but no thanks." Honesty is definitely the best policy.Also, would like to add that although I have three children, only one lives with me. She is the love of my life and the best souvenir ever! I adopted her while I was in Guatemala. Also, if you are just looking for a casual hook-up, I'm not your girl! Thanks and happy hunting.... I'm open as far as a first date is concerned. I'm really easy to get along with so dinner is usually fine although is you aren't comfortable with that and just want to do coffee or a coctail, that is fine too!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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